FabSwingers.com: Bob (58) & Cazz (53) , Couple in Aldershot, South East, UK

Just a holding account. Any messages etc. are unlikely to be read.

Public service announcement for single guys...

You are out numbered abut 100:1 on here so expect competition. If you message 100 people and get nowhere then you're probably doing something wrong as, odds are, you should get someone in that time.If this is you then read on.

Before wasting your time and others read the other persons profile. Do you match? can one of you accommodate or do you both go to the same clubs / dogging spots etc.? If so then read on.

Are you within a reasonable range? The ladies/couples don't really need to travel more the 10 miles to find what they are looking for so are unlikely to be a good match if you're 50+ miles away. Even if you are willing to travel it still put pressure on the others as you've had to be on the road for a couple of hours so they would feel obliged to play even if they don't like the looks of you. Likewise for booking hotel rooms etc. etc. Within range? then read on.

Can you spell? if not then use a spell checker. we're not all experts with spelling so it's worth checking in any case. A poorly spelt message suggests that you can't be bothered to check such a simple thing and you probably won't bother with other things, like washing!. Good speller? read on.

Are your messages personal or just copy and paste? The copy and paste guys are obvious and again show a lack of care. Think about what the other person has said in their profile and comment on it / use it. Even their image/s are a source of information that the other 99% might have missed. Commenting nicely? then read on.

Ask a specific question or two. If you don't ask anything then there is no reason for them to reply, simple really. Things like 'nice boobs' has no answer so doesn't get one. 'what size are your boobs?' does have an answer. Look up the 5W's on google to find the 5 best ways to start a question. Asking questions? then read on.

Does you profile stand out? If it's just a one liner then it looks like you can't be bothered or are just using a blunderbuss approach to get anyone you possibly can. If it's well put together then read on.

Are you photos any good? Selfies in a bathroom mirror are just wrong. Get a camera with a timer and do something creative at least. Think about the background. Having piles of dirty washing behind you, the toilet, last night dinner plates etc. all smacks of a lack of care both for your photos and yourself. You drinking beer down the pub suggests you'll turn up d*unk. You shagging as a main profile pic suggest that that other ladies might also become a star of your profile even if they don't want to. Having the main pic being your willy suggests that the rest of your body is too bad to show. Can't do the pic yourself? find a local studio who are willing to do nudes, you'd get several good images that would outshine almost anyone else and really make your profile stand out from the crowd.

This has been a public service announcement on behalf of the swingers party.

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