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By *iker-Lady OP   Woman
over a year ago

Neath

There is a Stalker on here who has been playing hell with a female friend on here for 2 years now.

I cannot name him as admins have banned my friend for naming him to warn other users.

He is threatening to expose her unless she meets him. he does not know my friend and has her mixed up with another female user who he is threatening to expose in her town.

Admins have left him on here but have blocked by friend. She has reported this person many times and he keeps coming back with a new user name. His last re-join was just 2 weeks ago and since then has sent numerous messages to my friend. She is so worried that she screen shot all the posts and has kept a record in-case this individual harms someone. The admins are acting like the BBC did with Jimmy Saville. They are protecting the perpetrator whilst silencing the victim.

Just be aware folks that the admins are not policing this site as they should be, they are failing in their duty of care and are leaving people vulnerable on here.

She has just messaged the admins over them blocking her but i doubt they will respond. Be extra vigilant on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is a Stalker on here who has been playing hell with a female friend on here for 2 years now.

I cannot name him as admins have banned my friend for naming him to warn other users.

He is threatening to expose her unless she meets him. he does not know my friend and has her mixed up with another female user who he is threatening to expose in her town.

Admins have left him on here but have blocked by friend. She has reported this person many times and he keeps coming back with a new user name. His last re-join was just 2 weeks ago and since then has sent numerous messages to my friend. She is so worried that she screen shot all the posts and has kept a record in-case this individual harms someone. The admins are acting like the BBC did with Jimmy Saville. They are protecting the perpetrator whilst silencing the victim.

Just be aware folks that the admins are not policing this site as they should be, they are failing in their duty of care and are leaving people vulnerable on here.

She has just messaged the admins over them blocking her but i doubt they will respond. Be extra vigilant on here. "

I would say if this is an ongoing issue and she's screenshot loads of it she needs to consider contacting the police.... some very strange folk about.

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy

He’s gone UNLOS. Probably show up again tomorrow though unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How does he threaten her? If its on here admin have access to all the messages, if it's elsewhere then why isn't he blocked on those platforms? If its via a 3rd party why don't they evidence it to the police for her. This happens often on Fab & the police have always been really good with those who report it, some of my friends have formally reported & taken matters to court. I don't wish to be in any way unsympathetic but there needs to be evidence to fix these things & often its a he said, she said scenario with lots of high feeling & misunderstanding X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This happened with me on here too , threatened me with my pics etc but once I reported him I never heard from him again

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By *andK78Couple
over a year ago

Newport

Guessing it's the person who started a thread a few lines down and now has disappeared.

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By *iker-Lady OP   Woman
over a year ago

Neath

She keeps blocking him but he then comes back on with a new profile and starts again.

There needs to be a way of the system recognising phone numbers and blocking new attempts to join through there being a requirement to send a text to your mobile and if its the same mobile the system recognising that and refusing the join request.

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By *ill2k82Man
over a year ago

Carmarthen


"She keeps blocking him but he then comes back on with a new profile and starts again.

There needs to be a way of the system recognising phone numbers and blocking new attempts to join through there being a requirement to send a text to your mobile and if its the same mobile the system recognising that and refusing the join request. "

Best thing she can do is ring the police on this man because from what you describe of what he is doing can manifest into something worse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She keeps blocking him but he then comes back on with a new profile and starts again.

There needs to be a way of the system recognising phone numbers and blocking new attempts to join through there being a requirement to send a text to your mobile and if its the same mobile the system recognising that and refusing the join request. "

You'd never have any so called single men on here then, most are like yoyo's joining, leaving, joining. Your friend is an adult & as such is responsible for her own safety, the police are the people to go to if this is a genuine threat. We can only rely on others & external providers to a small extent, Where's her personal responsibility?

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By *elsh_lass74Woman
over a year ago

South Wales

There is also a filter on here to prevent brand new profiles contacting you. Proves quite useful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is also a filter on here to prevent brand new profiles contacting you. Proves quite useful"

Very useful for those of us who have been stalked, I'll never forget the bonkers policeman stalker, I still look out for him

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By *moothgentlemanMan
over a year ago

Wales


"There is also a filter on here to prevent brand new profiles contacting you. Proves quite useful

Very useful for those of us who have been stalked, I'll never forget the bonkers policeman stalker, I still look out for him "

Well that sounds awful, you can always report him to his force.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is also a filter on here to prevent brand new profiles contacting you. Proves quite useful

Very useful for those of us who have been stalked, I'll never forget the bonkers policeman stalker, I still look out for him

Well that sounds awful, you can always report him to his force. "

I did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *moothgentlemanMan
over a year ago

Wales


"There is also a filter on here to prevent brand new profiles contacting you. Proves quite useful

Very useful for those of us who have been stalked, I'll never forget the bonkers policeman stalker, I still look out for him

Well that sounds awful, you can always report him to his force.

I did "

Good! Can’t protect society when he’s one of the bloody problems x

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