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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why are some on here so rude when you've been nothing but polite and non-pushy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because your a single bloke...simple.

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By *rMrsMorningstarCouple
over a year ago

near bridgend

Being a couple on here, you wouldn't believe how much we get messaged by single men. On top of that the tactics and sheer determination they use.

After all of that when someone genuin comes along ( call it bad timing) they tend to get the brant of it.

This is even worse for single fems..

Chin up OP..

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By *rMrsMorningstarCouple
over a year ago

near bridgend

That's our experience of it anyways..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If I was contacting people outside of their preferences then I might understand it but not if you're contacting in their preferences.

Ah well,chin up as you say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can I ask in what way they were rude OP ? Is it non replies or actually rude messages returned?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The latter rather than the former. No replies is understandable given the volume of messages that women receive but I think actual rudeness is uncalled for.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple


"The latter rather than the former. No replies is understandable given the volume of messages that women receive but I think actual rudeness is uncalled for. "

What are they rude about ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The latter rather than the former. No replies is understandable given the volume of messages that women receive but I think actual rudeness is uncalled for. "

well regardless of the volume of messages couples get , if a Male fitting their preferences sends a polite message then there's no call for rudeness , a polite no thanks does the same job and doesn't cost anything but we're all different , just brush it off as a lucky escape , would you really want to meet rude people?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The latter rather than the former. No replies is understandable given the volume of messages that women receive but I think actual rudeness is uncalled for.

well regardless of the volume of messages couples get , if a Male fitting their preferences sends a polite message then there's no call for rudeness , a polite no thanks does the same job and doesn't cost anything but we're all different , just brush it off as a lucky escape , would you really want to meet rude people? "

Better to find out beforehand indeed. Thanks all for your words of wisdom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because a lot of the woman and couples on here are rude. They get loads of attention from all the blokes on here looking for a quick fuck and then makes them think they're better than the single males on here.

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By *ite -meWoman
over a year ago

my house


"Because a lot of the woman and couples on here are rude. They get loads of attention from all the blokes on here looking for a quick fuck and then makes them think they're better than the single males on here. "
Not all females or couples think they are the dogs bollox thank you. I have said no too many meets stating the person is out of my league......

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By *almprintsWoman
over a year ago

deepest, darkest West

One persons definition of rude may be another's definition of plain speaking. Depends on your sensibilities.

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Ive experienced this on occasion too. Myessages are always thoughtful and worded to show I've read and understood their requirements / preferences and I try to make them both interesting and respectful, but do get really rude responses from time to time. The last one wasn't shy in telling me how I was out of her league and that it was laughable and annoying that someone as ugly as me dared message. For me I just see that as a lucky escape from someone I really wouldn't have wanted to meet. Xxx

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By *ite -meWoman
over a year ago

my house

It's a shame the rude species spoil for the good..... i been called a lot worse than ugly..... .....just smile and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a shame the rude species spoil for the good..... i been called a lot worse than ugly..... .....just smile and move on. "

Shouldn't be like that on the site. We are all supposed to be adults, a simple respectful no thanks would suffice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The latter rather than the former. No replies is understandable given the volume of messages that women receive but I think actual rudeness is uncalled for.

well regardless of the volume of messages couples get , if a Male fitting their preferences sends a polite message then there's no call for rudeness , a polite no thanks does the same job and doesn't cost anything but we're all different , just brush it off as a lucky escape , would you really want to meet rude people? "

Yaaaaaawwwwn... That sense of Fucking entitlement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never had a rude reply on here. Its hard being a single male but i always get a polite no thanks or they dont reply which i take as a polite no thanks.

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"The latter rather than the former. No replies is understandable given the volume of messages that women receive but I think actual rudeness is uncalled for.

well regardless of the volume of messages couples get , if a Male fitting their preferences sends a polite message then there's no call for rudeness , a polite no thanks does the same job and doesn't cost anything but we're all different , just brush it off as a lucky escape , would you really want to meet rude people?

Yaaaaaawwwwn... That sense of Fucking entitlement"

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Because I have a life outside of here and if I was to reply to every message there would be no time for anything else . Also some males see a reply as a way in if starting a conversation ... what bit of no thanks so they not understand ??? And if you start your message with i would love to give you a right seeing to ... that deffo don’t get a reply ....

Too many men see this as a sex site it’s not ... they have a sense of entitlement that all the fems on here will drop their knickers as soon as they send a message or two ....

Sorry but that’s not how it works ...

If you get no reply just block and move on ....

Then you know not to contact them again .,,

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Because I have a life outside of here and if I was to reply to every message there would be no time for anything else . Also some males see a reply as a way in if starting a conversation ... what bit of no thanks so they not understand ??? And if you start your message with i would love to give you a right seeing to ... that deffo don’t get a reply ....

