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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I can’t understand why men hate me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh dear X"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know ??

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By *r sugarandspiceMan
over a year ago

South Wales


"I can’t understand why men hate me "

Mmm what can be the reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know ??"

I think you look gorgeous. Sadly I have already message you b4 and didn't get a reply

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By *attoodchapMan
over a year ago

Swansea

Too many Snapchat filters

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"I can’t understand why men hate me "

If you are looking for advice, a lot more information would be required.

Why do you think men hate you?

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy

Well I don’t hate you, don’t think I hate anyone To be honest.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

I hate people using filters if that helps.

I mean how you going to achieve that look on a meet?

Saying that our daughters got some kitten ears so I guess anything is possible

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Niether do we you are a very attractive stunning lady. We would love to meet you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You probably are just not their type that's all.

Profile wise you haven't helped yourself with using heavily filtered pictures.

Been on for 9 months with no meets at all, not even cam or social which screams to many this is a fake female profile.

Then lastly your profile text shouts out you are looking for more than swinging/sex which there is nothing wrong with that but this is definitely the wrong site Oo openly soun like you're after a relationship as many aren't after that.

We wish you all the best x

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By *ewgirlontheblockWoman
over a year ago

sexy town

Snapchat filters.... I'm guessing you look slightly different in the flesh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP I'm not sure what you mean exactly by hate you but if men are taking the piss out of you it is probably because you are nor far off 50 and your profile is full of photos with snapchat filters on

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By *uddsWoman
over a year ago

st athans


"Too many Snapchat filters"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don’t know really

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No I don’t look different in flesh well except for the ears lol and I don’t have filters to change my face at all it’s just bunny or cats ears added for a bit of fun but I guess some don’t like that but that’s down to choice I guess

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"No I don’t look different in flesh well except for the ears lol and I don’t have filters to change my face at all it’s just bunny or cats ears added for a bit of fun but I guess some don’t like that but that’s down to choice I guess"

So, when you say guys hate you, what do you mean?

Are they abusive because you turn them down for a meet?

Or are they abusive in their first message, if so, what do they say?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes that’s right when I turn them down or don’t message back being as I get loads of messages and can’t possibly message everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes that’s right when I turn them down or don’t message back being as I get loads of messages and can’t possibly message everyone "

So men dont hate you they just hate rejection, it's not a new thing on fab, it's usually newish members that abuse women or couples because they are frustrated at the lack of action, but experienced members know u wont be everyones cup of tea and just move on, if u get abuse block and move on but dont take it personally it's not you that's the problem it's their attitude and lack of experience

Good luck for the future and dont let it get to you

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"Yes that’s right when I turn them down or don’t message back being as I get loads of messages and can’t possibly message everyone "

Ok.

So, they dont like rejection.

Its not you they hate, its the fact that they probably get turned down a lot, and are frustrated, I wouldnt let it bother you.

The book "Uncle Marts handy hints and tips for swingers" gives this advice on the subject.

"Dont respond, just block them. Set your message filters so that guys cant message you. You can still look for guys yourself, and message the ones that you like."

Sounds like good advice to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes that’s right when I turn them down or don’t message back being as I get loads of messages and can’t possibly message everyone "

Thats the norm for all women

Block single guys and only message who you want to

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By *mNaugghtyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I can’t understand why men hate me "

Don’t know why anyone would hate you your very pretty lady I’d love to play hehe x

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By *efByOrgasmsMan
over a year ago

Heads of the Valleys

Just remember that not every guy is like that x

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By *i.HappyMan
over a year ago

Uxbridge

You look stunning honey. Don't put your self down.

You can have the pick of any man.

xx

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By *elshbuilder67Man
over a year ago

Aberdare

By the sounds of it guys don’t hate you it’s just that they get upset at the rejection.

Ignore them, block them they aren’t worth it.

Your body your choice

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By *copioMan
over a year ago

near neath

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By *copioMan
over a year ago

near neath

Maybe when you arrange to meet and they turn up and you don’t and don’t even have the decency to even say you can’t make it or even changed your mind . But that is not hate it’s just feeling messed about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe when you arrange to meet and they turn up and you don’t and don’t even have the decency to even say you can’t make it or even changed your mind . But that is not hate it’s just feeling messed about "
the plot thickens... popcorn?

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By *lease300Woman
over a year ago

merthyr


"Maybe when you arrange to meet and they turn up and you don’t and don’t even have the decency to even say you can’t make it or even changed your mind . But that is not hate it’s just feeling messed about the plot thickens... popcorn?"

Oh oh lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe when you arrange to meet and they turn up and you don’t and don’t even have the decency to even say you can’t make it or even changed your mind . But that is not hate it’s just feeling messed about the plot thickens... popcorn?"

Only if it's the toffee stuff

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By *copioMan
over a year ago

near neath

Lol no plot save your popcorn lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe when you arrange to meet and they turn up and you don’t and don’t even have the decency to even say you can’t make it or even changed your mind . But that is not hate it’s just feeling messed about the plot thickens... popcorn?

Only if it's the toffee stuff "
half and half?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol no plot save your popcorn lol"
ahhh shame!

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By *lease300Woman
over a year ago

merthyr

Sweet and salty yummy

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