FabSwingers.com: Ashley (41) , Man in Chicago, Illinois, USA

Ashley here... a 39yo, 6‘3, 240lbs single male with 16+ years of experience in the Hotwife lifestyle. I'm looking for intelligent, funny play partners and lifestyle friends interested in sexy, trusting encounters. I'm a Chicagoan who loves the arts, entertainment, sports, traveling and the gym. Couples, or ladies, you won't find a better host when visiting Chicago.

I'm naturally sensual but enjoy being dominant, NOT domineering. My bedroom interests include passionate kissing, oral, spanking/flogging, hair pulling, sexy/dirty talk, choking, mf, mff, mfm, anal, DP, gangbangs and multiple positions (standing/laying down).

It’s easy to get ahold of me:

https://linktr.ee/AshleyDelToro

Family comes first

Currently reading Kitchen Confidential.

I love the Bulls, White Sox, Blackhawks... and I’m a begrudging Bears fan.

I prefer wine over beer, weights over running and Marvel over DC.

Media Producer

Lifestyle podcast enthusiasts (Bed Hoppers, Keys & Anklets, Ofacez, Sexualchemy, MixxedNutzz, WGAT)

Dog lover

BBQ Grill King

Media Producer

Traveler

You can also find me on Twitter:

@AshleyDelToro23

https://twitter.com/AshleyDelToro23

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==

100% Exhibitionist

100% Voyeur

98% Non-monogamist

97% Rigger

93% Dominant

76% Master

75% Experimentalist

59% Degrader

57% Owner

52% Daddy

51% Ageplayer

46% Primal (Hunter)

40% Brat tamer

37% Sadist

25% Switch

19% Vanilla

Couples:

I play with both Stag/Vixen and Cuckold couples, and both categories fall under the Hotwife kink. The majority of my experience is with Stag/Vixen couples where the husband will either watch, take pics/videos or video conference in to watch me satisfy his goddess, and vice versa. I do enjoy 3sums with Stag/Vixen couples and understand that male to male contact happens which doesn't bother me.

As for Cuckold couples I'm relatively new as I've only been playing with them the past two years. I enjoy the mental challenge of verbally engaging with the wife and her cuck, whether it's a female lead relationship or not. The D/s scenarios and energy of these play sessions are fascinating I look forward to finding more couples who are comfortable with this subset of the Hotwife kink.

Single Ladies:

I’m most creative/productive when I have a satisfying sex life. Surprisingly the Hotwife lifestyle has been a fuel for the fire because I meet the most interesting people from various backgrounds, domestic or international. Thus, I'd love to find a woman who's open to join me. For the sake of clarity this would mean she'd be open to sleeping with other men while I watch and/or join in. Typically we'd have a friend or two as regulars, but we'd also attend lifestyle events, house parties and vacations together where we'd enjoy some fun and sexy times together.

Your race doesn't matter to me as I'm attracted to women of diverse cultures, though I do understand this lifestyle is predominantly Caucasian and I hope you do as well. This is important because I play with Hotwife and Cuckold couples who are white so if you're a woman of color and have an issue with that then I wish you the best at finding what you're looking for. However, if you're totally fine with it please don't hesitate to reach out.

The most important attributes I’m looking for are a sense of humor, intelligence, nurturing kindness and an interest in fitness. These sexy characteristics make me want to give you more of my energy and time.

If you consider yourself a brat, move on. Based on my experience that word is the female equivalent to the male's "jerk". (shrug)

I play with women of all ages, and I'm a sucker for sultry eyes, a sweet smile and a great ass.

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