FabSwingers.com: Steven (68) & Elaine (71) , Couple in Portsmouth , South East, UK

Update 2nd April 2026

For some reason we seem to be getting a lot of requests from guys asking us for people's names and Fab usernames, of people that attend our parties.

Let us state quite categorically that we will not give out other people's details without their permission to do so, and no we will not be contacting them with your details letting them know you are trying to contact them or ask them if they give permission for their details to be passed on to you, if we receive such a request, your message will be ignored.

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Hello and welcome to our party profile. We are a fun loving married couple of 48 years.

Our names are Elaine and Steven. We love the lifestyle and have made many good friends along the way. We are looking to make some more new ones moving forward.

If your message is not regarding our parties, then we will not respond to your message here.

If you are looking to chat and or meet up with us as a couple, outside of the party environment, then please use our couple profile on fab. The profile name is letshavemorefun.

Please read the profile carefully and to the end (we know it is long, but it is only 5 minutes of your life) particularly if this is the first time you have visited this profile or you have not been to one of our parties before or if this is going to be your first party experience.

We run 5 different types of party and a description of each is set out below, but before that, some facts from last year's parties.

We held 18 Friends and Co parties last year and the figures are an average for each party.

On average we invited:-

8 couples and 7 turned up.

3 single ladies and 3 turned up.

1 TV and 0.75 turned up.

22 single men and 5 turned up.

So as you can see we definitely had a problem with single guys showing up. This will be reflected later in the profile.

Now for the description of each type of party.

Friends And Co Party (code F&C)

These parties are normally held on a Saturday night, starting at 8pm. There is no entry after 9pm unless agreed upon in advance. The party is in a very relaxed, non-pressured environment, where all are welcome.

We endeavour to keep the numbers fairly even between males and females. There is no end time, but typically most parties wrap up around midnight.

Greedy Girls Day or Night Party (code GGD/GGN)

These parties would normally be held on a Wednesday. Daytime parties start at 2pm / nighttime parties start at 8pm, last entry 1 hour after the start, unless agreed upon in advance.

The party would have a minimum of 2 & maximum of 9 ladies who have a big appetite and desire to have sex with many partners. So we tend to invite 3 men to each lady attending.

Males attending will be expected to take full part in the proceedings. As the name suggests, these girls are greedy and need to be satisfied.

Gangbang Party (no code)

These parties are not advertised. They are by request only and are for a single lady. Designed around her needs and is by personal invite only. (We are merely here to host the event) If this is the party you are looking for, you must request this in your message regarding the party type.

Swink Party (code SWN)

These parties are normally held on a Saturday night, starting at 8pm. There is no entry after 9pm unless agreed upon in advance, there is no set end time.

The party is in a very friendly, relaxed atmosphere, where all are welcome, but is aimed at the more adventurous and open minded or those that might like to dip their toes into the kink side of things for the first time in a safe non-pressured environment.

The difference between this party and an F&C is, the introduction of the kink element.

The playrooms will be themed towards a certain kink i.e. a swingers room, rope play room, restraint/flogging room and so on.

Social Party (code SOC)

These parties are new to us and we are calling them “The Wymering Social”. We are going to be holding them on a Friday, starting at 8pm, last entry 9pm unless agreed in advance.

The aim is to provide a very relaxed, non-pressured environment, where like minded people can mingle/chat and meet old friends and hopefully make some new ones.

Where we believe this will differ from other socials, is that we have the playrooms upstairs. So if you hit it off at the party and can't wait to organise your follow up meet to eventually have some naughty fun, you can take it upstairs.

However, this is a social meet not a free for all. So you can only go upstairs with an agreed partner(s) and once you have finished you are expected to return downstairs.

Clothes can only be removed once upstairs and must be put back on before returning to the social area.

If you are looking for a party invite. Please pick a date and type of party you would like to attend from the dates provided below. If the party is not full. We will put you on the guest list and send out the details a week before the event, or as soon as we get your request if that is made in the week leading up to the party.

BUT BE WARNED. You WILL NOT be able to get a party invite if your profile does not have public photos of your face (in the case of a couple, yours and your partner's face), unless you have put face photos in your message to us requesting a party invite.

