FabSwingers.com: BD (34) , Man in Telford, West Midlands, UK

Nice, friendly guy looking to explore his sexuality with a select few people. Someone who respects set boundaries and exploring new kinks. Can play Dom, but enjoys all roles. Only top with males.

Looking for 1 or 2 FB situations that could then maybe look at group situations. Just be great to chat and see where it leads. No drama :)

Also looking for a female 3rd to have regular fun with my female FB and myself.

Full STI test - All Clear 24/11/25

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As a pre warning I have ADHD and will be typing as my mind clears enough to allow my fingers time to type so this may well be a hard to read mind ramble...

From the start of the second half of my teenage life I thought I was just a run of the mill sis straight male with very little thought of other ways to have fun outside of standard sex or wanking. I'm not sure what or when it happened, but my mind and fantasies started to expand. As I very quickly came to realise that I'd been suppressing a large part of my sexuality. I'm bi, I've always been bi, but clearly something had stopped me thinking that was ok. Once I'd finally been able to push past that closeted part of my life and really just be me, thanks in no small part to the many hours of bi, sissy, trans and gay porn I found myself watching, my mind finally started to let me really explore who I was, what I wanted and sexually what really turned me on.

I had the right support in place to really start exploring more and more.

Do I like cock? - yes.

Do I like to suck cock? - yes

Do I want my mouth filled with cum? - no

Do I like my ass being played with? - yes

Do I like to be pegged? - yes

Do I want to be fucked by a guy? - no (unless insanely hot to me ??)

Do I like the idea of a trans female/girl/mistress having some role reversal? - yes

And with just these few questions being answered by allowing myself to explore I started to better understand and accept myself. Yes I'm bi, but clearly I'm top and I had the feeling that I also wanted that control if I were to have fun with men. But also, that within this more dominant primal persona there was also someone who craved to be submissive, cared for, maybe even completely release control.

This searching then surprisingly took quite the big detour, as I found myself wanting to explore the daddy Dom/praising Dom roles. I can say without a shadow of a doubt I love these roles and my two current fbs fit so perfectly for me. Both of them so willing to surrender their bodies and minds to me for a "good girl" drives something so primal in my mind, I find myself being overwhelmed with a want and need to fully satisfy, protect and in my own way worship them (if worship is the best way to describe the feeling). We've tried a lot of things together;

- love giving,

impact play - great fun,

sensory deprivation - amazing,

orgasm control - so satisfying,

pussy pumping - unbelievable,

and so much more. And with each thought we agree together our sub/Dom relationships grow and the fun gets better.

BUT - I find myself yet again at a crossroads of intrigue, horniness and lust -

what if I give that control away?

What if I am submissive?

What if I'm led down a naughty path guided by someone I trust wholeheartedly?

I find myself more and more at least wanting to dip my toe into it.

Do I want someone aggressively dominant? - no I don't think so.

Do I want to be humiliated or chastised? - absolutely not.

What I really feel like I need to experience is what I've been giving for so long - A caregiver/mommy/soft dominant guide. It gives me a warm sensation inside and where you'd expect ;)

And my mind has also then been exploring further and deeper with thanks in no small part to this wonderful site and the much more naughty one I know a lot of you know about ;) (same username by the way). I've found myself so turned on seeing people being so openly themselves and sharing what they really enjoy. And it makes me excited and horny too seeing it. I've seen myself be turned on by some fantastically imaginative and creative furrys. I've found my mouth drooling over the wonderful hucows, lactators, milkmaids and mommies. I've enjoyed speaking to, enticing and roleplaying with someone who defines themselves, at least partially, prey.

I suppose the whole point of this profile update is to again help me really define who I am, but I don't think I ever will. There will always be new stuff to see and more fun to explore. And I will forever evolve with it ;)

Thank you so much if you do read all the way through it and please message me and let's chat. It brings me joy just hearing others experiences, learning what they've found.

I'm also of course always looking for people local to me who want to and feel comfortable to explore with me ;)

For the wider audience I hope this reaches - my profile is quite blank as I want to stay private with my exploration. I am married to my wonderful wife, who I love more than anything in the world. She has given her body to me and mine to her, she's provided me a wonderful family and we have a connection that will last a million lifetimes. She's one of the only reasons I've felt so comfortable on this journey. We've evolved together. And although she has discovered that she is not a sexual creature, we have the love and respect of eachother to know that even though we are 2 different sexual paths there is no one else I want to spend my entire life with.

Before you ask - does she want to be involved? - no.

Does she want to be made aware of the details? - no.

She trusts me fully and knows I will only ever explore within the boundaries we have set with eachother.

I appreciate such situations are not to everyone's comfortability, but I have found that you can only truly find the right people to explore with through total openness and trust.

I hope you enjoyed reading my ramble and it was easy enough to read through. As I've probably said several times but forgotten, please do message me if you have any questions, advice, stories or want to discuss whether you'd like to join me on this journey. Message even if you just want to talk about nothing.

Thank you all :) and maybe I'll try to be more present on the app as I evolve more xx

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