FabSwingers.com: Abbs (38) , Man in Grays , Greater London, UK

About Me

29/03/2026

As an online organiser, I’ve hosted multiple private events over the years, always discreet, well-run, and designed for respectful, well-mannered, well-endowed gentlemen, as well as couples or ladies.

These events are invitation-only. Once you’re verified and meet the criteria, you’ll be added to the group where everyone can chat, connect, and arrange timings. Hotel details and final plans are shared only inside the group. If I trust you then I will tell you that yes you can put on your profile and bring with you more people as far as you have verified them. But max of 6 people at once due to room size.....

Upcoming events hotels booked :

• Liverpool — 6th to 10th, after 5pm

• Manchester — 12th to 16th after 5pm

If you fit the criteria, you’ll be added to the group to join the conversation and plan your slot.

EXTRA INFO :-

A little note for anyone curious about how these events work…

Some of you have asked why my verification looks low even though I’ve been organising for years.

Simple reason: my old event-only profiles kept getting taken down — not because of anything bad, but because certain people/Clubs/Swingers Group, didn’t like how accessible and affordable my events were.

So now I keep things on my personal profile, smaller, more selective, and a lot more fun.

And also many swingers like to keep it discreet hence no verifications.

FURTHERMORE:

I enjoy meeting people who are respectful, genuine, and able to relax, let go, and enjoy life a little. That’s why I organise small, private, fully discreet gatherings across the UK,always in quality, well-chosen hotels that I book myself.

Here’s how it works:

If you’re interested in a specific date, I add you into a small group on Telegram and no personal contacts been shared. That’s where we chat, set the vibe, choose themes, and sort out the roleplay or dress code for that evening. Each date has its own flavour, and the group decides how we move forward.

Safety and respect are everything. Please be ready to show your recent health checks, and bring anything you personally prefer for comfort or fun.

If you’re easygoing, respectful, and up for a good time with good people, you’ll fit right in.

Final: I organised these events doest mean I have to get involve in sex. But if the vibe is right then why not. Also if I am not involved is sex doest mean you cant enjoy. So please come and have funnn

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22/03/2026

- Health check:

Fresh STD tests (Nov & Dec 2025) – all clear ? Evidence available if needed.

- Profession:

Experienced masseur (10+ years of pampering hands) & data analyst (brains + brawn combo).

Curious Adventures??

I’ve got a cheeky little list I’d love to tick off with the right fun-loving people:

- MMF with a cuck couple

- 3 ladies draining me while hubby films ??

- Sleepover with a couple (bring the snacks & the banter)

- Double delight – 2 cks, 1 hole

?? My Vibe

I’m well-mannered, self-care focused, and respectful. I know stepping into someone’s life means playing by their rules. I’ll never overstep, always aim to please.

Yes, I’m seeing someone (no secrets here, honesty first).

Location : Based in Essex, I’d love to meet friendly couples in Essex or Greater London who want a gent for fun in and out of the bedroom (bonus points if the sun’s out ??). Also open to connecting with women who fancy a bit of NSA/Regular/FWB fun, I call it “two mates looking after each other’s needs.”

?? What I Love

- Pampering (giving & receiving)

- Baths, rubs, and cheeky massages

- Dancing & playful energy

- Starting slow, building up the heat ??

- Hygiene is non-negotiable – clean vibes only!

?? Boundaries

- Respect is everything.

- No unhygienic people – hygiene is sexy.

- Safe sex only. Bareback = big no. Good sex doesn’t need to be risky.

?? Privacy Note

Looking For

Meeting

Interests