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Any genuine guys that will actually meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

OK, so this may be a bit of a rant, apologies in advance.

How hard is it to find guys to actually meet? We have standards, won't play with married or attached guys, they have to be able to accommodate, we always have social only first. So many guys are time wasters. We have msg filters on to eliminate non varified. We are not looking for the emerald city jus a guy to join us for laughs and fun. Grr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some of us genuine guys on here. I would be keen to chat and see how we connect. I can’t accom currently as renovating the house I bought but be great to chat with the view to play in the future or at a hotel. If not I hope you find someone and get through the rubbish as there are some nice people here just takes time x

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By *roggMan
over a year ago

haverfordwest

Try the social scene to meet more people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m always available

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By *efByOrgasmsMan
over a year ago

Heads of the Valleys


"OK, so this may be a bit of a rant, apologies in advance.

How hard is it to find guys to actually meet? We have standards, won't play with married or attached guys, they have to be able to accommodate, we always have social only first. So many guys are time wasters. We have msg filters on to eliminate non varified. We are not looking for the emerald city jus a guy to join us for laughs and fun. Grr"

I'm one of the few genuine guys who can do what you're looking for.

But believe it or my last few meets through this has been through unverified accounts so I been lucky lately.

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

Appreciate it can be frustrating, but there are guys out there who do meet .

If I was in a couple, I’d be looking for the guys who contribute positively to the “fab community” and get involved in the forums, socials, clubs etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You seem to have found four in about ten days so they must exist.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Most of them were old meets from previous account

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex


"Most of them were old meets from previous account "

I know it's your choice, but what is wrong with old meets? I would rather do repeats with people I already know and have met, than new ones, of whom I have to go through the whole vetting chemistry checking process....

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By *eak01Man
over a year ago

carmathen

Lots of guys here probably are genuine and available, maybe your just being to fussy

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By *ogerBottomsMan
over a year ago

Aberdare

There are genuine, reliable gentlemen about. A degree of patience might be required while finding one that meets your standards, but it's usually worth the wait.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some decent guys on here. They can be a trouble to find. Ones we have found we have saw again. At moment we looking again

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By *unshine500Man
over a year ago

west wales

I believe im a tidy guy, just struggling to get a reply from people lol

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By *ergioo09Man
over a year ago

CARDIFF

The hardest part is finding that guy who ticks all the boxes

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By *udewhennudeMan
over a year ago

newport


"Appreciate it can be frustrating, but there are guys out there who do meet .

If I was in a couple, I’d be looking for the guys who contribute positively to the “fab community” and get involved in the forums, socials, clubs etc."

Why would they want to do that, none off that proves they are genuine or desirable and it would restrict them to choosing from about 5% off the guys on fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We struggle to find guys to meet we put up social meet as we want to see if we all click but they message saying wanna fuck or meet for play . I know there some genuine guys out there just need to find them x

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By *aisiahMan
over a year ago

crosshands


"We struggle to find guys to meet we put up social meet as we want to see if we all click but they message saying wanna fuck or meet for play . I know there some genuine guys out there just need to find them x"

Keep looking and be patient there are some genuine and nice (single) men out there

Perhaps some don't like the social bit which I it's wrong get to know someone first before any play my opinion

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By *rgasmicFunCouple
over a year ago

Gwent

They r out there, we've met them, but as u r probably fussy who u meet as we r and there is nothing wrong with that, some guys also have the right to be fussy, y should the couples always have the say of yes or no.

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By *ngel71Man
over a year ago

Llantwit Major

I am looking at it from the other end. Wondering if there are couples prepared to meet. Happy to meet social first. But I'm not in a rush. I have been told this place is about patience.

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By *ardiffCoupleNJCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd/Rhyfelin


"OK, so this may be a bit of a rant, apologies in advance.

How hard is it to find guys to actually meet? We have standards, won't play with married or attached guys, they have to be able to accommodate, we always have social only first. So many guys are time wasters. We have msg filters on to eliminate non varified. We are not looking for the emerald city jus a guy to join us for laughs and fun. Grr"

feel your pain.

Not sure guys realise how many messages we get. It does become irritating when guys completely ignore what our profile says. No public veris / pics dont bother messaging -we aren't going to bother replying just to ask you for pics or to open up your veris.

And thats before we even start to try & get any rapport going!!

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By *ngel71Man
over a year ago

Llantwit Major

Your so right .I Thought the point here was to be open about what we are about and allow people to decide if they like . I always read the profile .And then I know not to waste my time contacting people who don't want my profile.

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By *ngel71Man
over a year ago

Llantwit Major

I have read your profile and am genuine but unfortunately outside your age range and a smoker so have never bothered to message.But that's the point if a profile lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *itenDaysCouple
over a year ago

Vale of Glamorgan


"OK, so this may be a bit of a rant, apologies in advance.

How hard is it to find guys to actually meet? We have standards, won't play with married or attached guys, they have to be able to accommodate, we always have social only first. So many guys are time wasters. We have msg filters on to eliminate non varified. We are not looking for the emerald city jus a guy to join us for laughs and fun. Grr"

We agree has been hard to find some the same. Yes there a few that are genuine on the site but is getting harder. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always keen to meet (women of course) just can't no one will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm genuine

They are about haa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The quest for a decent single guy is fraught with pitfalls and it does appear to be getting more difficult. Some times you hang your head and say "why do I bother". When there is a diamond in the rough somewhere just keep digging.

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By *riggs69Man
over a year ago

Swansea

Hi I am Steve and I am a nice guy and guneuin hope you get back soon thanks Steve x

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