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By *inky_and_bi OP   Couple
over a year ago

Swansea

Ok, I may get some abuse for this possibly......

But I see events organised for BBW what about us SSW? (Slim sexy women)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would you get abuse??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shame ism outside the age limit for you both you all sound ideal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shame ism outside the age limit for you both you all sound ideal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it's something that needs to be started up

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

The reason there are events for bbw's is so they get an evening (day in some clubs) that they can feel comfortable around other bbws and bbw admirers. It's not so easy for women and men that have weight issues to rock up at a club and feel they aren't being judged that they shouldn't be there. They should feel comfortable all the time but let's face it this doesn't happen. Regular women and men won't understand this if they've never had a weight problem.

I don't mean this to come across as aggressive just trying to explain

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By *ovis and GreeneyesCouple
over a year ago

Swansea


"The reason there are events for bbw's is so they get an evening (day in some clubs) that they can feel comfortable around other bbws and bbw admirers. It's not so easy for women and men that have weight issues to rock up at a club and feel they aren't being judged that they shouldn't be there. They should feel comfortable all the time but let's face it this doesn't happen. Regular women and men won't understand this if they've never had a weight problem.

I don't mean this to come across as aggressive just trying to explain "

Xxx

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By *inky_and_bi OP   Couple
over a year ago

Swansea


"The reason there are events for bbw's is so they get an evening (day in some clubs) that they can feel comfortable around other bbws and bbw admirers. It's not so easy for women and men that have weight issues to rock up at a club and feel they aren't being judged that they shouldn't be there. They should feel comfortable all the time but let's face it this doesn't happen. Regular women and men won't understand this if they've never had a weight problem.

I don't mean this to come across as aggressive just trying to explain "

Ah yes, this makes perfect sense. It is a shame that some bigger women do not feel comfortable coming to some clubs.

The way I see it is that this scene is for everybody of all varieties, shapes and sizes, but maybe I am still a bit naieve, only being into this for less than a year.

I just felt like I was missing out not being a BBW

Thanks for your reply, it didn't sound aggressive at all

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By *inky_and_bi OP   Couple
over a year ago

Swansea


"Why would you get abuse??"

I was just a bit dubious about people responses and reasons

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By *oppyrose97Couple
over a year ago

Swansea

Anyone can be self conscious of their weight/appearance regardless of size.

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By *inky_and_bi OP   Couple
over a year ago

Swansea


"Anyone can be self conscious of their weight/appearance regardless of size.

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VERY TRUE!

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By *edexcitementCouple
over a year ago

Blackwood


"Anyone can be self conscious of their weight/appearance regardless of size.

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This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are anyone ever actually happy with their bodies?? Not in my experience we all want different. Anyway i like all body types

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

While I totally get that anybody can be self aware and conscious. Lingerie is far more geared at the svelte lady and for a BBW to wear any that will fit and be comfortable takes far more courage as like I said above they feel judged for wearing. I have been in a club when unfortunately things have been said along the lines of who does she think she is coming here desssed like that. While this time of people is a minority it only takes one comment to drag someone's insecurities out loud and proud.

I totally get what the op said about feeling left out. Every party night is a bonus and there are a lot of parties geared toward all shapes and sizes also colour. There are Hotwives nights, greedy girls nights, BMFC nights, and many more. Newport's BBW is a new event starting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone can be self conscious of their weight/appearance regardless of size.

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Defintely this & I personally don't think there's a need for events aimed at different groups, I have tried BBW days but I'm not a fan of the male mindset & haven't appreciated some of the conversations I've overheard.

There was a BBW night at Chams before, same mix of people as usual all shapes & sizes. Think some people need a label to make a night of it X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone can be self conscious of their weight/appearance regardless of size.

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This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh well an the dig starts....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It shouldnt be labelled as a bi night then.... an yet u attend that...

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales


"Oh well an the dig starts.... "

Don't let it bother you hun. Some people just have to aggravating for their own entertainment!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, I may get some abuse for this possibly......

But I see events organised for BBW what about us SSW? (Slim sexy women) "

Events put on by 666 maybe what your looking for, can be found in the South West club section.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It shouldnt be labelled as a bi night then.... an yet u attend that..."

I go to places when I want & I'm not working not because it has a label. If I wasn't working that night I'd be at your event, doesn't mean I agree with all the labels. I personally don't like listening to men telling each other how they go to BBW events because the 'fat' girls are 'easy'. Omg this place is such hard work at times, you'll want my work timetable next to show why I can't go Fridays sort yourselves out ladies X

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By *inky_and_bi OP   Couple
over a year ago

Swansea


"Ok, I may get some abuse for this possibly......

But I see events organised for BBW what about us SSW? (Slim sexy women)

Events put on by 666 maybe what your looking for, can be found in the South West club section. "

Very helpful. Thank you.

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