FabSwingers.com forum: Verification

By *lease300 OP Woman
over a year ago

merthyr

So just wondering why do folk 'hide' verifications?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Possibly when they have “straight” on the profile and their verifications will show the contrary

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By *lease300 OP Woman
over a year ago

merthyr

"Possibly when they have “straight” on the profile and their verifications will show the contrary"

Lol oh really x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are embarrassed about their meet maybe?

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By *lease300 OP Woman
over a year ago

merthyr

"They are embarrassed about their meet maybe?"

Ah ok interesting x

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

Because sometimes a guy has used my real name or gone into tacky details about our encounter. Also if a user leaves their veri for you is deleted but it remains counted as a veri.

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By *lease300 OP Woman
over a year ago

merthyr

"Because sometimes a guy has used my real name or gone into tacky details about our encounter. Also if a user leaves their veri for you is deleted but it remains counted as a veri. "

Now that's my reason too much detail x

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Unfortunately some get jealous & send unsolicited messages to those leaving them.

Hasn't happened to us but we know guys & ladies it has happened to.

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By *r and Mrs SexploitCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd

We've had one man leave a fake verification for a meet that didn't exist on cam!

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By *emon DelightMan
over a year ago

South Wales

If I’ve had multiple veris from the same person, I just tend to show one or two of them at a time. And every now and again I’ll swap them around a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have one that's a little too explicit and a few that have left the site over the years so the veri disappears.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wheb I was meeting I always used to show mine but I had a load of shit off a woman once for meeting a bloke she had met etc so I just decided it to be a lot less hassle to keep them private. I didn't really need other people knowing who I had met etc

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

"Unfortunately some get jealous & send unsolicited messages to those leaving them.

This. Far too often also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I don’t want a paper trail. Last time around men couldn’t get meets because they’d met me and I was too umm slutty apparently. Even though I always played safe and it’s you know a swingers site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hide mine to stop dodgy profiles trolling me and the people I've met

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By *lease300 OP Woman
over a year ago

merthyr

How interesting sorry you've had bad encounters x

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By *andK78Couple
over a year ago

Newport

We have spotted people we see in Vanilla life on here, what we get up to is our private business, we don't ask for any and haven't for a long time. We have all we need to get invites and everything we get up to is kept private.

That's just us mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep mine private because I don't have any

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unfortunately some get jealous & send unsolicited messages to those leaving them.

This. Far too often also."

Far too much of this goes on, we just leave them to it. If someone takes the time to write something nice we'll show it. We do tend to mix n match what we show nowadays, based on what we're looking for X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I keep mine private because I don't have any "

WHAT!!??!!

I'm feeling for you now ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I keep mine private because I don't have any

WHAT!!??!!

I'm feeling for you now ??"

Why I can't come to whacky weekend

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By *ardiffCoupleNJCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd/Rhyfelin

"Because sometimes a guy has used my real name or gone into tacky details about our encounter. Also if a user leaves their veri for you is deleted but it remains counted as a veri. "

We post most of our veris & we like to see veris as it gives us a better idea of what someone is looking for.

However agreed, we do hide veris where too much private info has been revealed or the veri is a bit tacky!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I keep mine private because I don't have any

WHAT!!??!!

I'm feeling for you now ??

Why I can't come to whacky weekend

Just meet someone at a social then You’ll get verified

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

"So just wondering why do folk 'hide' verifications?"

I only show the ones I’m happy to be associated with. The people who haven’t earned a repeat performance I don’t show. That’s my personal reason, but I know that if you block/are blocked by someone who’s left you a veri, it’ll still be on your total number but you can’t display it. I think if they delete their profile the same happens but I’m not sure.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Oh, this isn’t a reason why some of mine are hidden, but I did get shit off a guy once because “you met him and he’s a state, why won’t you meet me?”

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

"Oh, this isn’t a reason why some of mine are hidden, but I did get shit off a guy once because “you met him and he’s a state, why won’t you meet me?”"

...I've been that 'state' before (though I recall the description being waaaay more colourful)

Bonkers.

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By *lease300 OP Woman
over a year ago

merthyr

"Oh, this isn’t a reason why some of mine are hidden, but I did get shit off a guy once because “you met him and he’s a state, why won’t you meet me?”"

That's awful 'horses for courses ai' x

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Oh, this isn’t a reason why some of mine are hidden, but I did get shit off a guy once because “you met him and he’s a state, why won’t you meet me?”

That's awful 'horses for courses ai' x"

I just thought it was rude and disrespectful to me as well as the guy in question, and not the way to convince me to give him a chance!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's about privacy and decency. What happened to a worl of where a gentleman doesn't kiss and tell? Plus I've noticed a lot of veris are just not real or haven't actually happened so they are worthless.

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By *lease300 OP Woman
over a year ago

merthyr

"Oh, this isn’t a reason why some of mine are hidden, but I did get shit off a guy once because “you met him and he’s a state, why won’t you meet me?”

That's awful 'horses for courses ai' x

I just thought it was rude and disrespectful to me as well as the guy in question, and not the way to convince me to give him a chance!"

Totally agree x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I show some of mine sometimes , sometimes none of them , sometimes all of them.

For me its up to the person whos profile it is . Their profile they put on there what they like..... simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Discretion the better part of valour.

Value my privacy x

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By *carlett AllureWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

I’ve got a few hidden, either just because they have put in to much detail, used my real name, or turned in to a hungry twit after so have been blocked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people don’t like to show many verifications since it puts meets off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I keep mine private because I don't have any

WHAT!!??!!

I'm feeling for you now ??

Why I can't come to whacky weekend

That's not necessarily a negative

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And those who don't leave a veri. Or show one. So they don't get found out, meeting when they shouldn't be

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By *ancardiff7Man
over a year ago

Near Cowbridge

"And those who don't leave a veri

Seems rude not to do that, especially if you took the time to verify them.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

"And those who don't leave a veri

Seems rude not to do that, especially if you took the time to verify them."

Yeah, I find that very annoying. I always return a veri even if I don’t have much positive to say and have to keep it a bit bland.

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By *ancardiff7Man
over a year ago

Near Cowbridge

"And those who don't leave a veri

Seems rude not to do that, especially if you took the time to verify them.

Yeah, I find that very annoying. I always return a veri even if I don’t have much positive to say and have to keep it a bit bland."

Suspect yours to me would read 'Punctual and didn't smell too bad'.

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By *logger and Rainbow-AliceCouple
over a year ago

Bridgend

"Wheb I was meeting I always used to show mine but I had a load of shit off a woman once for meeting a bloke she had met etc so I just decided it to be a lot less hassle to keep them private. I didn't really need other people knowing who I had met etc"

This is my biggest reason on my single profile, i hide all my play ones for the exact same reason x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a shame you can see them when people leave the site you have met.

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