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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How the fuck do you get a meet can’t get anyone to meet for a coffee never mind a fuck because I have no verified people ..... appoligies for the rant x

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Swearing puts me off and a man who moans.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You be patient. And polite\respectful. Then, eventually, if you are lucky, you will.

Women are so outnumbered by men on here that you will get nowhere if you dont make the effort to stand out from the horde of guys just desperate to get their dick wet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you sending copy and pastes? Are you expecting the women to come to you to meet? Are you asking to meet before you’ve chatted a bit. Maybe go to a group social to get some verifications?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my opinion this site lacks respectful polite people. How they come across in their message, as to how they approach you.. ask yourself... Would you approach this person in "real" life as you would in your message ?!

I would advise anyone who's struggling to get yourself to a social/s, where you don't have to be verified.

Sell yourself in your profile without giving too much away.

Remember.. patience is a virtue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience and respect.

Fab is a curious place, compared to the other online dating sites. When I joined I honestly thought it would be easier to hook up here but its not.

The women get bombarded with messages and every one I've met has taken abuse. Hence, even though we're all highly sexed, the women are cautious and you have to take take to chat, to get to know them and see if there's a mutual attraction before meeting for a social. They're only protecting themselves for the legions of d1chheads on here.

So, its not as easy as dating sites. Just because women are sexual doesn't always mean they are promiscuous. Have patience, be discrete and respectful and the meets will come. Invest time and personality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of fems and couples on this are active but only use the site for the forums or to keep in touch with friends.

We personally find going to a club so much less hassle and far less time consuming then trying to match up dates and trawling through profiles trying to find a match.. if we get to a club and don't sexually click with anyone then we just enjoy the facilities and play together and have a great night.

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