FabSwingers.com forum: Rude?

By *bbeyh OP Woman
over a year ago

neath

Hey everyone

I logged in this evening to loads of messages so read through them all asvi do, checking out the profiles.

I then get a message from a couple (who I was going to reply to) that stated

"How dare you not reply after meeting them, we are better than them"

When I tried to reply it says I'm blocked, I'm just a bit hurt as I didn't deserve to be treated like that and what the hell makes them think they better than someone else.

Sorry for the rant but is this normal?

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By *annyboy2Man
over a year ago

stuttgart

It happens a bit yes, men will react like that to you too. Some couples are mental that is for sure, some god complex

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By *bbeyh OP Woman
over a year ago

neath

Like I'm just hurt by how we are all here for fun but they just think their a cut above the rest

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By *annyboy2Man
over a year ago

stuttgart

Dont waste your time and thought in it at all

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By *bbeyh OP Woman
over a year ago

neath

Ok x

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By *attoodchapMan
over a year ago

Swansea

As harsh as this sounds....you'll learn that people will call you all sorts, send you vile messages, block you, abuse you the whole 9 yards just for being you!

Read a message and reply = abuse

Read and don't reply = abuse

Don't read = abuse

Add a new pic = abuse!

There are some wonderful people on here though they are just hidden amongst the nutters, fakes and general tw@ts!

Don't take it to heart I'm sure there'll be a few of us to compliment you shortly! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've got to love it when people get jealous that you've been swinging when it's a swingers site

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By *bbeyh OP Woman
over a year ago

neath

Thanks guys, I've only met two couples but one has already left after a real bad experience but we still texting and the others were really nice genuine down to earth people so I just thought it was harsh how they thought they were 'better'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As harsh as this sounds....you'll learn that people will call you all sorts, send you vile messages, block you, abuse you the whole 9 yards just for being you!

Read a message and reply = abuse

Read and don't reply = abuse

Don't read = abuse

Add a new pic = abuse!

There are some wonderful people on here though they are just hidden amongst the nutters, fakes and general tw@ts!

Don't take it to heart I'm sure there'll be a few of us to compliment you shortly! X"

I totally agree, you cant do right for doing wrong..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok x"

If you go onto the conversation you had with him, you can also block him, this stops him from being unable to unblock you & try to mail you again (ive had this done to me & its how I learnt).. Good luck babe & dont let the bastards get you down..

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By *bbeyh OP Woman
over a year ago

neath

"As harsh as this sounds....you'll learn that people will call you all sorts, send you vile messages, block you, abuse you the whole 9 yards just for being you!

Read a message and reply = abuse

Read and don't reply = abuse

Don't read = abuse

Add a new pic = abuse!

There are some wonderful people on here though they are just hidden amongst the nutters, fakes and general tw@ts!

Don't take it to heart I'm sure there'll be a few of us to compliment you shortly! X

I totally agree, you cant do right for doing wrong..

Their loss as I was going to reply lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As harsh as this sounds....you'll learn that people will call you all sorts, send you vile messages, block you, abuse you the whole 9 yards just for being you!

Read a message and reply = abuse

Read and don't reply = abuse

Don't read = abuse

Add a new pic = abuse!

There are some wonderful people on here though they are just hidden amongst the nutters, fakes and general tw@ts!

Don't take it to heart I'm sure there'll be a few of us to compliment you shortly! X

I totally agree, you cant do right for doing wrong..

Their loss as I was going to reply lol"

Hopefully he'l read this on the forums then b'cuz as far as I can see its his loss..

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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago

The South

"Hey everyone

I logged in this evening to loads of messages so read through them all asvi do, checking out the profiles.

I then get a message from a couple (who I was going to reply to) that stated

"How dare you not reply after meeting them, we are better than them"

When I tried to reply it says I'm blocked, I'm just a bit hurt as I didn't deserve to be treated like that and what the hell makes them think they better than someone else.

Sorry for the rant but is this normal?"

There are some very odd couples here with a very high opinion of themselves and their self worth.

Thankfully they make themselves known very quickly and are then easily avoided.

Sorry to hear you've had a crap PM experience. Hope your inbox is now full of love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block them as well, forget and move on, you need a thick skin on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As above. You need a thick skin on here sometimes. I wouldn’t have bothered with a reply myself, just delete and block

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By *olphinmoonCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff & Edinburgh

Hey beautiful just block and move on!

You do get nutters on here and infact the couples seem to be more nuts than the singles but you will soon out the wheat from the chaff!

Just keep being you as we are all here for our own individual experiences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete, block, forget....

Repeat....

You'll quickly get used to it

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By *rsbrooksandjohnCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

Agree with the comments above.

When we first joined we had a similar experience.

So now just read all messages and delete and block the ones that are abusive and block the sender.

