FabSwingers.com: A (51) , Man in Scotland & Brazil, Scotland, UK

Brains first, bodies later. But ideally, both at altitude.

After years spent crossing time zones for work, I now travel for pleasure—and perhaps, if stars align, for connection. It would be a rare joy to share new corners of the world with someone who sees beyond borders and believes freedom is more than a destination. Your location isn’t important—just be near an airport and open to the idea that adventures are better when shared. A fellow nomad in spirit or practice would be ideal: someone with a flexible life and a liberal mind.

As for me—I’m tall, confident, and carry myself with the ease of someone who knows who he is. I’ve lived on five continents and carry the scents, sounds, and textures of each within me. A professional by day, but beneath the suit lives a playful, slightly deviant soul who believes that pleasure is a slow conversation, not a fast transaction.

I cycle, run, row, or swim most days—not just for the endorphins but because motion keeps my mind sharp and my body tuned. Broad shoulders (yes, twice mentioned), blue eyes, and a firm hand—for those who want or need it.

I value time, experience over everything, and connection far more than possessions or performance. I live across three places and juggle a sometimes-chaotic life, so when I offer my attention, it’s never casual. Life’s too short for small talk and shallow touch. I’m not interested in fast or disposable encounters. I prefer connections that unfold: a voice, a message, a meeting, a spark… the kind of slow burn that ignites when minds and bodies both say yes.

If you've ever browsed under Her name was Lola, that’s our couple profile. Lola and I shared many adventures—but sadly, she finds British weather too bleak and now spends most of her time in sunny Rio. She’s still very much part of my life and fully endorses these solo explorations.

I bring respect, humour, and just enough kink to keep things interesting. I like to get to know people before play—a long look over wine, a teasing message, a late-night call. There’s something delicious about anticipation, don’t you think?

Five continents, one craving: depth.

Seeking someone who knows the difference between desire and distraction.

Conversations that linger. Touches that learn.

So if you’re a woman—or a couple—who values curiosity, conversation, and connection, and you’d enjoy talking to a gentleman who listens, laughs, and occasionally leads with a wicked grin… I’d love to hear from you.

Thanks for reading. I wink with purpose—if I send one, it's because you intrigued me. If you return it, I’ll take that as a cue to step a little closer.

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