FabSwingers.com forum: Couples

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

lol ok please dont shoot me for this pmsl i am jus gonna have a grumble lmao!!!!!!!!!!!

Am wondering if some people on this site do actually understand wat the words "COUPLE" and "DO NOT MEET SINGLY" mean??

Answer on a post card below pmsl xxx

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Nope, no idea, gissa clue?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some guys who have gf's/wives put down couple as their profile even though their other half has no idea they are on here and would probably chop their cocks off if they found out they were lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

pmsl!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wounder how many can read fullstop or they are so full of themselves they think they are so wounderful that nobody could resist them...rant over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is SINGLY the name of a person who has pissed them off, so that way as my name is not singly, your ok to meet me.

lol

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By *rystalsCouple
over a year ago

swansea

What u mean single blokes don't know how to rea d mun pml so how do expect them to know what ppl want these ppl need google lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get a life ppl.its a sex site for everyone not just couples if u don't like men sending mail just block them!to maany couples have a go and isn't rite!it should be a fun and good times not picking rows!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

its a swinging site not a sex site and the point is if single males botherd to read profiles properly then they would respect what they state and not bombard couples with mail when the couples dont want it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U really need to get a life!go on facebook if u want to talk to ppl!that's all u had to do is block men on ur profile!not going around slaggin them off!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"U really need to get a life!go on facebook if u want to talk to ppl!that's all u had to do is block men on ur profile!not going around slaggin them off!

this is what i mean you didnt even understand my thread so imagine im sitting in font of you and speaking very slowly.

the point im making is that i still get asked to meet alone when i only play as part of a couple and so does ice if the single males { cos its mostly single males) botherd to take the time to read profiles then i wouldnt have to put up with it and nor should i.

but who said the thread was directed at single males?

and single males are blocked on our profile but it doesnt stop the pms in chat and yes i could block them but why shud i have to they shud be respectful enough not to ask or simply just read profiles .

p.s. happy wanking

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

coudl admin or a mod please shut this thread down.... i just asked a simple question...and didnt want it to turn into a slangingmatch xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

but am i bothered??

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fire you tell them!!! me talking in a non contacting or pm voice

fire and i dont wanna shag u ... honest

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By *f3_ladyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Why grumble about it? I get requests from singles and couples asking me to meet alone even though I make it clear in my profile that I only come as a couple in those circumstances. My response is to point out in a polite what that I'm not interested. It only takes a moment and I don't get stressed out.

It's obvious that there is a significant number of members on Fab that can't be bothered to read and understand profiles before they send messages. You can protect yourself to an extent by using message filters etc but you'll never be able to totally avoid these people!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"wounder how many can read fullstop or they are so full of themselves they think they are so wounderful that nobody could resist them...rant over

Wonder how many can spell if they did it would be wonderful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry but if a profile is miss read by us annoying males and a pm is sent why not just be polite and reply with a simple no and block,that way you treat others as you would like to be treated

and not ignored this site suppose to be

friendly and none abusive so single straight males put up with bi guys and gays doing doing the same but you dont here them complaineung

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people need to get a grip !! ffs fire only asked a question ................jesus !!!!

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By *iggers4uCouple
over a year ago

Over down by There

As has been said above, this is a SWINGING site as opposed to a 'sex site'. Perhaps when peeps can understand this, they will also understand people's profiles and then renew their subscription to babestation.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As has been said above, this is a SWINGING site as opposed to a 'sex site'. Perhaps when peeps can understand this, they will also understand people's profiles and then renew their subscription to babestation.......

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"people need to get a grip !! ffs fire only asked a question ................jesus !!!!"

I give up hun XXXX

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Nawwww Tiggs mwah xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why grumble about it? I get requests from singles and couples asking me to meet alone even though I make it clear in my profile that I only come as a couple in those circumstances. My response is to point out in a polite what that I'm not interested. It only takes a moment and I don't get stressed out.

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By *emo and HollyCouple
over a year ago

neath

pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its not a sex site what is it then?if couples want to meet other couples that's fine just block men!don't slag all men off!I don't need to wank I have a good safe sex life thank you!

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By *ld skool swingerMan
over a year ago

Abertillery

[Removed by poster at 05/04/12 17:22:42]

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By *ld skool swingerMan
over a year ago

Abertillery

the fact that guys or even girls even ask to meet one of a couple unless they are looking for alone meets shows a lack of respect for that couple , and a disregard of the relationship of that couple , swinging is often though of as just sex whilst that is true its sex with respect .

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By *ustJeffWalesMan
over a year ago

V of G and Merthyr Tydfil

The name of this site is fabswingers not fabsex. The term swingers was originated amongst couples who met up with the intent of swapping partners for some bedroom antics. Some of those couples diversified and ventured out into having additional singles join them while others keep to the partner swapping format.

What the original post was aimed at was the lack of respect from some singles who do not have the courtesy to read profiles and move on if they do not meet the couples criteria.

If you already have a good sex like then why not join up as a couple so that you can appreciate things from a couples point of view.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignorance is bliss !!

That being said, a lot of single males are whining about being ignored lately.

I spent 10 mins typing a rant to put here. Was a couple paragraphs !! But I'm not going to, and it's probably all been said before !

Might put it on our profile instead so it can be ignored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If its not a sex site what is it then?if couples want to meet other couples that's fine just block men!don't slag all men off!I don't need to wank I have a good safe sex life thank you!"

Your talking crap. Swinging isn't just about sex. If your ever part of a couple and you carry on swinging, then your view will change.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

We don't have any blocks on our mails and get mails from couples and females who don't read profiles either. Sadly some people just don't read profiles, we found this out pretty quick, so now we just send a no thanks.

But for anyone who wants to cut down the mails they get or the PM's in chat then it might be a good option to use your mail filters and block all PM's or set to friends only.

http://www.fabswingers.com/my/filters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha ha if couples want to meet for for that fine!but most of the ppl on this site are on it for sex!that's a fact.if couples want to meet for drinks fine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

we have single males on our friends list ones weve met at socials and got to know.

and we chat to single males we dont know.

but what i am saying is its distrespectful to ask to meet me alone when our profile clearly states niether of us will meet other than part of a couple.

so this is clearly not slagging single males off in fact when the mood takes me a single male is very handy for an mmf lol tho some who havnt grasped the meaning of my thread still think so. and as for needing a wank ive read your endless list of awesome veris and see what you mean pmsl.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

hmmmmm that last paragraph was a bit bitchy unlike me apologies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't need to wank have a good sex life thanks!its up to u what u put on ur profile!that's all I'm saying that most ppl on this site are looking for sex that's a fact!if couples want to spent time having drinks with other couples and get to know them fine!

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Maybe time to shut this now.

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