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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How can I write a good opening message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I simply wait for people to contact me. Women receive 100s Of messages a day in some cases so it’s better to have a profile that they will seek you out on.

If they like the sound of you they will be in touch

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I simply wait for people to contact me. Women receive 100s Of messages a day in some cases so it’s better to have a profile that they will seek you out on.

If they like the sound of you they will be in touch "

If I did that there would be no point being on here. But yea they do have loads. But that's not the point of my question

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By *ighugs69Man
over a year ago

Port Talbot

To be honest there's no point in your question. Since the same thing is asked almost every week and the answer is always the same.

Sending messages to single females & couples you don't know is pretty much a waste of your time & theirs. Unless you've got something particularly unique to offer.

The advice as always is go to one of the socials.

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By *lease300Woman
over a year ago

merthyr

I answer messages!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I answer messages!"

I can vouch for this *ahem, check your inbox* xx

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By *lease300Woman
over a year ago

merthyr


"I answer messages!

I can vouch for this *ahem, check your inbox* xx "

Lol x

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By *ancardiff7Man
over a year ago

Near Cowbridge

I don't think it's realistic to expect a reply every time. If a woman doesn't like the way your message is written, or your pics, or your profile text then why would they reply?

Just keep plugging away in an interesting, respectful and engaging way and you'll make the breakthrough.

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By *oppyrose97Couple
over a year ago

Swansea

To be fair OP, you've had 6 meets in 6 months. You're doing very well!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I answer messages!"

Lmao last time I messaged u. There was no answer lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To be honest there's no point in your question. Since the same thing is asked almost every week and the answer is always the same.

Sending messages to single females & couples you don't know is pretty much a waste of your time & theirs. Unless you've got something particularly unique to offer.

The advice as always is go to one of the socials."

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find, "my cock is raging right now come and sort it out" often works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I answer messages!

Lmao last time I messaged u. There was no answer lol "

exposed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find, "my cock is raging right now come and sort it out" often works "

One of the best ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find, "my cock is raging right now come and sort it out" often works

One of the best ones "

60% of the time it works every time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find, "my cock is raging right now come and sort it out" often works

One of the best ones

60% of the time it works every time "

Pmsl I'm not into men

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By *lease300Woman
over a year ago

merthyr


"I answer messages!

Lmao last time I messaged u. There was no answer lol "

Lol whoops sorry x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I answer messages!

Lmao last time I messaged u. There was no answer lol

Lol whoops sorry x"

It's ok lol

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"How can I write a good opening message "

Just speaking for myself here, but I only reply to messages when the person has done the things I ask in my profile. It’s pretty basic, there’s nothing fancy or difficult there, but people ignore it all the time. Those messages get deleted. If they’ve done what I ask, I’ll reply even if it’s just to say no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How can I write a good opening message

Just speaking for myself here, but I only reply to messages when the person has done the things I ask in my profile. It’s pretty basic, there’s nothing fancy or difficult there, but people ignore it all the time. Those messages get deleted. If they’ve done what I ask, I’ll reply even if it’s just to say no thanks."

Thanks for the reply. Yea that's exactly what I do. Just looked at your profile and read it and realised I messaged you four months ago and never even got a reply lol. Probably got lost in the messages.

My point is I'm crap at writing open messages but I'm always polite

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"How can I write a good opening message

Just speaking for myself here, but I only reply to messages when the person has done the things I ask in my profile. It’s pretty basic, there’s nothing fancy or difficult there, but people ignore it all the time. Those messages get deleted. If they’ve done what I ask, I’ll reply even if it’s just to say no thanks.

Thanks for the reply. Yea that's exactly what I do. Just looked at your profile and read it and realised I messaged you four months ago and never even got a reply lol. Probably got lost in the messages.

My point is I'm crap at writing open messages but I'm always polite "

Ugh, sorry - four months ago I hadn’t been on here very long and my inbox was ridiculous. I had more than 500 messages in my first 3 days, and I couldn’t keep up. If it had stopped there I’d never have caught up, and it didn’t stop! I don’t think I ever did see them all, the system had deleted loads by the time I managed to get through everything.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How can I write a good opening message

Just speaking for myself here, but I only reply to messages when the person has done the things I ask in my profile. It’s pretty basic, there’s nothing fancy or difficult there, but people ignore it all the time. Those messages get deleted. If they’ve done what I ask, I’ll reply even if it’s just to say no thanks.

Thanks for the reply. Yea that's exactly what I do. Just looked at your profile and read it and realised I messaged you four months ago and never even got a reply lol. Probably got lost in the messages.

My point is I'm crap at writing open messages but I'm always polite

Ugh, sorry - four months ago I hadn’t been on here very long and my inbox was ridiculous. I had more than 500 messages in my first 3 days, and I couldn’t keep up. If it had stopped there I’d never have caught up, and it didn’t stop! I don’t think I ever did see them all, the system had deleted loads by the time I managed to get through everything."

Awww ok very understandable

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