FabSwingers.com forum: Married

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know I am married is it really that bad? I’m being honest but getting nowhere! I could lie that I’m single but would rather be honest up front, before anyone says it I know I’m lying to my wife!

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By *elsh_lass74Woman
over a year ago

South Wales

I prefer to know from the start, rather than months or years down the line

I can make my own mind up then if things progress or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes OP, being married really is that bad

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for that I think it is good to know where people stand before you start!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well being upfront about being married is a good start OP. Potentially you will probably most interest some married women on here in similar circumstances, but regarding your profile I would suggest :-

* More on the kind of woman /women you seek.

* More specific about your sexual interests.

* A few more photos ( body not cock only )

* Finally, most even similar married ladies want potential avoid drama. You give the impression you want to play in your home while your wife is out. The potential for being noticed or even caught is high and risky, and you might want to cull some of that detail about you and your wife's work, as it makes you seem indiscreet.

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

Many will castigate, even want to castrate, you

But we each have our own reasons being here. Better to be honest then every one can make their minds up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would just say if you meet don’t meet the same one. On a regular basis because feelings could creep in & then it just gets messy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes OP, being married really is that bad

Haha how do you do those faces

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being married shouldn't be such a bad thing. In my own case, I'm happily married except for one thing...the sex. And it's no-one's fault. My wife simply doesn't have a libido. Not her fault and noting wrong between us. Just no interest at all. So what's a man to do?! Divorce and ruin our children's lives and loose that companionship, just for sex? I don't think so. Resign oneself to no more sex and only porn as an outlet? I'd rather not as well. What's so wrong with seeking some sexual contact outside of wedlock if it's all up front, no promises or expectations? What's wrong with a FWB as long as there's mutual respect? It should be possible.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Being married shouldn't be such a bad thing. In my own case, I'm happily married except for one thing...the sex. And it's no-one's fault. My wife simply doesn't have a libido. Not her fault and noting wrong between us. Just no interest at all. So what's a man to do?! Divorce and ruin our children's lives and loose that companionship, just for sex? I don't think so. Resign oneself to no more sex and only porn as an outlet? I'd rather not as well. What's so wrong with seeking some sexual contact outside of wedlock if it's all up front, no promises or expectations? What's wrong with a FWB as long as there's mutual respect? It should be possible."

Ask these questions to your wife and see if she agrees with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ask these questions to your wife and see if she agrees with you."

She does. But that doesn't validate or invalidate the argument you're trying to make. It doesn't logically follow that one person's feelings trumps another's. From an ethical perspective, what I've proposed is a no-no from a deontological perspective, but can be perfectly fine from a consequentialist perspective. It can go either way under a virtue ethical perspective.

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