FabSwingers.com: N (40) , Man in Bridgend-ish, Wales, UK

Hi everyone,

Thank you for visiting my profile.

ABOUT ME:

I am Noah, I have been on the swinging scene for over 15 years and have pretty much seen and done most things. I am an honest, clean, sane, reliable, and trustworthy person, with high emotional intelligence and put safety and respect as the most important aspects with any connections.

Sexually, I am a very open-minded and non-judgemental and as I’ve mentioned above highly experienced and I define myself as a Daddy Dom on the Alpha/Primal end of the spectrum.

For example, the way I define it is, to me, D/s play is on a continuum, at one end is the more Clinical play, so a greater focus on the bondage aspect and lots of rope and knot play with a greater emphasis on the slow build of tension.

Then at the other end of the continuum is the Primal play, this is hard and rough fucking, physically manhandling a sub down as I use and overwhelm and fuck them into oblivion, allowing their mind to escape and switch off.

Obviously there’s a bit more to it than that, but in broad sense, that’s how I explain it and I am very much at the Primal end of this play

However just to reinforce I never push anyone beyond agreed limits and I like to spend time building a connection as the most enjoyable experiences I have had been based n trust, safety, and connection. understanding a subs needs and limits is essential for me, so a social is non-negotiable for me, I won’t be meeting after 2 messages.

MY RELATIONSHIP:

I should also state that I am in a Dom/sub relationship with my cuckquean wife. We have a couple’s profile on here (which I will share if we speak) but this is my single profile. I am taking this opportunity now to explain our situation to avoid any confusion later. As I say we are a Dom/sub couple and she is my cuckquean, meaning that she doesn't swing on her own but nevertheless supports me fucking other women and then coming back to her. We discuss everything, there is no drama, just two consenting adults having lots of kinky fun - it’s amazing how relationships can work when people just talk. Men take note, don’t be cheats, just talk and be honest.

FAO SINGLE WOMEN:

As I have mentioned I am very trustworthy and you can be sure that no matter how hard or rough you want it I will always stay within agreed boundaries. Similarly, I understand not everyone defines themselves as a sub and you may just want a casual one-off session, and I can assure you I will deliver. The point is regardless, of your circumstances, if you’re a newbie looking to dip your toe in the water, or an experienced sub looking for a firm hand, get in touch, I can deliver.

Also I am more than happy to talk to new single women about safety when meeting with no expectations. I have heard some nasty stories in the past and I am more than happy to just chat socially/casually with people. I understand just because you’re on a swinging site doesn’t mean you will automatically fuck anything.

FAO COUPLES:

I have plenty of experience with couples, from vanilla straight play as one-off sessions, through to kinky bisexual cuckolding regular relationships. My wildest story here is I once lived with a cuckold couple as their live in Bull for about 6/7 months - that was fun. I love playing with couples and hoping them explore or enhance their sex lives. I get the deal here as any play with couples is not about me, it’s about you, and me fitting in with your dynamic and relationship. So, wether, it’s in a straight vanilla situation or kinky cuckold play with a bisexual Dom, get in touch if you want to chat. As I have said throughout I will always respect limits and boundaries here.

FAO GAY/BI/or “STRAIGHT” GUYS:

To clear something up I state on my profile that I am bisexual and yes I am but this more because I am just a kinky guy. To all gay/bi/"straight" guys please understand I am not actively seeking encounters with guys (unless in M/F relationship) you are welcome to message me but understand that if I don't reply it's nothing personal, and please, for the love of God...No cock pics!

ADVICE FOR SINGLE MEN:

I also often get single guys messaging me asking me for tips so I am posting this here, more for the benefit of the women and couples who get hundreds or rubbish messages.

1: Make an effort - with your profile, with your message and with every communication. This may be a swinging site but it does not guarantee you sex. This leads me to the next point. You have to highlight to people what you’re about and what you can offer, if you can’t articulate that coherently then maybe take a bit of time to reflect and grow as a person before entering into swinging.

2: You are not entitled to sex - As I said above, this is a swinging site and no one owes you anything, just because someone is here does not mean they are easy, or that you’re entitled to have sex with them. People are here for fun and to enjoy themselves, they don’t owe you anything. The quicker you get this the better.

3: Respect everyone - if someone deletes your message or says no then just respect that and move on. Do not send them abusive messages, and do not moan on your status. it can suck I get it, but as said above no one owes you anything.

4: Dick pics - if people state on their profile “no dick pics” do not send them…it really can’t be made any simpler. Again respect people.

5: I also need to stress, if you get in touch with me about "using" your gf or wife and you have a single profile DO NOT, under any circumstances, send pictures. If you send me pictures of a women and your account is a single man I will report. Do no share pictures without consent with me.

If you read these, I hope you found them helpful, message me if you want any help, always interested in helping decent people be better - do not message me if you want me to “find you a women” …yes i have had this.

That’s it from me for now.

Thanks again for reading and I look forward to hearing from you

Noah x

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