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By *ovis and Greeneyes OP   Couple
over a year ago

Swansea

Who's going? Thinking of taking a trip down for the night. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're thinking o it xx

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By *inkyKatssCouple
over a year ago

pontypridd

We'll be there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm going to have to give it a miss this week

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By *pples123456Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

Dam missing a other good night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will be there xxx

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By *ovis and Greeneyes OP   Couple
over a year ago

Swansea


"I will be there xxx"

yummy

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By *ar-Some CoupleCouple
over a year ago

from somewhere glittery & sparkly

I'm meeting the Mrs after the fem social there...

So we will be there too

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By *inkyKatssCouple
over a year ago

pontypridd

Looks like it going to be a busy night . K.D x

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By *ananaNoDramaMan
over a year ago

Caerdydd

I’ll be there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are going x

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By *ovis and Greeneyes OP   Couple
over a year ago

Swansea


"We are going x"

See you there x

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By *ovis and Greeneyes OP   Couple
over a year ago

Swansea


"Looks like it going to be a busy night . K.D x"

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By *rystaljrMan
over a year ago

cardiff / bristol

I’m planning on going, be my first Saturday night! However don’t know anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m planning on going, be my first Saturday night! However don’t know anyone "

You'll be fine everyone is very friendly just make sure you have a chat with people and don't get bummed out if you're not their type xx

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By *fromwalesCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

Hello sorry to interrupt. Is cams open in Newport on a Friday and Saturday night these days havnt been for ages due to working commitments . As we used to travel up to darlaston for a Saturday night of fun

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By *ar-Some CoupleCouple
over a year ago

from somewhere glittery & sparkly


"Hello sorry to interrupt. Is cams open in Newport on a Friday and Saturday night these days havnt been for ages due to working commitments . As we used to travel up to darlaston for a Saturday night of fun "

It's open as The Greenhouse and its bi night on a saturday

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By *moothgentlemanMan
over a year ago

Wales

See ya guys there!

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By *inkyKatssCouple
over a year ago

pontypridd

Well that was a crazy night!!

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By *inkyKatssCouple
over a year ago

pontypridd

It was a great night. However, there are a few single males that really grip my shit!!

Following us around. Lurking, then hiding behind walls with just an eye peeping out.

Absolutely no need of it.

I don't know how they deem this behaviour as acceptable. It's weird, not to mention uncomfortable.

Grrrr..

Sassy x

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By *ovis and Greeneyes OP   Couple
over a year ago

Swansea

We fell asleep in house and by time we woke up would not been any point in driving down ( bloody nights shifts )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It was a great night. However, there are a few single males that really grip my shit!!

Following us around. Lurking, then hiding behind walls with just an eye peeping out.

Absolutely no need of it.

I don't know how they deem this behaviour as acceptable. It's weird, not to mention uncomfortable.

Grrrr..

Sassy x "

Indeed some of the males’ attitude/actions last night was just creepy... not just from newbies either... the influx was probably due to them seeing about the female social and thinking their chances of some action would increase. We had a great night ourselves but some of the guys did get our backs up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was a nice night but I gave up on having fun in the jacuzzi after 3 tries, if I could've seen who kept continually groping me from behind I would have reported them

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By *inkyKatssCouple
over a year ago

pontypridd

It's this type of behaviour that spoils it for everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Glad Goldi didn't go now as she wouldn't have enjoyed cams.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the staff at chams/green house should tell all of the single guys the do’s & don’t while visiting or even give them a leaflet because the times I have gone some of the single guys have creeped me out following you around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's this type of behaviour that spoils it for everyone "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the staff at chams/green house should tell all of the single guys the do’s & don’t while visiting or even give them a leaflet because the times I have gone some of the single guys have creeped me out following you around "
Remind the single guys even

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By *inkyKatssCouple
over a year ago

pontypridd


"I think the staff at chams/green house should tell all of the single guys the do’s & don’t while visiting or even give them a leaflet because the times I have gone some of the single guys have creeped me out following you around "

I could of quiet easily got my self banned! One guy in particular seriously pissed me off! Proper letchy! If he’s there the next time we go I will defo 100% having a word with staff before he gets to ruin my night! (I told him at one point but had to hold back before a got chucked out) K.D

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By *ovis and Greeneyes OP   Couple
over a year ago

Swansea

Sort of glad we not there then by the sounds of it (I would have got banned).

Last time we went was followed about by a single male who kept patting my arse!!

Would not have minded so much if he was cute!!!

H x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the staff at chams/green house should tell all of the single guys the do’s & don’t while visiting or even give them a leaflet because the times I have gone some of the single guys have creeped me out following you around

I could of quiet easily got my self banned! One guy in particular seriously pissed me off! Proper letchy! If he’s there the next time we go I will defo 100% having a word with staff before he gets to ruin my night! (I told him at one point but had to hold back before a got chucked out) K.D "
Thas not on hun no respect with some sadly x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was one of the single guys there last night, and I agree with everything that's been said, there were individuals there last night that were not respectable.

