FabSwingers.com: Dom (59) , Man in Coventry, West Midlands, UK

Experienced STRAIGHT DOM ,looking for fellow kinksters ! , not porno movie stars ! I never send cock pictures, funny enough I grew out of that aged 16 and 3/4 .

Expect total honesty and respect no less ! ??

I am positive thinker, experienced,intelligent, thoughtful, intuitive, caring, strong, social, dominant,adventurous.

Artistic,animal lover, great sense of humor, cheeky charming, tactile,and above all HONEST ! . Here to explore/develop/discover! I'm happy, assertive and equally, genial company. I am straight, broadminded and find myself a natural to the Alt lifestyle. I enjoy indulging my kinks and masculinity, enjoy visits to clubs when the occasion arises. I enjoy the play between rough and gentle, caress and CONTROL. I am articulate, and adventurous. My nature is sociable, outgoing, humorous and I enjoy the friendships that can develop in open, honest people.

written by a young woman for young women and if it doesn't line up with your personal experience, please write about on your own page.

So you're a young lady who's into older guys. Great! There are plenty of reasons a young woman would want to be with an older man. Maybe you're into grey hair, the older man voice, or maybe you just want to be with someone who doesn't get all grossed out when you're on your period. All great reasons, but it doesn't matter, you don't need to justify your desires. However, you've probably realized that there is a difference between an Older Gentleman and a Dirty Old Man. You've also probably realized that the scene is CRAWLING with Dirty Old Men. So how do you, younger lady, go about finding your own silver fox? I'm glad you asked.

There's a secret to finding an Older Gentleman and it is this: you have to approach him. The ones that approach you are probably Dirty Old Men.

Why? Because an Older Gentleman cares more about your comfort than he cares about getting young pussy. A Dirty Old Man cares more about getting young pussy than anything. It's not that the Older Gentleman doesn't want to go to town on your sweet, young, cunt. He totally does, but he wouldn't want to risk being a creep by hitting on you. If you want an Older Gentleman to flirt with you, you have to make it very clear that his attention is desired.

As a woman it can be hard to make the first move. We're taught to be coy, to bat our eyelashes and giggle rather than to introduce ourselves and ask for a phone number. Approaching people is SCARY. But it's worth it, trust me. All you have to do is walk up to him and say "hi." Maybe say your name or something. He'll probably help you out with conversing once you've approached him. Ask for contact information, and message/text/carrier pigeon him within the week after meeting. Be as subtle as a brick through a window.

Once you make it clear you're interested, he'll warm up to you. He's just aware that many cute kinky girls are fed the fuck up with Dirty Old Men. He gets that you are a person and you deserve a safe space to be kinky regardless of his desires. Dirty Old Men only care about themselves. Older Gentleman care about their effect on the people around them.

If nothing else, you'll at least learn to approach people, which is a valuable life skill anyway. So grab your net and go forth young fox huntress! May your game be the shiniest of silver.

NO MEN thanks !

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To: Sydney University ....fill yer boots !!

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