FabSwingers.com forum: Is 49 wrong age on here

By *en_hornyguy OP Man
over a year ago

Llanelli

Hi all

Why is it that majority of profiles have age range up to 45, some go to 47 or 48. Then next age range is 50 plus. So someone like me who just turned 49 is in limbo for a year lol

Also want to add. Why is it so hard for genuine decent guys to get meets. Pls dont reply and say put face pic up as loads dont hsve face pics and i want to keep my privacy as we all have choice to do

Im single professional with own place

So its tough being single and 49 on here !!!

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By *carlett AllureWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Get yourself to an organised social event and you’ll get the verifications your profile is begging for (and maybe take a look over your text it’s a little whiney and maybe off putting for some)

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By *ogerBottomsMan
over a year ago

Aberdare

I'm 46. There are some profiles I like the look of where the upper limit is 45. I didn't age suddenly on my 46th birthday, but people set these limits for a reason and you respect that. The only time it's really annoying is when someone asks a question that you genuinely can answer, but you can't message them.

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By *ogerBottomsMan
over a year ago

Aberdare

"Get yourself to an organised social event and you’ll get the verifications"

THIS. Completely this.

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

Do you feel you sell yourself well? If you're not appealing to people then maybe you need to change something, because you can't change people's minds any other way.

You come across as very negative which is unappealing.

You've been here over a year and haven't attended a club or social. Any reason why?

What do you feel you offer that should spark a woman's interest? Most guys here that are 30+ have own house and transport, and most of us on fab are clean decent professionals. These are not selling points, they are basic expectations. What else are you offering? Figure that out and you have a selling point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you feel you sell yourself well? If you're not appealing to people then maybe you need to change something, because you can't change people's minds any other way.

You come across as very negative which is unappealing.

You've been here over a year and haven't attended a club or social. Any reason why?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I am no spring chicken but my age has never been a problem on Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I clicked on the profile saw the headline & clicked right off. I didn't want or need to read anymore, maybe you need to start there X

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By *yn drwgMan
over a year ago

Camarthen

People's filters are there for a reason just deal with it and get on with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You think you have it tough. Try being 69 and a smoker.

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By *r_Mrs_SexytimesCouple
over a year ago

pontypool

These posts every week.

Go to socials get yourself out there.

If you're discretion is necessary then maybe this isn't for you!

We are all here for the same reasons.

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