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By *inkyKatssCouple
over a year ago

pontypridd


"I was one of the single guys there last night, and I agree with everything that's been said, there were individuals there last night that were not respectable. "

Not a reference to you dude

You are one of the good 'uns. Happy to mingle, get involved and have a laugh rather than lurking in the shadows x

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By *ay.fabMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I totally agree.. Few single male giving us bad reputation. They should understand and be aware of boundaries and limits. Such a shame and they should get kicked out and banned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm lucky to be able to stand up for myself & say no but they even tested my patience last night, I was in the verge of punching a guy in the jacuzzi & had to physically push him away on his 3rd attempt. I've never experienced it that bad before X

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By *inkyKatssCouple
over a year ago

pontypridd


"I'm lucky to be able to stand up for myself & say no but they even tested my patience last night, I was in the verge of punching a guy in the jacuzzi & had to physically push him away on his 3rd attempt. I've never experienced it that bad before X"

Unreal!!! Something needs to be said! It’s a joke and will start putting people off! Saturday night are a real good night but this sort of behaviour will only push people away!

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By *moothgentlemanMan
over a year ago

Wales

As above I was a single male there but always get on with everyone! I met a lovely

Couple and we had a threesome around 00:40 in the room people Watch via mirror.. even after telling people opening the door to watch via window not room they continued to interrupt hence why we had to go private guys!

Even I got followed... in regards to jacuzzi I witnessed this behaviour on one occasion and stepped in with another female to help her out.

Remember there on the realms of serious criminal offences.

On a more positive not I had a great night and was lovely to see you all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

& the guy having a tantrum in the bar because no women were showing interest, twat should've been asked to go me. He's the reason I didn't even go upstairs this time X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BTW I'll be going to the bar to complain next time, I'll get a good look who they are, without my glasses I can't see anyone, which is why I don't tolerate random guys approaching from behind. No more being polite for me X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'm glad I left early on Saturday, I can be a bit forthright when people overstep the boundaries (prosecutor: so exactly how long did you hold their head under the water )

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By *ovis and Greeneyes OP   Couple
over a year ago

Swansea

Defently glad we not attend last weekend now, by the sounds of things was more hassle than fun.

Single males destroying a good night!!!!

Maybe time to start trying other clubs, especially if the greenhouse are not going to start taking proactive approach stop this happing.

H

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As above I was a single male there but always get on with everyone! I met a lovely

Couple and we had a threesome around 00:40 in the room people Watch via mirror.. even after telling people opening the door to watch via window not room they continued to interrupt hence why we had to go private guys!

"

To be honest you went into an open room, which was designated for group play (fridays is known as the couples room), as far as I’m concerned you guys weren’t entitled to shoo people out of that room, if you didn’t want people coming in then you should have gone to a private room in the first place.

That doesn’t mean that it’s a free for all in relation to people playing with you but if people want to play around you they were/are perfectly entitled to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank god for that private room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I too was groped in the Jucuzzi, and as I got out, I felt a hand touch me underneath. I felt sick and violated. I won't be going back to Chams, it's a shame really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmmm hi all

Was the above conduct isolated to a particularly bad night or is this a regular thing?

We are making the trip Friday and are regular clubbers (Chams Darlaston etc)... however dont want the aggro of telling 'the wanking dead' to get lost etc if its an issue at Newport... its a long drive and there are plenty of other alternatives...

Hopefully a one-off

Ta mi dears

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us it was just a particularly bad night, this doesn't normally happen on a Saturday. I don't think it helped that there was a local female social happening and single males though there would be a overload of ladies and its cheaper night.

Those who go on a Friday although there are a few men the geniue ones will sit and chat with you first and the others are too shit scared to say boo, so as long as you're comfortable with being looked at then you'll be fine xx

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By *ar-Some CoupleCouple
over a year ago

from somewhere glittery & sparkly


"For us it was just a particularly bad night, this doesn't normally happen on a Saturday. I don't think it helped that there was a local female social happening and single males though there would be a overload of ladies and its cheaper night.

Those who go on a Friday although there are a few men the geniue ones will sit and chat with you first and the others are too shit scared to say boo, so as long as you're comfortable with being looked at then you'll be fine xx "

We dont think it had alot to do with the fem social at all as if the post was read properly they would of read that we were meeting our partners/ husbands there and only 1 single fem went & 3 couples met up there.

When we organised a birthday party in April there was 96 people in there & no trouble at all plus there was a party a few weeks later and again no trouble what so ever.

When a thread goes up on the forum then obviously people comment saying they are going so everyone reads that's its going to be a busy night.

It's no excuse at all from what we have read and we hope you all reported these matters to management

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As above I was a single male there but always get on with everyone! I met a lovely

Couple and we had a threesome around 00:40 in the room people Watch via mirror.. even after telling people opening the door to watch via window not room they continued to interrupt hence why we had to go private guys!