Thankfully don t get many these days

Just always remember its only words and words can t hurt you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Delete, block, forget....

Repeat....

You'll quickly get used to it

The only thing I'd add to this sound advice is, cast it out of your mind as quickly as you delete X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are strange people on here, I winked and fab a pick, read the profile before message and noticed they don't meet married men so I didn't message, I then had a message ripping into me because they dont met married men, didn't ask to meet lol,.

Don't worry you will have loads more. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just move on and dont worry about them OP.

I've seen it all on here over the years and you will get those who think they are gods gift and that you should meet them and you will get others who are abusive even when you are polite.

on a more positive note I would say that the nice people out weigh the negative people on here and it shouldn't have any effect on how you choose to have fun.

P.S. raise your age range

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

Unfortunately there are a fair few entitled nut jobs on here. You’ll soon develop a thick skin and learn to treat them appropriately. Be grateful you didn’t meet them. Imagine the fallout if you met socially and decided against taking it further

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"Hey everyone

I logged in this evening to loads of messages so read through them all asvi do, checking out the profiles.

I then get a message from a couple (who I was going to reply to) that stated

"How dare you not reply after meeting them, we are better than them"

When I tried to reply it says I'm blocked, I'm just a bit hurt as I didn't deserve to be treated like that and what the hell makes them think they better than someone else.

Sorry for the rant but is this normal?"

Unfortunately, nothing surprises here as the site can attract both the lovely and the vicious and unhinged. It does come with a steep learning curve.

Don't let it knock you Op. At the end of the day, they're complete strangers in a virtual environment.

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy

"Ok x

I love doing this, i turn the blocker into the blockee. haha take that block back at you

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy

"Hey everyone

I logged in this evening to loads of messages so read through them all asvi do, checking out the profiles.

I then get a message from a couple (who I was going to reply to) that stated

"How dare you not reply after meeting them, we are better than them"

When I tried to reply it says I'm blocked, I'm just a bit hurt as I didn't deserve to be treated like that and what the hell makes them think they better than someone else.

Sorry for the rant but is this normal?"

In what way do they mean better though? Quiet obviously there not on about their sparkling personality are they.

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

"You've got to love it when people get jealous that you've been swinging when it's a swingers site

Perish the thought of that

OP haters gonna hate.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"Hey everyone

I logged in this evening to loads of messages so read through them all asvi do, checking out the profiles.

I then get a message from a couple (who I was going to reply to) that stated

"How dare you not reply after meeting them, we are better than them"

When I tried to reply it says I'm blocked, I'm just a bit hurt as I didn't deserve to be treated like that and what the hell makes them think they better than someone else.

Sorry for the rant but is this normal?"

Egos, get bruised unfortunately we all have our standards and when people get "selective" manners and pride goes out the window, just the way of the world.

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By *ovis and GreeneyesCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

Don't worry yourself about it, their loss not yours.

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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago

The South

"Hey everyone

I logged in this evening to loads of messages so read through them all asvi do, checking out the profiles.

I then get a message from a couple (who I was going to reply to) that stated

"How dare you not reply after meeting them, we are better than them"

When I tried to reply it says I'm blocked, I'm just a bit hurt as I didn't deserve to be treated like that and what the hell makes them think they better than someone else.

Sorry for the rant but is this normal?"

We would love to show you that not all couples are such arses.

Alas, we're wayyyyyyyyyyyy too old for you.

Sad face.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

Think you had a lucky escape not meeting them ....Who you meet is your business and who do they think they are to say there better than anyone ...Majority of people here are lovely genuine people but there’s always the odd idiot ...

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By *unshine500Man
over a year ago

west wales

Ahh the life on fab, where people throw their toys out the ram when they dont get an answer in 0.01 seconds, pass them by, and count your blessings not to have had to meet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't worry for longer than the 10 seconds it takes to counter block them.

You are going to have zero trouble finding the hottest couples and fems on the site for playtime.

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By *bbeyh OP Woman
over a year ago

neath

They unblocked me and just sent a

face

Not verified by meet, just photo verified.

Maybe their frustrated after 3 months with no meets x

I replied and blocked

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By *bbeyh OP Woman
over a year ago

neath

Just hope they not in chams on 20th December

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure you'll have lot's of guys offering to take you now.

I think you should check with Chams though as I'm not sure if you have to be 21 to get in xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just hope they not in chams on 20th December "

It won't make any difference if they are

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By *ucalCouple
over a year ago

Llanelli

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By *bbeyh OP Woman
over a year ago

neath

"I'm sure you'll have lot's of guys offering to take you now.

I think you should check with Chams though as I'm not sure if you have to be 21 to get in xx"

Really? It's an adult club I'm an adult, only just but I am lol

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By *ucalCouple
over a year ago

Llanelli

I think you do have to be 21 babe

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