Once you have chosen the party(s) that you would like to attend and have been added to the guest list, your place will only be confirmed, once you receive the official invite (this will be sent to you a week before the event or sooner if your party request is received in the week leading up to the party) and we've received your confirmation of attendance (and in the case of single men, your contribution has been made).

A contribution is expected towards the party costs and is set out below:-

Friends And Co Party

Couples - 20 pounds

Single males - 20 pounds

TV - 20 pounds

Single females - 10 pounds

Greedy Girls Day/Night Party

Single males - 20 pounds

TV - 20 pounds

Couples - 10 pounds

Single females - No contribution required.

The Wymering Social

This is 5 pounds per head and is cash only on the door.

Gangbang Party (this is not advertised)

The contribution will be agreed upon between the host and the party requesting the event.

Swink Party

Single - males 20 pounds

Couples - 20 pounds

TV - 20 pounds

Single females - 10 pounds

This is where the reflection on last year's figures comes into play.

SINGLE GUYS

Party contribution MUST be prepaid in advance of the party. (payment needs to be received at least 24 hours prior to the event) and is non refundable.

We appreciate that shit happens. So as long as you let us know (before the party starts) that you are unable to attend, then you can carry your contribution over to another party. But you can only do this once.

The link to pay in advance will be in the official party invitation. This is sent out one week prior to the event.

Just follow the link.

Shop all

Choose a date

Choose your category (single male)

Attend

Enter your email

Make your contribution

At checkout add your fab username in the “add notes to seller” box so we can match payments to names on the guest list.

Once you have made your contribution, then message us again on fab to confirm that you have done so.

ALL OTHERS

Party contributions are either prepaid in advance of the party using link (payment needs to be received at least 24 hours prior to the event) or cash or door. This is non refundable.

The link to pay in advance will be in the official party invitation. This is sent out one week prior to the event.

Just follow the link.

Shop all

Choose a date

Choose your category (couple, single female, etc)

Attend

Enter your email

Make your contribution

At checkout add your fab username in the “add notes to seller” box so you can be added to the guest list.

Once you have made your contribution, then message us again on fab to confirm that you have done so.

If you cannot or choose not to pay in advance (this does not include single males) you can make your contribution upon entry (cash only), at 50% higher than the advertised contribution rate.

We also offer overnight accommodation at 35 pounds per night. This does not include your party contribution, but does include full English breakfast or continental if preferred. If you are staying more than one night, this will also include an evening meal.

Accommodation is cash only. Paid on arrival at the party or on the day of arrival if different to the party date, if you require this service please state this in your party request message to us.

Once on the guest list (our time is precious to us) please don't waste it by asking us lots of questions that are answered within our profile (please read it carefully) a guest list will appear a week before any party. So once posted you can look for yourself to see who is coming.

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The dates of our parties are as follows:-

CODE

(SOC) = Social Party

(F&C) = Friends & Co Party

(GGN) = Greedy Girls Night Party

(GGD) = Greedy Girls Day Party

(LBP) = Leanne's Birthday Party

(SWN) = Swink Party (mix of swing & kink)

(PP) = Private Party

(BBQ) = Swingers BBQ Party

(NYE) = New Years Eve Party

MAY

Wed 27th (GGD) 2pm Start

Sat 30th (Private party)

JUNE

Sat 6th (SWN) 8pm start

Wed 17th (GGN) 8pm start

Sat 20th (F&C) 8pm start

JULY

Sat 4th (BBQ) 4pm Start (Private)

Wed 15th (GGD) 2pm Start

Sat 18th (F&C) 8pm start

Sat 25th (SWN) 8pm start

Wed 29th (Private party)

AUGUST

Wed 5th (GGD) (LBP) 2pm Start

Sat 8th (F&C) 8pm start

Sat 22nd (F&C) 8pm start

Wed 26th (GGN) 8pm start

SEPTEMBER

Sat 5th (SWN) 8pm start

Sat 12th (F&C) 8pm start

Wed 23rd (GGD) 2pm Start

OCTOBER

Sat 10th (F&C) 8pm start

Wed 14th (GGD) 2pm Start

Sat 24th (SWN) 8pm start

NOVEMBER

Wed 4th (GGN) 8pm start

Sat 14th (F&C) 8pm start

Sat 21st (SWN) 8pm start

Wed 25th (GGD) 2pm Start

DECEMBER

Sat 12th (F&C) 8pm start

Wed 16th (GGD) 2pm Start

Sat 19th (SWN) 8pm start

Sun 27th (F&C) 8pm start

Thu 31st (NYE Party) (Private party)

We reserve the right to deny entry and all dates are subject to change, a donation towards costs is expected.