Even I got followed... in regards to jacuzzi I witnessed this behaviour on one occasion and stepped in with another female to help her out.

Remember there on the realms of serious criminal offences.

On a more positive not I had a great night and was lovely to see you all!

"

So you wanted to be watched but only on your terms ????

I often go in the couples room to just watch in Newport and Darlaston and have never been asked to leave . If I was I would say as the poster above. If you dont want to be watched go in a locked room.

May be its different for single women then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For us it was just a particularly bad night, this doesn't normally happen on a Saturday. I don't think it helped that there was a local female social happening and single males though there would be a overload of ladies and its cheaper night.

Those who go on a Friday although there are a few men the geniue ones will sit and chat with you first and the others are too shit scared to say boo, so as long as you're comfortable with being looked at then you'll be fine xx "

I'm quite a regular on a sat night, and I agree the local social may have brought the worms out of the woodwork, there were quite a few single guys I've not seen before. The management must listen to any complaints that arise about any individuals behaviour and those individuals must be asked to leave, otherwise people will stop going, and a Brilliant night will be spoiled for the majority by the disrespectful actions of the minority.

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By *ar-Some CoupleCouple
over a year ago

from somewhere glittery & sparkly


"For us it was just a particularly bad night, this doesn't normally happen on a Saturday. I don't think it helped that there was a local female social happening and single males though there would be a overload of ladies and its cheaper night.

Those who go on a Friday although there are a few men the geniue ones will sit and chat with you first and the others are too shit scared to say boo, so as long as you're comfortable with being looked at then you'll be fine xx

I'm quite a regular on a sat night, and I agree the local social may have brought the worms out of the woodwork, there were quite a few single guys I've not seen before. The management must listen to any complaints that arise about any individuals behaviour and those individuals must be asked to leave, otherwise people will stop going, and a Brilliant night will be spoiled for the majority by the disrespectful actions of the minority."

Right its quiet easy to point the finger as to why it went tits up sat and blame the fem social.

As stated above if anyone bothered to read the thread that was put up we were all going there afterwards to meet up with our husbands/partners so we were all going in as couples like the majority of people.

There was also a thread put up as normal to see who was attending but it's all the socials fault.

Dont forget these are public forums so any Tom,dick or harry can read them.

What we dont understand is that your all complaining on here but no one actually spoke to anyone regarding these issues?

We attend regularly and organise things at the club.

It's got nothing to do with the fem social but to do with the disrespectful guys that attend.

And if you have a issue then contact the club!

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By *ina JonesTV/TS
over a year ago

Caerphilly

I don't think any of the staff are on fabswingers so probably haven't seen the issues concerning Saturday night raised here.

That's why I took the liberty of passing on the comments in this thread to the club , hope nobody minds.

In fairness to the staff when I was getting abuse from a transphobic couple a while back they dealt with it swiftly once they knew.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you for passing them on, I planned to do that myself when I'm there next. I don't think any of the behaviours can be excused & whether there was an event, a social or whatever certain guys would have been disrespectful regardless

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By *ina JonesTV/TS
over a year ago

Caerphilly


"Thank you for passing them on, I planned to do that myself when I'm there next. I don't think any of the behaviours can be excused & whether there was an event, a social or whatever certain guys would have been disrespectful regardless"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oar-some couple....Please don’t take it that people are blaming the female social, we know you put a lot of effort in organising these events.

The blame lies with the males who think that because there is a female social then their chances will increase, irrespective of if the females go with partners.... how many times have we seen posts about males not reading things properly and only see what they want to see

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By *elshdevil70Man
over a year ago

Swansea

I personally didn't see any of the unpleasantness on Saturday. But what I do witness while I sit on my perch at the top of the stairs is , anytime a couple or female walks pass there's the usual sad trail of guy behind them, following them from one room to another.

I feel like screaming out , fuck just leave them alone..arggg.

As a single guy myself I actually find it an embarrassment and just wish certain guys just think what they are doing AND if anything inappropriate does go on such as touching without consent etc they get reported and banned genuine single guys who do respect boundaries don't get tarnished with the same brush...

Right back on my perch lol..

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By *ay.fabMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I was thinking to go on Saturday. After all these comments decided against it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a great night sat, it was nice to just follow you couples around and admire from afar

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By *exi_LexiTV/TS
over a year ago

caerphilly

Wow just read all that, mad some people are so disrespectful dam shame really as asreholes like that spoil it. Wanted to come myself but returned home bit late from my camping hols and this week end I've got my kids but Deffo going the Saturday after xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst Saturday wasn't pleasant it isn't a fair measure of the place, I go often on my own & never had these problems, a yes has always been respected. As for the single male conga it's irritating & not very sexy but it is a useful filtering tool. My previous experiences have on the whole been positive & respectful X

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