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By *rsbrooksandjohn OP   Couple
over a year ago

Swansea

Just read in one of the forums that some people think if the male has bi curious on a couples profile it reduces their chances of meeting people.

I list bi curious on our profile as mrs b has a fantasy to see me and another guy playing to be fair i'd love to see her with another woman so fares fare. Am very secure in my sexuality so do not feel it undermines me as a man

What do you all think ????

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By *rsbrooksandjohn OP   Couple
over a year ago

Swansea

Bump

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By *pples123456Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

Why would it under mine you as a man.? . Its yours and your wife fantasy/bucket list.

Yes there are some singles and couples that won't play with bi or bi-curious men/couples but that's their choice.

My own view on it its just fun, I've met some amazing people on here, as well as true friends, men/women/couples know me for who I am not for my sexuality. Well 80% of the time lol.

I'm not everyones cup of tea and everyone not my cup of tea, that's fine each to their own.

I'm sure you both will find what your looking for on here.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I think there's going to be people who don't like it but each to their own. I'm bi but doesn't mean I wouldn't respect another female as part of a couple. And definitely doesn't mean I'd actually fancy her.

Some people get all wound up that if you're bi you fancy everyone and that so isn't true. The way I see it if they don't want to play cause I'm bi, they aren't the kind of people for me in the first place

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By *pples123456Man
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I think there's going to be people who don't like it but each to their own. I'm bi but doesn't mean I wouldn't respect another female as part of a couple. And definitely doesn't mean I'd actually fancy her.

Some people get all wound up that if you're bi you fancy everyone and that so isn't true. The way I see it if they don't want to play cause I'm bi, they aren't the kind of people for me in the first place "

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By *ackieSteveCouple
over a year ago

Newbridge

I only play bi when Jackie tells me to, dont get me wrong, I appreciate a big ol' good looking dick, but I'm not attracted to guys at all. So I have curious on our profile, but incase theres a hot couple you wanna get their freak on lol

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By *rs s and mr sCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

Theres nothing wrong with being bi each to their own.we have played with both bi and straight.

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By *wmbranmikeMan
over a year ago

cwmbran

I find best meets are with bi couples and find it more genuine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with it we love it but everyone to their own

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By *rsbrooksandjohn OP   Couple
over a year ago

Swansea

I have bi curious on our profile for mrs b as i said she d like to see me play with a guy.

Have never fancied a guy not even while i was playing rugby . But will to go with the flow with the right people

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By *inkyKatssCouple
over a year ago

pontypridd

We are both bi and only play with bi people (unless we are at a club) but even then we try to find bi people

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By *rsbrooksandjohn OP   Couple
over a year ago

Swansea

The reason i was was asking was in response to the swinger chat forum topic.

"Bisexuality duality"

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Been reading that too and found it a bit depressing in all honesty. Some of the comments I found a bit ignorant, considering we're all on a swingers site. Implying that bi men are more likely to be promiscuous is a bit mental. I myself find it hot when a man is confident in himself that he doesn't mind being surrounded by a male of any sexual orientation. As long as there are defined boundaries what's the problem. However, do understand that it's those couples right to play with whoever they want to. Just maybe wish they were more understanding, as I'm sure they wouldn't like being called promiscuous since they are on a swingers site

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By *-CrassClownMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I'm not even sure the issue is with bi-curious, I have seen many profiles who refuse to even entertain playing with bi men in general. It is of course everyone's prerogative to play with whoever they please, but it is definitely kind of depressing that on a swingers site, there appears to be just as much ignorance as in the vanilla world.

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By *rsbrooksandjohn OP   Couple
over a year ago

Swansea


"Been reading that too and found it a bit depressing in all honesty. Some of the comments I found a bit ignorant, considering we're all on a swingers site. Implying that bi men are more likely to be promiscuous is a bit mental. I myself find it hot when a man is confident in himself that he doesn't mind being surrounded by a male of any sexual orientation. As long as there are defined boundaries what's the problem. However, do understand that it's those couples right to play with whoever they want to. Just maybe wish they were more understanding, as I'm sure they wouldn't like being called promiscuous since they are on a swingers site "

Try going to gran canaria and spending time in the yumbo.if you be comfortable there you can be comfortable anywhere (john) lol

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Haha I'm ginger don't do hot places, don't want my skin matching my hair!!!!

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By *rsbrooksandjohn OP   Couple
over a year ago

Swansea

On a serious not the yumbo is a great place to relax and have a drink. With plenty of entertainment for all and some great restaurants

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By *OWN AND COUNTY SOCIALSMan
over a year ago

CARMARTHEN

As I arrange Socials it is becoming more noticeable that more and more couples profiles are showing either a bi male or bi curious male.

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By *elshhorseMan
over a year ago

ogmore valley

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I'm a bi male top, but would play straight when asked, yes couples say no because you are bi, it does get to us single males, because others think we are permiscuas, which I am not.xx

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By *rometheousMan
over a year ago

Treorchy


"Why would it under mine you as a man.? . Its yours and your wife fantasy/bucket list.

Yes there are some singles and couples that won't play with bi or bi-curious men/couples but that's their choice.

My own view on it its just fun, I've met some amazing people on here, as well as true friends, men/women/couples know me for who I am not for my

sexuality. Well 80% of the time lol.

I'm not everyones cup of tea and everyone not my cup of tea, that's fine each to their own.

I'm sure you both will find what your looking for on here. "

I agree with apples. It shouldnt undermine you as a man. Its your bucketlist your fantasy. Nobody can take that away from you.

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