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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi everybody, here's my first post in the forum??

A fantasy of mine is a bi mmf and ill be damned if I can get anywhere near confirming one. Recently, I've been wound up sexually by 2, at the time, eager and friendly couples who have both just done a magic trick and whodinnied into thin air. So yeah, let down, especially by the first pair.

I'm ensuring I keep it real, and stay being myself which does include being courteous, friendly and respectful. I'm reading profiles and making messages relate to them. I'm being as honest as I can, I've tried changing pictures, updating, renewing my profile . I see many men failing to turn up to planned meets with a couple and I think WTF!

My one veris I've had so far, also vanished although I don't think she left me one anyway.

I pride myself on being true to my word, and genuine, I'm well presented and clean and shaven to minimal where I should be. I drive, but can't accommodate at present, but have suggested and am willing to split the hotel should we require. I am curious, with a view to go further, I am experimental, and a lil dirty fucker when you press my buttons.

I welcome all and any advice or tips from males who conquered a cute couple, and from women regarding my overall substance on here. And to couples for any input.

Attending a social is on the to do list, guess I should just bite the bullet!

Anyway, thanks for reading And look forward to any replies.

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By *retty GoodMan
over a year ago

Cardiff Bay

Well I can’t comment on why this has happened to you, it’s just a lottery on here.

One thing mind your profile pic looks like your being held hostage and a member of isis is about to walk behind you with a very large knife

Good luck op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

9/10 is just attraction And chat/foreplay and how game tight you are. Couples are like single women swamped in mail/male. Also most have their set ups. Couples can choose already 100 blokes a day if they really wanted to. Some been on here 20 years litrally. Haha an generally is the males in the relationship choice. Just from this post id say you seem slightly desperate/ keen. Most think 2 min man if over keen /desperate and comes across like you mailed everybody. No veri. Or not even left 1 after a meet. Doesn't look good. Although you will get through eventually here and there in terms chat. I don't think you will get a meet

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"9/10 is just attraction And chat/foreplay and how game tight you are. Couples are like single women swamped in mail/male. Also most have their set ups. Couples can choose already 100 blokes a day if they really wanted to. Some been on here 20 years litrally. Haha an generally is the males in the relationship choice. Just from this post id say you seem slightly desperate/ keen. Most think 2 min man if over keen /desperate and comes across like you mailed everybody. No veri. Or not even left 1 after a meet. Doesn't look good. Although you will get through eventually here and there in terms chat. I don't think you will get a meet "

I disagree, as omg as you are polite, respectful and chatty you should do ok...and definately hit the local social scene, it's the best way to make progress.

Just one note, "conquer"?, Not the best choice of word, it's not a battle lol

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"as long as" that should read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prove me wrong then and meet him... and I do agree. Socials his way forward. No accom not great as most are not going invite you there family home an offering pay half on a hotel just cheap

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"Prove me wrong then and meet him... and I do agree. Socials his way forward. No accom not great as most are not going invite you there family home an offering pay half on a hotel just cheap "

Why should we meet him?

We aren't looking to meet random guys.

We chat to them at socials etc, and have made a few good friends, and if ever Jayne feels the need for an extra guy or two, we check out our friends to see who's available.

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By *retty GoodMan
over a year ago

Cardiff Bay


"Prove me wrong then and meet him...

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Lol brilliant haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi everybody, here's my first post in the forum??

A fantasy of mine is a bi mmf and ill be damned if I can get anywhere near confirming one. Recently, I've been wound up sexually by 2, at the time, eager and friendly couples who have both just done a magic trick and whodinnied into thin air. So yeah, let down, especially by the first pair.

I'm ensuring I keep it real, and stay being myself which does include being courteous, friendly and respectful. I'm reading profiles and making messages relate to them. I'm being as honest as I can, I've tried changing pictures, updating, renewing my profile . I see many men failing to turn up to planned meets with a couple and I think WTF!

My one veris I've had so far, also vanished although I don't think she left me one anyway.

I pride myself on being true to my word, and genuine, I'm well presented and clean and shaven to minimal where I should be. I drive, but can't accommodate at present, but have suggested and am willing to split the hotel should we require. I am curious, with a view to go further, I am experimental, and a lil dirty fucker when you press my buttons.

