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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it just me, or have people forgotten how to communicate these days?

Simply put, one word, or one sentence intro messages, really doesn't justify a reply, or does it?

I like to think I can hold a conversation really well, and will even reply to the above mentioned messages, just out of politeness, but it's really getting to the point where I can't be arsed to do that either!

Would love to hear your thoughts on this...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So if I message you saying "hi" will I get a response

I tend not to write long winded messages as mostly they never get redd anyway, so I save the energy for something else

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So if I message you saying "hi" will I get a response

I tend not to write long winded messages as mostly they never get redd anyway, so I save the energy for something else "

Enough said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a problem glad to be of service

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Conversation goes along way in my book but there is to many one word answers

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By *efByOrgasmsMan
over a year ago

Heads of the Valleys


"Is it just me, or have people forgotten how to communicate these days?

Simply put, one word, or one sentence intro messages, really doesn't justify a reply, or does it?

I like to think I can hold a conversation really well, and will even reply to the above mentioned messages, just out of politeness, but it's really getting to the point where I can't be arsed to do that either!

Would love to hear your thoughts on this... "

There's nothing worse than a lazy one worded or even a few words.

Definitely one of my pet hates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d prefer a coherent sentence especially if you’ve been taking to them before on ongoing.

It is a bit of an annoyance but then again, they might have just popped online, read quickly and have to go. If the conversation however has been fluid and all answers are one or two words, they’ve simply lost interest. Delete and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes the shy brief openers can develop to a good conversation.

Prefer a well crafted opener though. Something with a bit of wit and cheek x

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By *he tunnelsCouple
over a year ago

newport

Just had a message of a guy .... is you wife’s cunt hairy ....... , no hi guys how are you etc , be asking for advice in the forums next, knob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A little less conversation, a little more action please gorgeous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Conversation is well and truly dead for the most part, unless you count “fancy watching me wank?” in an introductory message as polite conversation. People don’t even pretend to make the effort anymore.

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By *ancardiff7Man
over a year ago

Near Cowbridge


"Conversation is well and truly dead for the most part, unless you count “fancy watching me wank?” in an introductory message as polite conversation. People don’t even pretend to make the effort anymore."

Yeah sorry about that message, don't know what came over me, so to speak

But back on track, yes conversation seems to be a dying art form on fab, which is a shame as good conversation leads to good chemistry which leads to good...well, you know the rest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Conversation is well and truly dead for the most part, unless you count “fancy watching me wank?” in an introductory message as polite conversation. People don’t even pretend to make the effort anymore.

Yeah sorry about that message, don't know what came over me, so to speak

But back on track, yes conversation seems to be a dying art form on fab, which is a shame as good conversation leads to good chemistry which leads to good...well, you know the rest "

You never waited for my reply though, you blocked me before I could respond

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By *ancardiff7Man
over a year ago

Near Cowbridge


"Conversation is well and truly dead for the most part, unless you count “fancy watching me wank?” in an introductory message as polite conversation. People don’t even pretend to make the effort anymore.

Yeah sorry about that message, don't know what came over me, so to speak

But back on track, yes conversation seems to be a dying art form on fab, which is a shame as good conversation leads to good chemistry which leads to good...well, you know the rest

You never waited for my reply though, you blocked me before I could respond"

In my opinion if a lady doesn't reply within 40 milliseconds then she's too snooty and doesn't deserve to see the goods

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By *ancardiff7Man
over a year ago

Near Cowbridge


"Conversation is well and truly dead for the most part, unless you count “fancy watching me wank?” in an introductory message as polite conversation. People don’t even pretend to make the effort anymore.

Yeah sorry about that message, don't know what came over me, so to speak

But back on track, yes conversation seems to be a dying art form on fab, which is a shame as good conversation leads to good chemistry which leads to good...well, you know the rest

You never waited for my reply though, you blocked me before I could respond"

In my opinion if a lady doesn't reply within 40 milliseconds then she's too snooty and doesn't deserve to see the goods

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Conversation is well and truly dead for the most part, unless you count “fancy watching me wank?” in an introductory message as polite conversation. People don’t even pretend to make the effort anymore.

Yeah sorry about that message, don't know what came over me, so to speak

But back on track, yes conversation seems to be a dying art form on fab, which is a shame as good conversation leads to good chemistry which leads to good...well, you know the rest

You never waited for my reply though, you blocked me before I could respond

In my opinion if a lady doesn't reply within 40 milliseconds then she's too snooty and doesn't deserve to see the goods "

Noted! Will endeavour to respond quicker future

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By *ancardiff7Man
over a year ago

Near Cowbridge


"Conversation is well and truly dead for the most part, unless you count “fancy watching me wank?” in an introductory message as polite conversation. People don’t even pretend to make the effort anymore.

Yeah sorry about that message, don't know what came over me, so to speak

But back on track, yes conversation seems to be a dying art form on fab, which is a shame as good conversation leads to good chemistry which leads to good...well, you know the rest

You never waited for my reply though, you blocked me before I could respond

In my opinion if a lady doesn't reply within 40 milliseconds then she's too snooty and doesn't deserve to see the goods

Noted! Will endeavour to respond quicker future "

Consider yourself unblocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always found it hard to hold a conversation on here.

One word replies if I'm lucky. It makes me feel like I'm hassling the ladies.

Which is why I spend most of my time in the forums.. Because atleast in the forums I can get acknowledged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just had a message of a guy .... is you wife’s cunt hairy ....... , no hi guys how are you etc , be asking for advice in the forums next, knob "

Sorry, but that did make me laugh out loud! Just beggers belief though isn't it.