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The guest list for our Greedy Girls Daytime Party on Wednesday 27th May, starting at 2pm will appear here one week before the event.

TH = Throuple

C = Couple

F = Female

M = Male

TV = Tgirls

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Our parties take place in Cosham, Portsmouth (PO6), parties start at 8pm unless otherwise stated. There is no fixed end time.

A buffet, tea, coffee, soft drinks and bottled water will be provided at all our parties. You are welcome to bring your own drinks, soft or alcoholic. But we do ask that you do not get intoxicated. If you do, you will be asked to leave.

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We are looking for our guests to have a good time in a safe non-pressured environment, whether that be sexually or socially, the choice is entirely yours.

The house parties are in a spacious house with 4 main playrooms, a space for massage, a large social area, an outdoor smoking zone, with plenty of parking, (Please do not park in our neighbours' driveways).

In each playroom there is a bin, please use them. Towels, lube and wet wipes are provided. Also, a wand (please remember to clean before & after using).

You can make as much noise as you like, scream, moan and squirt, all the beds are waterproof protected against spillages lol.

We are not interested in your body shape or the size of your equipment. It takes all sorts to make up this glorious world.

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PARTY ETIQUETTE

Friends And Co, Greedy Girls and Social Parties are inclusive events and open to all. The Gangbang and BDSM Parties are by personal invitation only. The same PARTY ETIQUETTE applies for all.

Stigma and discrimination will not be tolerated. We operate a 1 strike rule.

As with all swingers parties and events. There are rules to be followed for everyone to feel valued...

YES this is a swingers party, however this does NOT guarantee sex.

NO means NO.

NO DRUGS allowed. If you need this to enjoy a swingers party, you’re doing it wrong! Remember we operate a 1 strike rule. This is to ensure the enjoyment of others, as well as yourself.

Likewise, with alcohol. You can bring your own booze, but if you are intoxicated you WILL be asked to leave.

Always ask to join in before you touch.

Always respect each other. The majority of our participants prefer bareback SEX, ask before you cover up, some ladies will dry out and play will stop.

It's YOUR responsibility to test regularly for STI. Some guests may ask you to show recent results. Be prepared to show your latest test results if asked.

Gentlemen, NO SOCKS in the playrooms, you yourself are under no obligation to get naked, but your feet do. (By a number of ladies' requests)

Make an effort and dress smartly. Good personal hygiene is a must. A shower is available. Fingernails should be clean, trimmed and not sharp.

We operate a NO CLOSED Door policy.

Videoing and the taking of pictures in the play rooms is permitted so long as the following is applied - you need to seek the permission of all those in the playroom you intend to video and or take pictures of before you start, if anyone enters the room whilst you are videoing and or taking pictures you must stop and gain the permission of those entering the room before continuing. If at any time permission is not given then you are NOT permitted to video or take pictures, any attempt to do so will result in you being asked to leave and banned from attending future events.

Make an effort to communicate, join in, socialise, this will help make new friends and create opportunities for play.

Don’t be a panda or a meerkat, make sure everyone involved is having a GREAT time.

Gentlemen, don't try to bend the ladies into odd shapes. Flexibility reduces with maturity, but experience increases.

Agree safe words and use them if needed, do not compromise your boundaries/limits.

When you've finished playing, make way for others to have some fun. Don’t hog the bed.

If you experience any problems then please bring them to the attention of Elaine or myself (preferably at the party) and we will deal with it promptly.

Verify your experience on FAB. We will return a verification.

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Thank you for reading our profile till the end, we hope that you will attend one or more of our parties.

Love Elaine and Steven

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