FabSwingers.com: E (40) , Woman in North East , North East, UK

Shrinking SSBBW on weight loss journey after surgery, learning my limits one experience at a time, bi curious but very little experience with ladies looking for safe fun times.

No married or attached men unless your partners in the know please.

If you have issues with me talking to other people while we talk don't message me. I'm only interested in respectful and genuine people. I don't do humiliation or degradation and I don't accept it either. I'm not in to pee or poo so please don't ask!!

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SÈX SECRETS WOMEN DON’T TELL ANYONE — BUT EVERY MAN SHOULD KNOW…

Men, listen. There are things your woman will never say out loud not because she’s secretive, but because she wants you to figure them out. These are the unspoken truths that separate ordinary lovers from unforgettable ones.

She gets turned on long before you ever touch her. Desire often begins with how you talk to her, how you look at her, and how you make her feel seen. Foreplay doesn’t start in the bedroom; it starts with how you treat her throughout the day.

She notices your smell more than your size. A clean, fresh-smelling man can awaken a woman faster than a gym built body. Hygiene is one of the most powerful and underrated turn-ons for women.

She doesn’t always want penetration sometimes she wants connection. There are nights when she just wants to feel your hands, your breath, and your warmth. When you rush straight to the act, you skip the part that matters most: emotional intimacy.

She loves to be watched, but never judged. Many women secretly enjoy being admired during intimacy, but the moment she feels shy, insecure, or compared, she will shut down. Safety and acceptance fuel her desire.

Whispering turns her on more than shouting. A soft tone, calling her name, or moaning gently in her ear can drive her wild. Passion isn’t always loud; sometimes it’s the quiet that burns the deepest.

The way you touch her thighs tells her what kind of lover you are. Slow, intentional touches communicate control and desire. Rushed hands communicate selfishness. Women crave pace, not pressure.

Faking it is often easier than explaining what she truly wants. If she moans too early or sounds perfect every time, she may be trying to protect your ego rather than express her pleasure. Learn to read her body, not just her sounds.

She wants you to explore her mind before her body. A woman’s strongest erogenous zone is her mind. When she feels emotionally stimulated, she is far more willing to surrender physically.

She craves aftercare. After intimacy, she wants your warmth cuddling, gentle conversation, or even quiet closeness. This isn’t extra; it’s part of her satisfaction and emotional safety.

The best lovers don’t just make her scream; they make her remember. Every woman remembers the man who made her feel safe, wanted, and understood not just the one who made her climax.

Men, don’t just study her body. Study her silence, her reactions, and her needs. That’s where her real pleasure lives.

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