FabSwingers.com: Freyia (60) , Woman in Croydon , Greater London, UK

Tested regularly: all clear Feb 26

Summary (read this bit at the very least). I’m a kinky (submissive) post op trans woman (my own functioning pussy and tits). I’m looking for FWBs, polyam partners and party invites. NOT LOOKING FOR - bigots, keyboard wankers or wham, bam gone in 5 minutes types. While my profile says I will meet smokers (and I will) my preference is non smokers. So if you do smoke, you need to be doubly interesting! Also, I’m woke as fuck. I don’t knowingly fuck Tories! In a similar vein, if you are anti-vax don’t message me. I don’t get along with the wilfully ignorant and stupid! I don’t do cyber and I don’t do drop-of-the-hat type first meets. I don’t know how to wrestle (I do know how to act)! … and to all the people who word their message as if I’m more than one person, that particular mental illness isn’t one of mine!

For a real chance of getting in my knickers or mouth (I always swallow) read the rest…

My profile was getting messy from so many additions being slotted in so I’ve decided a rewrite is in order.

I’ll start with the simple stuff - though I have no doubt it isn’t going to be clear enough for some of the simpletons out there.

Some things not to do if you want to avoid being blocked.

I AM A POST OP TRANS WOMAN (I have a functional pussy and my own natural tits) if that is too much for you to handle just keep going and leave me alone.

Don’t send me a friend request until we have chatted and are moving towards meeting.

Don’t be a bigot, either in your message or your profile. Racism isn’t “just your preference” it’s racism. Homophobia, transphobia, ableism etc will all find you on my blocked list.

Winks and one line messages. If you haven’t got a profile photo up AND it be interesting to me I won’t even look at your profile. If I do look at your profile it needs to grab my attention in a good way. If I open your message and don’t reply please assume I’m not interested. Pestering will likely get you blocked.

If you are a single bloke pretending to be a couple I can spot you a mile off. We won’t meet and you will likely be blocked.

I DO NOT play while under the influence of alcohol or drugs nor do I play with anyone who is! Messages like “I’ve just got a load of gear, wanna come round and get high then fuck” will certainly land you on the block list.

Do be polite, engaging and demonstrate that you’ve at least skimmed my profile and not just perved at my pictures.

Ok. The good stuff!

I’m a kinky pansexual polyamorous trans woman with a very submissive nature. I like kinky meets with individuals, couples and groups of sexy people. I’m primarily looking for quality over quantity (though I have been known to attend gang bang type meets and have recently popped my dogging cherry (Feb 2022 - see my verifications). Outside that, I don’t do drop of the hat meets for sex... I ALWAYS meet socially or chat a lot here or phone or WhatsApp before falling into bed (or being tied to it). I’m also open to club and party invites.

Being pan, I don’t really have a physical “type” but I will want to know what you look like before we meet (and it will have to match what you look like when we do meet). I don’t insist on a face pic in the first message or that your profile has public face pics, mine doesn’t after I got propositioned in the street by a stranger who had seen me on here. Don’t worry if you aren’t a Norse god(dess) because neither am I (regardless of my username), just be honest.

On the subject of meets, If we have a meet set up you will need to be communicating with me as the date approaches... two reasons for this: (1) I need to be confident that you will show up, I’m fed up of being stood up. (2) While I will put it in my diary if I can’t remember who I’m meeting (ADHD) I won’t go myself. So talk to me!

A special note for all you thirsty single guys out there… I get LOTS of messages from single guys, so if you want a decent chance at a reply you need to stand out... NOT make your message as brief as you possibly can! Also if I don’t reply to you it means I’m not interested, if I do reply and say I’m not interested it’s safe to say I’m not interested and you will get blocked if you keep pestering; it just tells me you can't do communication or consent in which case I am not spending time with you. Also, guys... I do not owe you a reply if you have messaged me just the same as I don't owe you my attention if you catcall me in the street. If your profile says you think I do you are LESS likely to get a reply (see consent above and add entitlement).

As a submissive I'm occasionally asked what my limits are... Not a lot

I don't do vomit

I don't do anything that will land me in A&E

I don’t play when anyone involved is under the influence of drugs or alcohol.

I don't involve anyone who has not consented to be involved

I don't do cyber (boring)

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==

100% Submissive

100% Masochist

100% Degradee

100% Rope bunny

100% Non-monogamist

98% Sl@ve

97% Brat

94% Primal (Prey)

80% Experimentalist

75% Pet

66% Exhibitionist

47% Voyeur

25% Boy/Girl

18% Vanilla

16% Ageplayer

2% Primal (Hunter)

2% Brat tamer

1% Daddy/Mommy

0% Rigger

0% Dominant

0% Degrader

0% Owner

0% Master/Mistress

0% Sadist

0% Switch

Anyone wishing to engage in BDSM play with me please take a look at this assessment page and address any issues it highlights… https://www.riskinformed.org/

I’m not going to do the “use this subject to prove you’ve read my profile” thing, but if your message makes it blatantly obvious that you haven’t you will just get blocked. The number of messages I get from people asking to be my sub etc is mind boggling!

To Sydney University, you are welcome to use my pictures and info for your studies, but I’m a LOT more interesting in person. Please send a return ticket and I’d be happy to come and demonstrate.

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