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By *randMrsBlueEyesCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Been having a lot of issues with this, we try to reply to all messages when we can and both get online when we can but it's seriously hard work sometimes. I need a bit of flirty chat and normal chatty banter to feel comfortable with someone!

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just had a message of a guy .... is you wife’s cunt hairy ....... , no hi guys how are you etc , be asking for advice in the forums next, knob "

Our favourite just said "If yer eager, show me yer beaver".

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By *ussellmyMassonMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I try to be chatting and talkative but I’ve became a bit socially awkward for a while

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

The worst one I’ve had lately, with the subject line “Bare”, just said “Spread that cunt and I’ll make you grunt” - don’t try and tell me the art of conversation is dead, how could I resist that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The worst one I’ve had lately, with the subject line “Bare”, just said “Spread that cunt and I’ll make you grunt” - don’t try and tell me the art of conversation is dead, how could I resist that?"

Weren’t you tempted

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sometimes the shy brief openers can develop to a good conversation.

Prefer a well crafted opener though. Something with a bit of wit and cheek x "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just had a message of a guy .... is you wife’s cunt hairy ....... , no hi guys how are you etc , be asking for advice in the forums next, knob "

(face plant) were you not tempted haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A little less conversation, a little more action please gorgeous "

I have been told off again, shame on me lol. You will get plenty of action on the weekend gorgeous (she's just so bossy haha)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Been having a lot of issues with this, we try to reply to all messages when we can and both get online when we can but it's seriously hard work sometimes. I need a bit of flirty chat and normal chatty banter to feel comfortable with someone!

Mrs x"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The worst one I’ve had lately, with the subject line “Bare”, just said “Spread that cunt and I’ll make you grunt” - don’t try and tell me the art of conversation is dead, how could I resist that?"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The worst one I’ve had lately, with the subject line “Bare”, just said “Spread that cunt and I’ll make you grunt” - don’t try and tell me the art of conversation is dead, how could I resist that?

Weren’t you tempted "

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"The worst one I’ve had lately, with the subject line “Bare”, just said “Spread that cunt and I’ll make you grunt” - don’t try and tell me the art of conversation is dead, how could I resist that?

Weren’t you tempted "

I was hard to resist but I managed to restrain myself!

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

I love good conversation.

I tend to waffle on about all sorts though. I guess that’s just the real me though.

Need to focus and aim for brevity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The worst one I’ve had lately, with the subject line “Bare”, just said “Spread that cunt and I’ll make you grunt” - don’t try and tell me the art of conversation is dead, how could I resist that?

Weren’t you tempted

I was hard to resist but I managed to restrain myself!"

I really don’t know how you managed it

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By *ing-louisMan
over a year ago

Merthyr Tydfil

Its mad, because I try to start conversations and get fuck all back might start trying one word or short messages

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By *randMrsBlueEyesCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Its mad, because I try to start conversations and get fuck all back might start trying one word or short messages "

Please don't, they are so depressing I'm sick of trying to force conversations... they usually assume I am Mr rather than bother to ask which doesn't help!

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I totally agree which baffles me why a lot of people, and let's be honest it's mainly the ladies, expect a well crafted and thorough opener. When in the art of conversation did that become the norm? Surely most good conversations begin with a simple hello and an introduction. Not a bloody CV, covering letter and autobiography rolled into one. Where does that leave the conversation?

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By *randMrsBlueEyesCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I totally agree which baffles me why a lot of people, and let's be honest it's mainly the ladies, expect a well crafted and thorough opener. When in the art of conversation did that become the norm? Surely most good conversations begin with a simple hello and an introduction. Not a bloody CV, covering letter and autobiography rolled into one. Where does that leave the conversation? "

Certainly for me I don't want War and Peace, but hello and an introduction isnt happening! It's literally "Fancy a meet now?" (Not read profile), "Hi" or "She's hot" and while I have replied to all I can only take so many single word answers before I assume a lack of personality that will match with mine behind the screen...

Mrs x

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff


"I totally agree which baffles me why a lot of people, and let's be honest it's mainly the ladies, expect a well crafted and thorough opener. When in the art of conversation did that become the norm? Surely most good conversations begin with a simple hello and an introduction. Not a bloody CV, covering letter and autobiography rolled into one. Where does that leave the conversation? "

It’s not like a conversation in person though. It’s not as free-flowing and organic as that. You can’t quickly follow up a “hi” with other stuff.

I can see why it’s important to say something to grab the attention and stimulate interest from the off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I totally agree which baffles me why a lot of people, and let's be honest it's mainly the ladies, expect a well crafted and thorough opener. When in the art of conversation did that become the norm? Surely most good conversations begin with a simple hello and an introduction. Not a bloody CV, covering letter and autobiography rolled into one. Where does that leave the conversation?

It’s not like a conversation in person though. It’s not as free-flowing and organic as that. You can’t quickly follow up a “hi” with other stuff.

I can see why it’s important to say something to grab the attention and stimulate interest from the off."

I disagree. I believe it can be free flowing and organic if the personalities are there.

For me stimulation is built in the conversation. I find sometimes the initial grabs but from there it drops because people have given so much in the introduction. It can also become very scripted.

I just want to chat and go from there. Back and forth, banter flirting, humour..... Conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find a lot of the women on Here can’t hold a decent conversation or have any banter at all. there are a few exceptions to that on here thou and they know who they are

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By *randMrsBlueEyesCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I find a lot of the women on Here can’t hold a decent conversation or have any banter at all. there are a few exceptions to that on here thou and they know who they are "

I usually find the opposite... can't find many who keep up with me! Nothing hooks me more than good banter...

Mrs x

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