FabSwingers.com: Guy (45) , Man in Ayrshire/Aberdeen, Scotland, UK

Back after a 6 month break, if you recognise me please get in touch and kindly re-verify, I’ll reciprocate.

I’ve been on and off of this site a few times over the last 4 years since my divorce.

I have had some amazing experiences with single females, couples, and small groups alike, and have learned a lot of valuable and positive lessons along the way…..and want to continue!

I am at a stage now where I want to use those valuable lessons to find a life partner, a soulmate….a long term partner in crime.

I want to move forward with the right person with a view to sharing a swinging lifestyle together.

It will take time, trust, compersion (look it up if you haven’t heard of it) and a very positive and exciting connection.

Yes I know this isn’t a dating site, and I’m not treating it as such. Instead I’m using this site as an opportunity maker.

Now….I have patience as I know this will take time, and I’m certainly not desperate because I know my person IS out there!!

I want to find a beautiful, sexually positive, like-minded woman who can match my values as well as my needs.

I am willing to wait for ‘the one’ and I feel this is the place to find that person.

Meanwhile I’m happy to play on a NSA basis with couples and single fems whilst I wait. (Let’s be honest, we all have need of intimacy and excitement)

I am a confident, emotionally mature, secure and intelligent man. I have a high sex drive (which I’m not ashamed of). I’m kinky, VERY open minded, and a lot of fun.

So my plan in the meantime (whilst I wait for fate to deal its hand) is as follows:

COUPLES:

I have met with couples in my time on here and had a fantastic time playing with them. I have admired their connection and dynamics (and hope to find the same one day….I have had a couples profiles in the past…..but to no avail) helped them fulfill many a fantasy, and had a fantastic time along the way!

(Please understand guys that I’m not out to try steal your woman….far from it!)

I’m happy to continue meeting solid, genuine couples in the meantime whilst on my search as it’s something I really enjoy and learned a lot from.

But please, don’t treat me like a man who’s not been there…I’ve had more than one couples profile on here in the past, so I’ve been both sides of the fence….please respect that.

SINGLE FEMALES:

This is the important one!!!!

I am happy to safely meet single fems for whatever dynamic takes their (and my) fancy.

I’ll happily be a one off, a FWB or FB, someone to help realise certain fantasies, and even be a chaperone (and participate) at sex clubs, parties etc, as long as it’s fun, positive, and there is an understanding.

BUT…I want ‘the one’, and she is out there, and hopefully this person will present themselves (probably when I least expect it!)

I will know her when I find her, and I’m willing to bide my time. In the meantime I’ll happily play with NSA until someone proves their worth!

But PLEASE if you have some need for validation, have an unhealthy relationship style, or feel in some way you are entitled, please pass me by! I have standards, I am happy in my own company, doing my own thing, and leading a happy life! I have discernment and standards, and by no means desperate…….so, please be genuine! I have no regard for time waisters or immaturity.

EVERYONE:

Happy to social….happy to meet….happy to travel (love driving, love visiting new places)….happy to communicate in whatever way is convenient.

Give me a message if you’ve interested, be great to have a chat and see what you’re looking for, and if you have read this far please include- “Popping Pineapples” at the beginning of your message so I know you’ve read my profile.

Happy fabbing everyone…

Guy x

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