FabSwingers.com: J (45) , Man in Diss, East Midlands, UK

Hi. I have had some wonderful experience as a dominant and I am looking for D/S fun that transcends the physical. I am looking for mutual respect and affection with a submissive who is prepared to take on regular tasks, to maintain regular contact, to serve with affection and accept my commitment and protection.

I am an athletic guy who looks after himself, has a professional job and is genuinely very friendly and naturally free with his emotions.

I love long D/S unhurried sex and I’m just as passionate about aftercare as everything else. Regarding the physical side of this world, I enjoy restraint (cuffs, ropes, tape), whips/paddles/flogger/cane etc within agreed boundaries, nipple play, delayed orgasm, hair pulling, choking and much much more. I love building anticipation and desire. I haven’t experienced CNC yet but that’s something for the bucket list.

For me, this kind of dynamic is nothing without trust, respect and open communication. I adore aftercare and I love the responsibility that comes with the role, I thrive upon it.

I also enjoy cuckold fun with couples.

In my regular life outside of this world, I am married with children. My wife and I used to ‘swing’ a little and have attended a couple of clubs, but she decided that wasn’t for her a few years ago and we have no D/S element at all to our relationship. We understand and respect each other’s needs and she is perfectly happy to allow me to explore my needs.

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==

100% Rigger

100% Brat tamer

100% Master/Mistress

98% Dominant

97% Non-monogamist

94% Voyeur

94% Experimentalist

94% Sadist

89% Exhibitionist

88% Degrader

77% Daddy/Mommy

66% Owner

59% Ageplayer

34% Switch

32% Vanilla

23% Primal (Hunter)

16% Rope bunny

6% Masochist

4% Submissive

3% Degradee

0% Pet

0% Primal (Prey)

0% Brat

0% Boy/Girl

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