FabSwingers.com: Him (42) & Her (41) , Couple in Gainsborough , East Midlands, UK

MEN. We are getting inundated with messages. For now, if we want a single guy we will find you.

Apologies for the wall of text, but we thought it best to be specific rather than waste anyone's time if we aren't suitable.

Please read our profile in full before messaging. Thanks.

We are a happily married couple who have reached a stage where we want to open up our relationship and have some fun with like-minded people.

We are relatively open minded, but have a few specifics that we would like to find.

We are not in any particular rush to find anyone so sorry if we come across as picky, but we would rather have fun with the right people rather than just anyone. We are definitely not here to meet loads of different people.

He is average build, bordering on a dad bod but on a mission to improve, great sense of humour and easy to get on with, very open minded and will try anything twice. Average in the trouser department but had no complaints.

She is a bit shy, but after a few drinks, relaxes and becomes much more open minded. Average mum bod, but also working on it.

We are both decent looking and considered attractive but not supermodels and don't expect you to be either.

We are primarily looking for a like minded couple. They must be trustworthy, decent looking, in relatively reasonable shape (sorry but we are not looking for massively overweight people) and most importantly, very clean and discrete. Personal hygiene is a must and discretion is very important due to our family and careers.

Ideally we aren't looking for massively tall guys as she prefers sorter men (6' and under) and also not looking for muscular guys, as again, she prefers the average/dad bod and big muscles are a bit of a turn off.

We would also not want any super fit people or guys with big dicks as neither of us want to feel uncomfortable.

We would want people who are chilled out, not pushy and happy to go at our pace.

We are open to same room fun, kissing and oral, toys etc between couples but we want to keep full sex just for us.

Her fantasy is to see guy on guy oral and he would love to see girl on girl so a bit or bi curious couple would be ideal. However we also want to just let it flow with everyone enjoying eachother.

We are both into rock music so people with similar tastes to the front of the queue.

Men. We will find you if we want you. However, if you fit all of our criteria exactly and think you fit the bill, please get in touch, but don't be offended if we say no. You would have to tick every box for us to meet a single guy.

Couples. We are more flexible and if there is a click between us, we are very open minded to what you look like but there must still be an attraction.

Women. We know unicorns are few and far between, so just try us, a single bi woman would be a great introduction.

Due to family and other commitments, we can't just meet at the drop of a hat, but would also like to chat for a bit beforehand anyway to see if we all click. Personality is just as important as looks.

We are very new to this and would ideally want to meet people who are new too and wouldn't want to meet hard core swinger's or people with multiple verifications for now.

If you are shy and unsure and want to go slow, then you are probably a great match for us.

Please have a bit of substance to your message, rather than just "hi how are you?"

Also, if you don't have photos on your account, please attach one.

We are excited to see where this goes!

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