FabSwingers.com: David (39) , Man in Middlewich, North West, UK

Hey, not telling you my name here, 39 but looking much younger for my age, probably more to do with my genetics rather than an easy life.

Here to get to know people, and explore my sexuality and also help others to explore theirs along the way. Sex is more than just a physical act, its also about communication, how we speak, what we say, the words we choose and how we arrange them, its touching, stroking, really feeling what it is that in your hands, under your finger tips, and what is against your body, around your body and inside of your body,exploration of the thoughts you have and sharing them with like minded people.

I dont like pressure, or being made to feel as though I have an obligation to do, be or act in any certain way or manner, so I will never expect you to feel pressured or obliged to do, be or act in any way that you dont feel comfortable with, be yourself and do the things that make you feel comfortable and sexy and celebrate your sexual side any way you like, that is what interests me the most, you as an individual and your journey so far.

I like getting to know people, and hearing about their lives, im a trained counsellor and ive spent my entire adult like working with people, so if we meet, expect some good conversation and genuine interest, and a relaxed at ease experience which won't be rushed.

Im also up for quick, hard, rough, rushed encounters that will leave me with a throb where it matters the most. Sometimes theres nothing better than feeling like a slut, keeps me on my toes.

Im mostly bottom but can top on occasions, I can do vanilla, I like vanilla but I also like kink and going wild at times, depends on my mood and the stimulation,and the other person, it takes two to tango, and the best tango is when we both know the moves well. Sometimes I can be insatiable, but not demanding, if you have a friend who wants to join, or friends then all you have to do is give me a head up and introduce me to them, if you think you can wear me out, then you are more than welcome to try.

I am not judgemental and I won't ridicule you or anyone for their sexual wants needs, desires or fantasy's, im open minded to a certain extent, if its physically safe, and mentally safe,theres more to safety than just the physical body, you also have to take into consideration the psychological consequence, then I will try it atheist three times, if I liked it the first time, but hated it the second time, a third time will be the decider. I draw the line at blood, poop and vomit, and anything that involves minors, animals and the vulnerable or any mention of this, I will block and report you without hesitation.

I dont mind roleplay but any role play that involves abuse, or assault of the worst kind is a no go for me, but I don't mind a slap of the arse, the ring is where it stings the in the best way, rough can be fun and ive been known to leave with a few bruises, but that doesn't mean im up to be punched and kicked. I have left one meet with a black eye, but that was due to slippery hands and a huge dildo dropped on my face. Accidents happen and accidents are fine, intent is abuse and intent is not fine.

Im open and honest, friendly and will always greet you with a smile and a hello, im polite and well mannered, many guys have said I look too sweet and too innocent to do the things I do and to want the things I want, and that I have a look of "Butter wouldnt melt", but I know all the best places where that butter can go, and where that butter will melt in the best way.

If we meet, im not expecting a Prince charming, or to be treated like royalty, all I ask is that you're decent, you look like your picture, and that you aren't a psycho who's going to put me under the floor boards. It's nice to be nice.

I am also discrete, and I am not bothered whether you are married or not, you're not my husband and im not getting hurt. I dont believe in hurting people, or breaking hearts, but I do believe that in order to be happy and feel happy and to have a healthy mind and emotional state, and to achieve self actualisation you need to be able to express and explore your sexuality and sexual identity, and if you have to do this outside of a marriage then so be it, you have to look after yourself in order to be able to look after others in your care. Ignoring your own needs in order to keep someone else happy and content will have a cost and that cost will be on your mental health which more often than not will have a consequence on your physical health. Im all for fun with a married man, and I hope that I am able to help you explore your own sexuality.

I am comfortable with 1 on 1 and group of any number, I have never had any sexual interaction with a female, im a pure bred, I came out of the sunroof (c section).

I have thought about sex with a female but I am not at all confident of what it involves, or how to even touch a woman, as confident as I am when it comes to sex and satisfying a man, when it comes to a woman I have no idea what I am doing at all, and I would be worried about her and not meeting her needs or expectations. I would maybe be up for a threesome with a man and a woman, sit and watch, join in when I feel confident enough, maybe be shown the roles etc, but it would need to be discussed and planned, and maybe a strap on would be of good use, she may make a decent top, who knows?

When it comes to the h n h (if you know you know) then its up for discussion, im friendly if thats what you want to know, im easy going and laid back. And believe in safe practice means harm reduction, I would prefer to be told what is used and how its used so I know what to do in an emergency. Your body, your life, your choice, but communication and information can help if those choices have consequences.

Im on prep and regularly tested, but I am always respectful of the other person wants and needs, and will always follow their lead if it differs from my own preference.

I feel like I have said far too much, but I hope it gives you a good idea of who I am? Meeting people off the Internet can be fun but it can also be dangerous, and comes with risk, that is something I am aware of and I know what its like to be the victim, so please do ask me anything if it makes you feel more reassured and at ease, I have pictures on request, I dont have a profile picture, I like privacy and my profile makes me sound like a proper mega slut, im trying to preserve the little bit of dignity I have left.

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