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7 Months and 1 Meet. What's Up With That

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The topic says it all tbh, all this time and only 1 meet (which wasn't the best).

Now I'm not asking for advice or for people to give me pointers about my profile but why is it so hard for single guys here just to get a Social. I realise that there are plenty of meet ups and socials and clubs but for someone who finds that idea i.e Me, of turning up especially as a single guy daunting, it's hard work.

So maybe this is a rant or just wanted people's opinions and experiences about this I don't know but .......... The floor is open

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go back & Read what you've posted, the 1st sentence & the fact you wrote that here should give a clue why you're not getting on. There are plenty of successful single guys about, think about what makes them that way X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yawn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lovely if the one lady who "wasn't the best" reads the forums.

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By *emMuitoCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Punctuation matters.

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By *attoodchapMan
over a year ago

Swansea

I rarely meet as I can't get through all my messages and often mass delete. Fed up of the abuse I get for not responding and the amount of pussy pics is just horrendous.

Fed up of "quick meet" or "fuck in the car now" messages too.....women huh!

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm going to start a service for single guys to write their profiles for them (paid of course), with everyone looking for advice in the forums, I'll be retiring by the summer

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By *attoodchapMan
over a year ago

Swansea


"I'm going to start a service for single guys to write their profiles for them (paid of course), with everyone looking for advice in the forums, I'll be retiring by the summer "

I wonder how long it'll be before you get offered sex as payment!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm going to start a service for single guys to write their profiles for them (paid of course), with everyone looking for advice in the forums, I'll be retiring by the summer

I wonder how long it'll be before you get offered sex as payment! "

Well depending on who it is, they may just get a veri to go with their new profile write up lmfao

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly


"I'm going to start a service for single guys to write their profiles for them (paid of course), with everyone looking for advice in the forums, I'll be retiring by the summer "

Always top drawer profile texts, don't undercharge and you'll be on a beach by Crimbo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm going to start a service for single guys to write their profiles for them (paid of course), with everyone looking for advice in the forums, I'll be retiring by the summer

Always top drawer profile texts, don't undercharge and you'll be on a beach by Crimbo "

I still think my David attenborough style profile was the best. Ahhh I think I'm so funny sometimes

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By *attoodchapMan
over a year ago

Swansea


"Well depending on who it is, they may just get a veri to go with their new profile write up lmfao"

Could you write me a new profile please!

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly


"I'm going to start a service for single guys to write their profiles for them (paid of course), with everyone looking for advice in the forums, I'll be retiring by the summer

Always top drawer profile texts, don't undercharge and you'll be on a beach by Crimbo

I still think my David attenborough style profile was the best. Ahhh I think I'm so funny sometimes "

Attenborough made me spill my coffee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Well depending on who it is, they may just get a veri to go with their new profile write up lmfao

Could you write me a new profile please! "

Yours seems to be working well for you already

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only way I think to be successful on here is by attending the socials that are going on in your local area. Theres a few in South Wales. Its not easy going on your own for the first time but you will make friends and get varies. It gets easier the more times you attend them. Then women can read your varies and know a little more about and hopefully be interested in a meet. Good look OP x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kinda confused u start your straight but would meet a guy in a frock? (Ts/tv)

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By *ina JonesTV/TS
over a year ago

Caerphilly


"Kinda confused u start your straight but would meet a guy in a frock? (Ts/tv) "

LOL, you're going to be popular on Thursday.

To be fair your profile says gay but you're prepared to meet women in certain circumstances.

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By *ussellmyMassonMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Honestly ..... posting this makes all us guys seem scummy

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By *ab_CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Near Caerphilly

The poor male or female you met won't be best pleased with your comment but then again they might think the same of you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The poor male or female you met won't be best pleased with your comment but then again they might think the same of you

"

Oh no I told her, just being honest tbh, but if you'd seen my penis after, I was swollen for a few days after

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By *ab_CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Near Caerphilly

Keep digging... now you are telling everyone you are doing bareback and you have STD lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive eaten all my popcorn

And my face hurts from all the face plants

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Keep digging... now you are telling everyone you are doing bareback and you have STD lol"

No no no no it was protected, she was extremely tight.

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By *ancardiff7Man
over a year ago

Near Cowbridge


"Honestly ..... posting this makes all us guys seem scummy "

Au contraire, makes the males without a massive sense of entitlement at least 76% more attractive

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy


"Honestly ..... posting this makes all us guys seem scummy

Au contraire, makes the males without a massive sense of entitlement at least 76% more attractive "

Speak for yourself homeslice, I’m a solid 85 now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's always going to be hard for single men who are fussy.

I've been here over 8 months and only managed to get one veri which I had to drive miles! for.

This is a woman's world and women are like an endangered species on here compared to men.

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By *adyinred696969Couple
over a year ago

Brecon


"Keep digging... now you are telling everyone you are doing bareback and you have STD lol

No no no no it was protected, she was extremely tight."

So, she wasn't relaxed, I'd say that's down to you not getting her in the mood before hopping on lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to disagree it quite easy to get a social and a veri you dont need to travel miles for. Go to a group social put in the effort to attend. If you see one person in one social your winning.

There are at least three social a month in the south east wales area. Cardiff,Newport and Bridgend if your more west a lovely couple i think runs one in Swansea even one in Carmarthen.

If you dont go to some of these it would look like your just here for an easy lay. It’s as much about being social as the sex.

There is one gent who we will not name we see at every social. Everyone knows him and knows him as a decent gent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to disagree it quite easy to get a social and a veri you dont need to travel miles for. Go to a group social put in the effort to attend. If you see one person in one social your winning.

There are at least three social a month in the south east wales area. Cardiff,Newport and Bridgend if your more west a lovely couple i think runs one in Swansea even one in Carmarthen.

If you dont go to some of these it would look like your just here for an easy lay. It’s as much about being social as the sex.

There is one gent who we will not name we see at every social. Everyone knows him and knows him as a decent gent."

Like the OP said, some people find it daunting though. I don't like the idea of turning up at a swingers event on my own.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Keep digging... now you are telling everyone you are doing bareback and you have STD lol

No no no no it was protected, she was extremely tight.

So, she wasn't relaxed, I'd say that's down to you not getting her in the mood before hopping on lol"

No her vagina was that tight and honestly felt like she was trying to rip my foreskin off when she was giving me a BJ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop digging yourself a massive grave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to disagree it quite easy to get a social and a veri you dont need to travel miles for. Go to a group social put in the effort to attend. If you see one person in one social your winning.

There are at least three social a month in the south east wales area. Cardiff,Newport and Bridgend if your more west a lovely couple i think runs one in Swansea even one in Carmarthen.

If you dont go to some of these it would look like your just here for an easy lay. It’s as much about being social as the sex.

There is one gent who we will not name we see at every social. Everyone knows him and knows him as a decent gent.

Like the OP said, some people find it daunting though. I don't like the idea of turning up at a swingers event on my own. "

Mmmmmmmm it's a social..... just because all the people that go are swingers doesn't mean they going to be shouting to everyone when they walk in "hey look a swinger"

You could of bumped into people on a social and not realised.

It is hardly an event when they all go to a pub. Your looking at it wrong.

It's a meeting of like minded people that is all.

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