FabSwingers.com: Charlie (49) , Woman in St Albans , South East, UK

I'm not meeting anyone without a social in a public place first, to decide whether I am actually interested in doing anything. I am highly unlikely to want to fuck you if I don't want to have a conversation with you.

I generally don't reply to people I'm not attracted to or interested in finding out more about. I don't owe anyone a reply, if I replied to every single message I get, it would simply take more of my life than I'm willing to give.

I'm unlikely to reply if you have no photo on your profile, and if you've shown that you haven't even read my profile. Hint, I've written it to save you and me time ;)

I'm interested in meeting people on here for a variety of different things. Respect, safety & hygiene are essential.

I've been in and out of monogamous relationships over the years, being single I started dating again Feb 2020. Unluckily for me, it was 2 weeks before the first lockdown happened! Luckily for me, I got to experience deeply satisfying sex (for the first time in 8 years), which made me realise I never wanted to be without that experience ever again!

I'm very much on a mission to experience delicious things which have been fantasy for many many years.

I'm discovering I'm a definite attention whore, I love being appreciated, enjoyed and adored for other people's pleasure. Also realising I've always been bi but not had much experience with ladies and definitely want to change that.

I am ethically non monogamous, as such I don't play with people who require discretion because their partners/husbands/wives don't know. This does not mean I don't understand appropriate boundaries and a need for not having your sex life broadcast.

I have no interest in monogamy, but I do have an interest in building real connection and trust with play partners. I find I need a basic level of friendship before I can be sexually attracted to anyone.

I was videod for the first time last year, watching it back is sooooo hot! Watching myself orgasm, fuck I'm hot!

I'm also very honest, direct, and respectful, play safe, and expect the same from others. Condoms are not optional without STI testing confirming safety.

I'm not going to get excited talking about sex online, not even camming... I've been doing that for the last year... so over it now...

Always happy to play new games, safely. Some of my kinks get intense, so respect and trust is essential.

Tips: I get a lot of messages, if you send one you stand a better chance of getting a reply if you have ANY one of these particular things which I find delicious...

You have longer hair on top of your head (floppy fringe), I have no idea why but right now there's nothing hotter for me looking at a man with sexy hair (especially when his head is between my legs).

You're honest and can respect the whole person inside and outside of the bedroom.

You can string a few words together in a full, comprehensive sentence #IntelligenceisHot hot hot!

You're confident (not an arrogant dick).

You enjoy your life and what you do, if you don't, fucking change that shit, only you have the power to make you happy. I don't enjoy being around negative people. (Personal connection makes me wet, I'm not looking for a monogamous boyfriend, but I do need to at least like the person I'm fucking).

You're a couple, mf: I'm so looking forward to experiencing pretty delicious women, even better if their man watches and plays with us. There's something very very hot about being included in a dynamic where the couple are super into each other, and have a secure connection with each other.

You're a mm bi couple, omg the deliciousness of the things I want to do... wow...

You have delicious kinks to explore...

You take care of your own body, cleanliness is essential.

You have a photo, yeah shocker eh, I'd like to enjoy the face of the person I'm fucking.

I enjoy sexy fun with multiple people, I'm a bit anxious so I'd need to trust people before doing this. Having experienced having more than one hole filled, I'm a big fan and want more of that!

Being shown off in public.

Are you in your twenties? I think that will be lots of fun... update: I know it's lots of fun, want to do it again and again...

PS: NO to feet, no to feet touching me, or being touched licked or sucked. That's a HARD no. Weird right? We all have our things, or not.

PPS: I don't generally reply to people unless I'm attracted to the person or curious about getting to know them. I don't owe anyone a reply (contrary to popular opinion). If I replied to every person who messaged me it would take waaay more of my time than I'm willing to give random strangers online, #SorryNotSorry

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