FabSwingers.com: K (35) , Woman in Southampton, South East, UK

Updated 03/03/2024 - It's getting to that wonderful time of year again where I turn into a sex crazed deviant (yay for Spring). So time for an update.

My preferences: When it comes to ages, ethnicity, gender I'm not fussy however I do seem to have a few preferences these days. I'm more drawn to alternative types and people who dress to impress. If you don't look after yourself/stay hygienic its a major turn off.

Couples: Sorry but I'm not interested in newbies, I know you've all got to start somewhere but this lifestyle isn't new to me and I get tired of being harassed by one off unicorn hunters.

Single Guys: I don't know when this started but I seem to prefer guys who are bi these days. Or at least comfortable being around other men.

Single Females: I seem to prefer women more than men so I'm pretty much open to any females. As long as you're not secretly a couple and unicorn hunting :-p please just be honest with me if you're part of a couple as I do meet with couples.

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I'm not a verification collector, but I am very much real, if I don't reply to you it's nothing personal and it does not mean I am fake. Like most females on here I get a lot of messages and I can't keep up with all of them. Also please don't friend add me if I don't know you/have never spoken to you. I might be kinky but be respectful or I'll ignore you and no I don't want to watch you wanking on cam...like seriously it bores the hell outta me.

I have a short attention span and can get bored very easily.

I'm poly and very open with anyone I'm seeing about that. That does not mean I'm looking to fuck every person on the planet, would get sore after a while.

Sending me a message saying 'you're gorgeous want to fuck' etc isn't going to get my attention.

I've been playing for years and frequented many events. Can't deal with cheats, the drama is too tedious. If you're in an open relationship/your partner knows you play then that's fine, I will not help you because you're in a sexless marriage etc. I'm also a regular face that crops up at kink and swing events. Best way to describe me is I'm a sadomasochistic geeky goth who loves nature.

My relationship dynamics vary with different people I have a bf who's also on here (Gentlemenpip) and we have a couples account (luxurybubbles). I have complicated relationships with 3 exes, play partners, a lover and a service sub. Plus friends who just enjoy torturing me from time to time. If you can't handle this and/or the jealous type I am not the person for you. And no I'm not fucking all of those people, sometimes sex doesn't even enter the equation for me. I'm both kinky and a swinger (I fall more into kink realm though due to my fussy nature).

I like getting to know someone so if a one off fuck is what you are after then ZZZzzzZZZzzz I've found over the years getting to know someone tends to be way more fun than one off quickies... although those can occasionally be fun too.

If I haven't thrown you off so far then go me! I have a rather cocky attitude, look after myself and educated. But I’m a friendly and caring person when I meet the right people.

I can accommodate occasionally and I can travel within reason but like first meets to be in a public place as I've met enough nutters over the years. I do come across as rather shy and withdrawn on first meets but trust me I'm not :-p

If you’re interested send me a message if not take care and good luck on the site.

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