Friends with benefits, friends in general or even just the occasional
Man in
Bridgwater,
South West,
UK
Joined: 11 months ago
Last on: 4 hours ago
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Couples (MF)
Couples (MM)
Couples (FF)
Men
Women
TV/TS
aged 18 to 99.
Will meet smokers.
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accommodate.
Can
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ben
47 years old
Bisexual
6'1"
185cm
Large
Non smoker
Social drinker No tattoos No piercings
Interests
Adult Parties, Anal, Blindfolds, Dogging, Gangbangs, Group Sex, Oral, Safe Sex, Same Room Swapping, Separate Room Swapping, SM, Soft Swing, Swingers Clubs, Threesomes, Toys, Voyeurism, Watersports
Hi I'm Ben, a 47year old chubster living in Bridgwater Somerset, my sexual identity is pansexual, if you have the personality to turn me on then it doesn't matter what you have in your underwear I'm interested in meeting you and hopefully being friends.
the face fuzz in my profile pic isn't a permanent fixture and a close shave is my preferred face to play with but I don't shave very often so please don't be put off by it.
I'm not massively experienced at anything other than normal missionary position sex with women or me on my hands and knees with a guy but I'm open minded enough to try most things twice before deciding if it's for me or not so if you have something you are keen to try but don't have anyone to try it with hit me up and we can chat about it, with women I've always adopted an equal mindset whereas with guys I am naturally a bottom with submissive tendencies.
with any partner regardless of their gender I am more interested in satisfying their needs than my own so don't think you are getting a quick cum and go with me, I like to take time with a partner to enjoy ourselves properly, especially as I love to perform oral sex on my partners.
I enjoy reading erotic fiction which I guess makes me a bit of a deviant because many of the things I read turn me on something rotten even though they are things I'd never do, I won't go into detail but very often the more...... Explicit, dark, unusual, hardcore then the more exciting I find it.
my only absolute rules are a social meet before anything sexual happens to check each other out, it can be a simple as a meet for a coffee for an hour beforehand or a whole different meet but to protect both of us I will not engage in a turn up and get naked situation.
I always practice safe sex and it is not negotiable , yes I agree it feels great to not use it but it's a condition on my playing.
I will not do poop play or blood play, they just don't interest me.
Yes I am married but no my wife doesn't play, she isn't into anything remotely kinky but is ok with me playing as long as I play safe and I don't keep secrets from her so if you don't want me telling her what we got up to then don't get in touch.
I don't judge people on their age, race or interests so please don't feel you can't contact me if there is something you aren't sure about, I will chat with anyone who is nice and wants a proper chat.
An item I really hope to tick off my bucket list this year is to watch, the idea of voyeurism is a mega turn on for me and I'd love to watch sexual acts taking place in person, whether it's someone doing something solo or a couple or group, would you fancy helping me tick that off my list? More than happy to assist you on ticking something off your bucket list to say thanks in return.