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regular with more than sex or one offs?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just a general question for the females / couples, do you prefer regular guys or one offs? Many years ago I would go for one offs.... but as Ive grown old (haha) I much prefer regular! I find the sex gets better and it can lead to sooooo much more fun in the long term with regards to sex,nights away,friendship etc. So whats your preferred choice and why? thanks....Mrsp69 x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to love one offs but they bore the shit out of me these days ,and I need more than just sex finding it though is a different story x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I used to love one offs but they bore the shit out of me these days ,and I need more than just sex finding it though is a different story x"

haha, maybe its as we get older! And yes I feel your pain although there are some great guys on here! x

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By *ve 63Woman
over a year ago

Newbridge

Definetly regular guy. Sex gets more intense plus you become friends

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Definetly regular guy. Sex gets more intense plus you become friends "

For sure!! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular guy what we look for. Not found one for a while

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By *r n1ceguyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Regular guy what we look for. Not found one for a while "

Look no further????

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By *itkazkizWoman
over a year ago

Swansea

Been seeking a guy who wants regular repeated meets but chemistry has to be there too

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy

Regular meets definitely. Much better once you get to know each other. Plus you become mate and have a laugh together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t commit to one person. Freaks me out feeling close to somebody.

I don’t even like giving my mobile number to meets

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By *ummer breeze300Woman
over a year ago

Caerphilly

Regular for me sex gets better and there has to be a connection and conversation

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By *ay.fabMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Regular is better. One offs feels like one night stand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have regular but still like one offs....greedy basically

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By *ay.fabMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Greedy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular is good as you can be much more adventurous as you build up the trust and take more risks but do live a good one-off too xx

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Regular but find that a bit hit and miss so usually end up with one offs . Just wish I could develop something on a long term basis

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By *ikingCoolMan
over a year ago

carmarthen

How regularly

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By *ikingCoolMan
over a year ago

carmarthen

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales


"I have regular but still like one offs....greedy basically "

This lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One offs for us but you never know what'll happen in the future.

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By *ikingCoolMan
over a year ago

carmarthen

I am available lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both of us prefer long term friends over a one off meeting we both really like to get to know the other person we are spending time with. There are many benefits

To knowing how each other tick and how to relax and stimulate each other beyond that of a one off meeting.

That also said though in certain circumstances we think everyone has times where their sex drive just seems to peak and lust for that unconnected one off where you seem to just let go that touch more. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been seeking a guy who wants regular repeated meets but chemistry has to be there too "

Give me a message xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular for me too. I like the intensity build up for next time that I can dig my claws in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a single guy that we meet regular, not just for play but for the social side to, we class him as a good friend, Fi would be quiet happy just meeting with him as she is comfortable.

We are currently looking for couples thou for chat social drinks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would be ideal to find someone regular for bedroom fun as well as company..

I don't think its realistic however ..

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy


"Would be ideal to find someone regular for bedroom fun as well as company..

I don't think its realistic however .."

It's realistic as long as 2 people can start off with a decent conversation together. Unfortunately the art of conversation is lost on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have tried looking for regular. But no one replies. Which is fair enough. I bet they get so many messages it’s bard to build up a rapport over messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular for me as when the trust has built you get to try different things together and you just know what buttons to push for maximum results

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much prefer regular meets to one off's. Sex gets better each time. Plus I cannot be bothered having to build countless connections with men via messages, for no shows, and one off meets. I have a life outside of fab!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the replies....I find it interesting also that 95% of the ladies who replied and want the same as me are also 40 and over. Maybe its as we get more comfortable with our life / marriage etc ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer regular but it's not easy to find xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular for me, I'm fortunate to have Ch3wy and another long term regular meet. It works for me in a way one offs rarely do X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lucky I have a couple of regs also ha x

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By *stroboy78Man
over a year ago

Abergavenny

100% regular but as no one ever replies it's kinda hard to get a meet let alone someone regular to even have a social with, as already said though that's fair enough given the disproportionate amount of guys on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love to find regular and then friendship but just a meet of any sort is tough enough to come by lol

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By *elsh_naturist_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Newport

We came here hoping to find a single guy we could get to know have fun and a proper friendship with.

With the thinking that type of friendship could be a lot of fun. Nights out evening in chilli chatting hot sex!

But unfortunately most guys seem to think the friendship and staying in touch is to drop you a message to say they are horny and want to meet! Gets a bit boring with little effort.

So unfortunately we are at the stage where we been put off at the moment.

Just tend to lurk round the forums etc and maybe one day spy a lucky guy!

We will see!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One off defo, fuck and Chuck. Dip and run. Flirt and desert. Endear then disappear

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By *justfunxMan
over a year ago

pembs

I love a regular meet there’s a better connection and no pressure.