Too many men see this as a sex site it’s not ... they have a sense of entitlement that all the fems on here will drop their knickers as soon as they send a message or two ....

Sorry but that’s not how it works ...

If you get no reply just block and move on ....

Then you know not to contact them again .,,"

100% correct! I've seen the kind of messages some of my friends get and it's embarrassing. A rejection isn't a personal thing, just down to attraction or the quality of the message, but either way we should take a 'no' with a bit of class and not over think it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because a lot of the woman and couples on here are rude. They get loads of attention from all the blokes on here looking for a quick fuck and then makes them think they're better than the single males on here. Not all females or couples think they are the dogs bollox thank you. I have said no too many meets stating the person is out of my league...... "

Agreed there are a few who are normal down to earth who don't let all the attention get to there head and you defo seem like one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The latter rather than the former. No replies is understandable given the volume of messages that women receive but I think actual rudeness is uncalled for.

well regardless of the volume of messages couples get , if a Male fitting their preferences sends a polite message then there's no call for rudeness , a polite no thanks does the same job and doesn't cost anything but we're all different , just brush it off as a lucky escape , would you really want to meet rude people?

Yaaaaaawwwwn... That sense of Fucking entitlement"

that was a rude reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not just rejection responses that are rude, there were a couple on here who would send vile messages slating bigger people because they were gym fit

Every time they were reported they would make a new profile.

If it helps, it's not personal, just someone with an axe to grind against a lifestyle they clearly don't understand

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

I’m only rude to people who are rude to me first, and believe me there have been plenty of those.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just suck it up and move on, don't be a snowflake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The latter rather than the former. No replies is understandable given the volume of messages that women receive but I think actual rudeness is uncalled for.

well regardless of the volume of messages couples get , if a Male fitting their preferences sends a polite message then there's no call for rudeness , a polite no thanks does the same job and doesn't cost anything but we're all different , just brush it off as a lucky escape , would you really want to meet rude people?

Yaaaaaawwwwn... That sense of Fucking entitlement

that was a rude reply "

It sure was Gorgeous, these things get tedious & I have zero tolerance. Yeah I could move on but what the value be of a thread where 100% agree & express the same sentiment, that would make us all sheep... Baaaa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The latter rather than the former. No replies is understandable given the volume of messages that women receive but I think actual rudeness is uncalled for.

well regardless of the volume of messages couples get , if a Male fitting their preferences sends a polite message then there's no call for rudeness , a polite no thanks does the same job and doesn't cost anything but we're all different , just brush it off as a lucky escape , would you really want to meet rude people?

Yaaaaaawwwwn... That sense of Fucking entitlement

that was a rude reply

It sure was Gorgeous, these things get tedious & I have zero tolerance. Yeah I could move on but what the value be of a thread where 100% agree & express the same sentiment, that would make us all sheep... Baaaa"

Coming from one of the rudest profiles on Fab... says it all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The latter rather than the former. No replies is understandable given the volume of messages that women receive but I think actual rudeness is uncalled for.

well regardless of the volume of messages couples get , if a Male fitting their preferences sends a polite message then there's no call for rudeness , a polite no thanks does the same job and doesn't cost anything but we're all different , just brush it off as a lucky escape , would you really want to meet rude people?

Yaaaaaawwwwn... That sense of Fucking entitlement

that was a rude reply

It sure was Gorgeous, these things get tedious & I have zero tolerance. Yeah I could move on but what the value be of a thread where 100% agree & express the same sentiment, that would make us all sheep... Baaaa

Coming from one of the rudest profiles on Fab... says it all"

They won't shag you mate

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By *r sugarandspiceMan
over a year ago

South Wales

Don’t worry OP join the club

Just wave your hands in the air just the way you don’t care and move on lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The latter rather than the former. No replies is understandable given the volume of messages that women receive but I think actual rudeness is uncalled for.

well regardless of the volume of messages couples get , if a Male fitting their preferences sends a polite message then there's no call for rudeness , a polite no thanks does the same job and doesn't cost anything but we're all different , just brush it off as a lucky escape , would you really want to meet rude people?

Yaaaaaawwwwn... That sense of Fucking entitlement

that was a rude reply

It sure was Gorgeous, these things get tedious & I have zero tolerance. Yeah I could move on but what the value be of a thread where 100% agree & express the same sentiment, that would make us all sheep... Baaaa

Coming from one of the rudest profiles on Fab... says it all

They won't shag you mate "

Good. I don't want them to lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He's very, very safe & I'll take that compliment X

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