FabSwingers.com forum: Rant

By *orny old man OP Man
over a year ago

Bridgend

You read a profile, meet the said criteria, send a message and never get a reply, not even no thanks

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

"You read a profile, meet the said criteria, send a message and never get a reply, not even no thanks"

There are many many threads on this. You may want to read the FAQ's. It's not rude to not reply to messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just because you think you meet said criteria, doesn't mean they think you do. There's no point in whining. It's the way of fab. No reply just means not interested.

Holly

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By *orny old man OP Man
over a year ago

Bridgend

Not whining just be nice to get a reply even if it is fuck off lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not whining just be nice to get a reply even if it is fuck off lol"

Holly

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

"You read a profile, meet the said criteria, send a message and never get a reply, not even no thanks"

Would you copy and paste “no thanks” into 20, 30, 40, 50 messages a day. That’s what lots of women would have to do. Many get loads of messages and those that do reply often get a “why not?” or abuse back.

If I was a woman, I wouldn’t reply to them.

Also, she may well have been messaged by a lot of men who meet the criteria.

The site rules make it clear no reply is perfectly acceptable.

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By *unshine500Man
over a year ago

west wales

Man up, move on,

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By *orny old man OP Man
over a year ago

Bridgend

Man up? Don't cost nowt to be polite

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By *unshine500Man
over a year ago

west wales

Do you say hello to everyone you pass in the street?

Lets be brutally honest, the amount of messages single ladys get an hour, saying the same thing even couples, would you reply to each one? And as stated above, if they do reply no thanks, im sure some will give them abuse, not saying you would.

Take it on the chin, move along to the next person, you never know they might contact you later on.

People do have a life outside fab, maybe they just read your message and forgot to reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just not possible to say even no thanks, we've had 120 unread messages in like 12 hours sometimes,mostly from people not reading our profile.

Agreed it's not ideal, but, if you get offended by somebody not replying, you could be in the wrong game. Just take it as a no thanks and move on.

Even saying no thanks to those emails would take too long.

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By *inky B and kinky DCouple
over a year ago

pwllheli

We have replyid to a lot of messages but some men won't take a no and keep pushing, so it easier sometimes just not reply and block if they are not what we are looking for,

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By *emMuitoCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Just because you think you meet a users criteria it doesn’t mean that you actually do...just saying.

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By *unshine500Man
over a year ago

west wales

Maybe re do your profile... and not so many closeups of your cock...

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

"Man up? Don't cost nowt to be polite"

Read the FAQs - no response is a polite no thanks. I think telling someone to fuck off, which you say is better than silence, is extremely impolite.

If you think fitting into someone’s age range is all you need to fit their criteria you’re way off the mark. My tick box criteria is just age and sex, but my profile criteria is more complex. Plus I have to be attracted to someone.

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By *inky B and kinky DCouple
over a year ago

pwllheli

I think you should act your age and just get over it and move on ,youre profile is boring as hell and nothing but cock pic's, maybe if you improve youre attitude and profile it might give you a better chance

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

"Man up? Don't cost nowt to be polite"

Have you read the FAQ like I suggested? It costs time to reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Man up? Don't cost nowt to be polite"

No requirement to be polite, if you walked up to us unexpected in the street we'd tell you to do one. What makes you entitled?

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

Well I think if someone don’t answer that’s a bit of a hint to fck off lol in a nice way ofc hehe .... don’t take it to personal or you think everyone on fab is out to get you lol .. or in this case not get you hehe .. good luck tho

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