FabSwingers.com forum: Good first message

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi everyone.

What would you class as a good introductory message on here please? I’d love to have your thoughts on how to avoid a “boring” message but also not to overstep the Mark?

Gareth x

By *ing-louisMan
over a year ago

Merthyr Tydfil

I always personalise it after reading their profile (if I am what they're looking for) or with some hilarious quip about an update they have.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi everyone.

What would you class as a good introductory message on here please? I’d love to have your thoughts on how to avoid a “boring” message but also not to overstep the Mark?

Gareth x "

There is no such thing as a good message if you have no pics and an empty profile. I’d look at your profile first and would have already made my mind up that your not for me and not even look at the message.

There is no formula, every woman is different but that’s my take on it. If the profile had pics to attract me and wording that gives me an idea we are looking for the same then it wouldn’t matter if you just said hello I’d probably reply because I was attracted In some way. A message alone isn’t enough.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are fit and young it does not matter.old and a bit fugly then work at it.

Its like trying to sell a car. new and shiney sports cars always are wanted more than an old mondeo.

A great quote i read years ago was " only ugly people need to be polite"