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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What would be your perfect first message with someone who you have not spoken to before? What gets your attention?

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By *-CrassClownMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Something original.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something light that shows they've read the profile, so fit what we're looking for. It's a rare occurrence though, hence why single guys are blocked again X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something profile specific, complimentary, and more than one sentence... , not a generic copy and paste or a “any luck on here?” type message

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By *oppyrose97Couple
over a year ago

Swansea

Here's £1million. I don't want nothing in return, just enjoy life

That would be the perfect message

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Makes sense.

I find I read all the profiles before I message. Also, I know I am verified but some people are after quite specific things. Or the ones you message exactly as their profile says they just delete your message haha

Very hard to get some messages back as a male

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

I think, more importantly, people usually read the senders profile before the message. So your opening message is pretty much just a link to your profile. That's where your efforts should be focused.

Content wise, we respond to something that's easy going / funny or something open ended that we can respond to.

If you met us in a bar while queuing for a drink, what would you say? "Hi how are you" seems nice but our reply will probably stop at "good, thanks". If you make some witty observation about the bar / other patrons / something you noticed about us, then we're likely to respond.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think, more importantly, people usually read the senders profile before the message. So your opening message is pretty much just a link to your profile. That's where your efforts should be focused.

Content wise, we respond to something that's easy going /

funny or something open ended that we can respond to.

I always read the profile before the message when I receive one.

If you met us in a bar while queuing for a drink, what would you say? "Hi how are you" seems nice but our reply will probably stop at "good, thanks". If you make some witty observation about the bar / other patrons / something you noticed about us, then we're likely to respond. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This morning we got.

Have pics, let's fuck.

The worst we've had for a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always send a good first message. And add a title what they ask and a face pik and still no reply.

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By *ummer breeze300Woman
over a year ago

Caerphilly

Mine today so far is if I can f..

Your area I'll marry you cheeky sod

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always send a good first message. And add a title what they ask and a face pik and still no reply. "

Because you can put all you like into a message but it's down to personal choice & if you're not for them, in some way there's no obligation to respond. A lack of reply is considered a no in the rules of Fab X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always send a good first message. And add a title what they ask and a face pik and still no reply.

Because you can put all you like into a message but it's down to personal choice & if you're not for them, in some way there's no obligation to respond. A lack of reply is considered a no in the rules of Fab X"

I understand it's a no. Just can be frustrating when it takes weeks for someone to answer also I probably get lost in the messages.

But thanks for the feedback

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

On fair enough. Now I Get it.

But I don’t do that and still it gets deleted straight away.

Which I suppose it saves time if they don’t like my profile etc

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah totally agree.

Not everyone’s is for everyone on here

Just sometimes you reply near enough exactly to their profile and it’s just deleted haha

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