FabSwingers.com: becki (57) , TV/TS in London, Greater London, UK

Greetings all, guys, gals, those of no fixed denomination..

Becki here, single, bi part-time tv gurl with a very busy life outside of this particular incarnation of myself.

I consider myself to be a very lucky human being that has absolutely nothing that I need to hide in my life, and my choice to present as male in everyday life is purely based on my consideration of others. You may ask me to expand on that should we get chatting.

I have been prone to exploring my feminine side since age 13 on and off, and in and out of heterosexual relationships for most of my life, with varying degrees of compatibility and alignment! Lol

I love adopting this persona and it is an integral part of my life.

I am very open and honest, I don't have the time in life to play games.

So, why am I here?

Well, in the beginning there was light.. A curiosity to pursue and learn more about myself, to dip my toe into waters uncharted.

Now, I am here to make connections with like minded people of no particular persuasion.

My passions (today, subject to change), in order of importance….

1 - Sound (the most important of senses to me), be that music, ambience in nature and our environment, the timing of another’s breathing, a heartbeat, nada brahma, the rhythm of conversation and the spoken word, the sexiest and most fulfilling of senses.

2 - Touch… a difficult one to explain with words. Timing and flow. Touch can fill me with fear and apprehension, it can take me to a place where I melt into the universe and lose all sense of myself.

3 - Visual form. The beauty of nature and the human form. The exotic and delightful ways that us humans choose to adorn ourselves with items of clothing, jewellery, makeup, the way one might pose and position oneself.

4 - A sense of humour. Until recently I have overused self-deprecating humour, something I am actively working on (I never really meant to put myself down, it always pleased me in what others might consider an ‘odd’ way).

5 - Compassion and sensitivity to other people and their lives and situations.

6 - A live and let live attitude… within the constraints of my own morality and consensual behaviour between people.

7 - Non pushy people… any questions may be asked, any request may be made (within the realms of my morality). However, should the reply be no, any further pestering, pushing, or attempt at persuasion is likely to result in an end to discourse.

In the hope that we get past all the above and you love a conversation pondering and musing over existence, the world, people, music, sexuality, sex. In general, learning from each other and expanding each other's horizons. I might well be interested in the following -

Lovely, chilled get togethers with like minded people. Fun, laughs, sexual exploration.. I’d like to think of such encounters as being ‘lovely, sensual soirees’.

I’m not into quickie get-togethers for sex. It doesn’t appeal to me in the slightest.

I’m unlikely to meet single males presenting as male alone, though who knows, this might change if your mind is electric and the attraction is there.

I’m always interested in meeting other cd/tv/trans people, from 24/7 to once a month ‘gurls’.

I’m very interested in experiencing the dynamic of meeting with m/f or f/f couples.

I’m also very interested in experiencing group meetings with all of the above, including males.

I am interested in meeting women too (I am very much bi-sexual).

I love all those with a story to tell.

My sexual preferences?

I love to please, entertain, amuse, stimulate and find it enthralling to do my best to give any partners a night to remember and to tend to their desires, wishes and whim, on a completely consensual basis, having discussed the parameters and limits with said partners beforehand.

I am very unlikely to top other genetic males, it just isn’t the present ‘me’. Until recently I was convinced I was sub, but it has been pointed out to me by someone very close to my heart that this is not so (I think she is right tbh).

I have experienced and would delight in exploring further with bondage and light bdsm, but this is something that requires a lot of trust and understanding.

I love to take my time preparing myself, from grooming to makeup to outfit choice. I ain’t gonna quickly slip into something in a couple of minutes and be ready for you, that’s for sure!

A few 100% no-no’s -

Watersports and is really not my thing. I’m fine with other people finding such activities exciting and satiating, but , erm… no thanks.

There are two ways one might call me slut… choose the right one and the gates open. Choose the wrong one and it’s byebye!

I have met a handful of truly beautiful people here through time, especially in the last few months. That, coupled with a recent major change in my life has led to a couple of delightful meets with the most delicious souls. The modest number of verifications offer a tiny insight into that.

I could go on and on, and on…. But I shall leave it at that for now.

Should you think you might like to get to know me better, and that I might like to get ot know you better, then please, feel free to let me know. Titling any first private message with 'Well, I/We got this far Becki' would be advantageous! One liners won't be responded to, sorry, I don't have the time to dig information out of you.

In all cases, peace, love, live and be the best ‘you' that you can be

Mwah, Becki xx

Oh, by the way, I have the (un)healthiest attraction to Agent Provocateur lingerie that would ruin me if I didn’t have a modicum of self-control !!!!

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