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Playful ENM couple in Cardiff/Hastings

& Saphire (50)
MF Cpl in Cardiff, Wales, UK
Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 10 hours ago

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Looking For

Not looking for single guys. Couples (MF) Couples (FF) Women aged 18 to 58. Will meet smokers.

Meeting

Can accommodate. Can travel.

Appoximenos

45 years old
Straight

5'3"  160cm
Average
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Saphire

50 years old
Bisexual

5'3"  160cm
Slim
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Interests

Adult Parties, Anal, Blindfolds, DP, Gangbangs, Group Sex, Oral, Rimming, Safe Sex, Same Room Swapping, Separate Room Swapping, Spanking, Swingers Clubs, Threesomes, Toys
IMPORTANT:

Respectfully if either of you are new to the world of Swinging/ENM/Polyamory and are not CERTAIN its for you, or your don't know your boundaries we are not for you.

Its too exhausting and such a waste of time making seemingly wonderful connections only to be then suddenly rejected/ghosted because one or both in a couple were actually 'not sure from the start'.

About us:

Nested partnered poly/ENM couple in Cardiff. Also spend time in Hastings East Sussex as we have a home there too. Looking for respectful fun meets with other like minded folk. Looking for MF and FF couples who preferably are 420 friendly and Single F of course too.

MF Couples to the front please :) We especially desire MFM MFMF FMF. all with full swap.

Up for socials first before play meets. Can't be very spontaneous usually due to unsocial working hours. Happy to attend private parties if invited.

IMPORTANT NOTE:

Appox (M) is not bi curious or bi. He defines Heteroflexible as comfortable with close male nudity in same room sex with F partners and other M's with said F partners, not with him. He is NOT into experimenting or having sex with men.

Saph (F) is not a unicorn. She will not play separately with either a MF couple or an F or M from a couple without us all having played first and only if all of us are comfortable with that.

Appox is not a cuck or into voyeurism. He is not happy or fulfilled just watching, it just makes him frustrated sexually in the wrong way. Nor is he happy just quietly wanking in a corner like Billy-No-Mates while Saph is fucking a M, F or MF or FF. Likewise he is not into 'just touching' a F or FF while they have sex with Saph.

Appox is hyper-consent conscious due to previous negative experiences. He needs flirting, and sensual/sexy touch before play to feel comfortable and know the F is comfortable too and 'in to' him. He also needs verbal consent feedback and physical interaction/responsiveness during play to be able to perform. Dirty talk before and during play really helps too.

We are looking for full swap situations with couples as a BIG preference, same or separate rooms. However, happy to respect boundaries and soft swap with discussion of definition of 'soft' if the vibe is especially good.

Happy to play safe or bareback. we are clean and regularly tested. we expect the same from bareback partners. We respect any F's decision on contraception without quibble. It's her body. We expect the same respect for Saph's decisions in this regard.

PLEASE if you connect with us be clear what your boundaries and desires are. Don't waste our time and yours. We all lead busy lives and time is valuable. Happy to negotiate boundaries to a degree but please be honest with us and yourselves. If you send us face pics which we really appreciate , NO SUNGLASSES please. Eyes are an important attraction factor for us.