I welcome all and any advice or tips from males who conquered a cute couple, and from women regarding my overall substance on here. And to couples for any input.

Attending a social is on the to do list, guess I should just bite the bullet!

Anyway, thanks for reading And look forward to any replies."

Socials are definitely the way to go OP. You can get to know some bi male couples at those on a more personal level, than through messaging. There can be some lovely single fems there too. What a lovely and well written post. You seem very polite and erudite. That should stand you in good stead on here. I truly hope you have a great fab experience.... Oh and welcome to the forums

Holly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well I can’t comment on why this has happened to you, it’s just a lottery on here.

One thing mind your profile pic looks like your being held hostage and a member of isis is about to walk behind you with a very large knife

Good luck op "

Well I haven't won the lottery either so far ??

Hmmm maybe I should go with the backdrop wall hanging next time ????

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"9/10 is just attraction And chat/foreplay and how game tight you are. Couples are like single women swamped in mail/male. Also most have their set ups. Couples can choose already 100 blokes a day if they really wanted to. Some been on here 20 years litrally. Haha an generally is the males in the relationship choice. Just from this post id say you seem slightly desperate/ keen. Most think 2 min man if over keen /desperate and comes across like you mailed everybody. No veri. Or not even left 1 after a meet. Doesn't look good. Although you will get through eventually here and there in terms chat. I don't think you will get a meet "

AHH yes, the males choice. Perhaps not that tight a couple then... I think that was the case with one of the vanishing couples I had been talking with, shame really, that it had that affect.

Yes agree also that being invited has many key factors like veris and feedback. However I'm not really pushing to meet a female ATM....equals no veris

I think your wrong, I will get 'that' meet, sooner rather than later ????

Thanks for the comment

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd


"Well I can’t comment on why this has happened to you, it’s just a lottery on here.

One thing mind your profile pic looks like your being held hostage and a member of isis is about to walk behind you with a very large knife

Good luck op "

I think the pic is rather hot. Eye catching. Very sexy. If it reeled me in then it will work with someone else

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" disagree, as omg as you are polite, respectful and chatty you should do ok...and definately hit the local social scene, it's the best way to make progress.

Just one note, "conquer"?, Not the best choice of word, it's not a battle lol "

Aw, well thanks. It's a little tricky to make people believe you are honestly genuine without sounding the opposite ??

And yes, it's all about the socials, I know it's not as bad as I imagine!

--noted--changed!!

Thanks for your reply x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I can’t comment on why this has happened to you, it’s just a lottery on here.

One thing mind your profile pic looks like your being held hostage and a member of isis is about to walk behind you with a very large knife

Good luck op

I think the pic is rather hot. Eye catching. Very sexy. If it reeled me in then it will work with someone else "

It's a very sexy pic & a pleasant change from the usual X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Prove me wrong then and meet him... and I do agree. Socials his way forward. No accom not great as most are not going invite you there family home an offering pay half on a hotel just cheap "

Hay thanks for the reply.

?? No proving needed and cleverly worded??

Yes, I strongly agree and would always advise caution inviting somebody new into your home. I hope to be able to accommodate couples for fun in the next month or so, when my move is complete.

I'd pay half, I'd pay it all we just all wouldn't want to be stood up or messed about, and that appears rife here. Thanks for the pointers

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hay Holly, hay the woodsman?? thanks for the reply and positive comments. You've suddenly changed my view on the social events, made them appear inviting, kinda sexy. And in fact I do have requirements of meeting beautiful single ladies, and good looking too is always a bone.us??

Ill see you there, at one event soon I am sure, and I'll think what all the fuss was about. Thanks guys ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

TOP COMMENT!!!!

Thanks guys for positive upliftment for this picture, and was about to remove it too ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good film

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe I was a bit harsh interms getting a meet. i agree just open gets you in. Interms deleting your pics I wouldn't bother. If you feel is the 1. Is the 1. not getting through half the time is not personal feedback. In terms the hotel. You need have them so wet you know is locked haha either way good luck. All women are different most have kids etc so just think when asking direct meets there and then. If can get a direct line ASAP. Their kik or sometimes is WhatsApp then is harder you get lost on here in the inbox as you will.

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