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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Always like to hear feedback on here regarding profile and messages. What's do you guys think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Change your username. Declaring oneself an alpha is about as accurate as declaring oneself Harry potter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Change your username. Declaring oneself an alpha is about as accurate as declaring oneself Harry potter."

Definitely a good start. Also, it’s “Notre Dame”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I concur, you need to work on your Expelliarmus.

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

You spend more time on your profile dating why you don't have a face pic than on anything else ...

No need, not many have one on public display, just stick it in friends

Say something about yourself instead, and get more photos than just your shoulder

You're trying to sell yourself, think what a car salesman might say, at the moment you're a Trabant and not a Ferrari !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An “alpha male” seeking validation on his profile...... bless lol

See the point we’re making? Don’t pretend you’re something you’re not, will go a lot further on this scene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like the shoulder pic very sexy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for the feedback guys, will take it on board. For those who think I'm pretending to be an alpha your entitled to your opinions but I can with 100% certainty state its not a fabrication. Also its a username so maybe be a little less catty and a little more constructive going forward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you for the feedback guys, will take it on board. For those who think I'm pretending to be an alpha your entitled to your opinions but I can with 100% certainty state its not a fabrication. Also its a username so maybe be a little less catty and a little more constructive going forward. "

Just by declaring yourself an alpha you automatically lose the theoretical meaning of said word, by further insisting on it, you just come off as insecure.

There, constructive criticism.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you for the feedback guys, will take it on board. For those who think I'm pretending to be an alpha your entitled to your opinions but I can with 100% certainty state its not a fabrication. Also its a username so maybe be a little less catty and a little more constructive going forward.

Just by declaring yourself an alpha you automatically lose the theoretical meaning of said word, by further insisting on it, you just come off as insecure.

There, constructive criticism."

It's the same as men who call themselves "Dom"

Teeny bit cringy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Says the 5'9 beta Canadian haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP why ask for opinions on your profile if you're going to take the hump when opinions are given??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I asked for opinions on my profile not people to keep telling me I'm insecure when they hardly know me. I was polite in my reply originally but a a man who refers to himself as lucifer from halfway across the globe who keeps calling me insecure needs to grow up a little bit. Supposed to be fun on here but guess the keyboard warrior forum trolls need their daily fix. I appreciate genuine constructive criticism as previously said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Okay, some constructive criticism of your profile OP:-

First of all your username. 'Alpha', in whichever variant you prefer, is a term that is given by others and not one to be self-proclaimed.

Second, your preferences. You are only looking for female couples of any age. Not good for the single ladies who may be window shopping.

Third, seeing as ladies are window shopping, you only have 2 pics. One screams "fire your tailor" and the other, well, I have the same linen and it's not quality, let's just say that.

Fourth, by using terminology in your write up that suggests that you are flexible with your preferences, it tells everyone whom is educated that you do not indeed live up to your pretence and are in fact 'swipe left'.

There. I hope you're able to appreciate a tidy reply to your original post. And yes I am entirely entitled to reply as you specified "guys" in your OP.

#Next!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you lord mayhem , I will take on board your critique and have modified profile slightly. Apologies if my linen offends you, indeed the suit is not the most expensive I own as I have just lost 5 stone and have to keep replacing my wardrobe sadly, this was a quick pic put up and maybe I should source another. 0lease hold off calling the fashion police on me.

My profile preference is aimed at females and female couples, perhaps you misread that but but thanks for the advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Says the 5'9 beta Canadian haha"
Yet it's you who needs advice to attract more females. Oh the irony...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got my hard hat on ready... The profile screams greedy & lacking standards, so long as a 'female' replies. You've had 2 meets with a sexy lady & good verifications so you must be doing something right. Not a good enough start?

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By *hil_u_upMan
over a year ago

swansea


"I've got my hard hat on ready... The profile screams greedy & lacking standards, so long as a 'female' replies. You've had 2 meets with a sexy lady & good verifications so you must be doing something right. Not a good enough start? "

Yeah, agree you're obviously doing something right but your profile could be improved a lot. What are you offering?

Have a look at this guy's (rampant9), for example. Leaving aside his pics, he immediately comes across as friendly, fun, interesting, funny and unselfish.

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By *hil_u_upMan
over a year ago

swansea

Just re-read your latest veri. It's amazing.

Are you sure you didn't pay her to write it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fair comment I am a bit greedy I guess. Thanks for the feedback no need for a hard hat you were polite

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha no need to pay them in cash I pay them by listening and reacting. The hard part is getting the meets. That dies come across big headed i do realise but you know what I mean. Thank you for the positive feedback

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By *ar-Some CoupleCouple
over a year ago

from somewhere glittery & sparkly

Got to love the forums hey

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