FabSwingers.com: J (41) , Man in Wallington, Greater London, UK

Dad Bodesque sporty (cough) person here. I like sports but admit that I dont get on with training or the gym. I just prefer more to turn up and give it what I got no matter my current fitness level. The approach seems to have worked out in the past. 12x Tough Mudder events should show you that I have at least got the physical and mental stamina side of things down.

I’m not just on here for the sex, although I can’t lie that is what initially brought me here. Having been to a few events and met some genuine people along the way I have to say that getting to know someone is just as much fun as getting down to it.

Message to the gents on here. Yes, I consider myself Bi, but that does not mean I am on her looking to hook up with solo men. Multiple messages without me responding will just get blocked. If im in that mood, ill reach out.

I am up for meeting couples etc for Bi Fun, and attend the odd Bi social, but im not on here to meet other guys. I appreciate the attention, but its just not for me at the moment. The chances of me responding to hook up requests from guys is getting smaller and smaller.

I am chilled out, relaxed person who has just turned over a new leaf. I used to be a shy guy who avoided interaction but is now living life as a "what the hell, you only live once" ideology. I don’t bite so drop me a message. I like to cam, social meet, and club meet etc. I am very open minded and very little phases me.

Ok maybe not so brief, but if you want to know more about me then we can chat on here or meet up as this will go on and on forever otherwise.

Happy hunting.

Last tested and clear Jan 2026

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==

100% Exhibitionist

100% Voyeur

69% Non-monogamist

58% Experimentalist

52% Vanilla

50% Rope bunny

48% Switch

46% Ageplayer

46% Daddy/Mommy

45% Submissive

42% Dominant

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