You can learn each other’s quirks too and then the enjoyment is more relaxed and gets better each meet

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By *adboy48Man
over a year ago

pontypridd

hi looking for a regulur mf or f i am an honest genuine reliable guy that can acomadate any one up it pm please thanks ian x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer regular, you can get to know each others likes and dislikes... Plus conversation pre and post is good, and thats always easier if you get to know someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As much trouble you have finding a regular we are having equal trouble finding a regluar

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By *elsh_naturist_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Newport


"As much trouble you have finding a regular we are having equal trouble finding a regluar"

sad really. People seem to have forgotten its a swinging site. Just because we are open minded we are all want prositutes.

To many people here just think it's free sex and don't need to put the effort in!

Swinging in my head is partly about the relationship you build round the sex with the people you meet.

Thinking aloud they should start a sister site call fabsexters or something make a difference between the 2!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe finding a regular FB is the best/

Sex becomes better as you find out what you both like so it can’t really get worse!

Friendship between the two grows and I always find it much more appealing if your friends, socials can happen and then you’ve got a sexual friend for life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck this shit

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By *ackieSteveCouple
over a year ago

Newbridge


"Would be ideal to find someone regular for bedroom fun as well as company..

I don't think its realistic however .."

HEEEEEEY!

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By *ayevs119Man
over a year ago

MAESTEG


"As much trouble you have finding a regular we are having equal trouble finding a regluar"

Wish I was around a bit more at the mo........But hopefully my next placements will get me closer my buddies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular is definitely better however this notion seems to unnerve some men that I’ve met and they seem to think you want something more, so I’ve mostly experienced one offs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of people seem to think regular = committed relationship, in our minds it's just an enhanced friendship with fun attached, the best of both worlds X

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy


"A lot of people seem to think regular = committed relationship, in our minds it's just an enhanced friendship with fun attached, the best of both worlds X"

Exactly this, but unfortunately it's quite hard to come by.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

totally agree....I make it clear from the off, I am VERY HAPPILY married (20 years) but love to meet others! And yes that includes lots of fun, meals, drinks, friends, nights together etc. That does NOT mean I want to marry them ha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular is definitely more satisfying. I’ve been friends with a couple for over 10 years shared sexy fun times with them shared family time shared holidays with them but I have absolutely no desire to try and split them up. I enjoy my time as an extra with both. Just wish they were closer and we could meet a little more often

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By *elsh_naturist_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Newport


"A lot of people seem to think regular = committed relationship, in our minds it's just an enhanced friendship with fun attached, the best of both worlds X"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would definitely opt for a fwb over one offs. I agree sex is so much better the more you get to know someone and the build up to each meet and and trying new things is so much better than just a one off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely regular, the friendship side develops, and the playtime gets better and better

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By *iJane4funCouple
over a year ago

South, Wales

Got two regulars who I adore but I also like the thrill & excitement of playing with a stranger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like one offs as I enjoy the chase, I've had a couple of regulars but having kids and being an adult cock blocks me, A regular fwb is the way as long as the dreaded feels don't surface

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By *oasterMan
over a year ago

Sth Wales

Just be nice to get started

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By *ardiffCoupleNJCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd/Rhyfelin

Not sure on this.

Sometimes we think it would be great...other times less so.

Either way yet to find anyone suited so guess the fun continues in the looking!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does exist lovely im very lucky to find my fb i call him my unicorn it took me a year to find him tho

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

deffo exists, I find my regular friends much more fun, better than just a quick fuck! I love a chat, coffee etc as a connection is good. And a relationship of sorts for me always helps the sex also ha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer one regular and no one else. Seems hard to find on here though

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By *uckwife69Woman
over a year ago

swansea

Prefer regular... with occasional on-offs... when the mood takes me..l. Nice to see what else is on offer...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always preferred regular when I was meeting

Holly

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By *rManyhandsMan
over a year ago

Narberth

Much prefer building regular poly type conscious connections, can talk openly, dive deeper and get more adventurous.

But these have to start somewhere.. With the first meet, when hopefully the chemistry will fly. xx

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By *ikingCoolMan
over a year ago

carmarthen

Hi all I would be very happy to meet and become friends and

Have regular meets ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer regular also but hard to find on here

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By *nique_GymMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

For me my ideal partner is someone who will like me being monogamous with them but they on the other hand can play or see other people.

I suppose because at this time in my life I am not emotionally dependent on a woman is a blessing and a curse in many ways. I have had some long term relationships with couples and they have worked well, I think because I am not wanting her to leave the husband, I just enjoy non complicated fun, which does turn into a more fulfilling encounter where all parties enjoy. But you don’t have that constant need to be or see the people involved.

My issue is I have people to do things with, however I have no body to do nothing with! So a female friend with benefits, or a female of a couple is my ideal scenario.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some really interesting points of view on here. Good post.

I love conversation and getting to know someone beforehand, but I can see how that could irritate some women, as its time consuming. But I prefer to make the effort. It instills trust and anticipation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm in a club or dogging etc. It's going to obviously be one off fun but can't beat a fwb it's a comfort thing for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems hard to find on here but regular fwb would be nice xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree that a regular fuck buddy is usually more fun. It's more that one finds familiarity and becomes more confident and comfortable to be themselves once they get to know someone better.

I'm certainly looking for one now....its all about the full interaction and experience

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