FabSwingers.com forum: y is it so hard to find a meet on this site

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

how is it so hard to find a meet think if u are in the click then u are ok if u are out ov it than u got no luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We haven't been on here long but I think it's just a matter of being patient and just getting yourself to the socials ( we had this advice given to us and it worked) we've met/spoken to some lovely people on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i dont get that far lol i think i well try and go to a event c if i have any luck there and thank u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ding ding here we go again!

Make the effort, stop whinging and man up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe because your profile is dull as ditchwater and says absolutely nothing about you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i dont get that far lol i think i well try and go to a event c if i have any luck there and thank u

It's okay..sorry if I rambled, on first time posting on a forum rather nervous lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grammer, punctuation, spelling, effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well i personally have never found difficulty in meeting but a good idea is to attend a social that way people get to sort of know a person exchange numbers, and maybe one or more may think woo hoo i want a bit of that lol. good luck anyways

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"well i personally have never found difficulty in meeting but a good idea is to attend a social that way people get to sort of know a person exchange numbers, and maybe one or more may think woo hoo i want a bit of that lol. good luck anyways"

This.

If people know you, they are much more likely to play.

Get a few social verifs and the (swinging) world is your lobster!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn't disagree stronger about the socials. Went to one and it was absolutely crap. The click you've said no to just stare all night, too loud and generally the same faces at everyone.

Your profile does need a revamp and you would gain from saying how much you enjoy pleasing the woman etc. Filthy talk and text talk usually pisses couples off but most of all be truthful, don't big yourself up too much and promise the earth like so many guys do. Sadly they rarely live up to their own hype.

It's got to be hard for a single guy in all fairness but try try and try again and hopefully you'll be ok.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You must learn to mingle with other peeps,by going along to the socials and making yourself known.Also it is a good thing to know who the genuine players are and who are the timewasters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Almost forgot, can we just say our comments on the socials is simply our view and not fact. Saying anything negative about the socials usually ends up with abusive mails pmsl so again it's not fact, just our view

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were nervous about socials but found it absolutely nothing like the slightly negative post ! The organizers welcomed us and another couple who had been members on here for along time took time to intoduce us to other members and now after attending 6 socials we can walk in with no nerves and feel very welcome and confident !

Definitely good advice in our opinion attending socials

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By *ev and TrevCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

Swinging is the same as anything else, the more effort you put in the more you will get out of it!

Your profile needs expanding, txt talk does put alot of people off. You need to add more photos, (keep them for friends only if you're worried). Get in the chat room and make an effort to chat, and not just to the women on cam! Get along to the socials and socialize, if you stand in the corner looking sullen all night you will find that people won't chat to you and you won't enjoy it but if you make an effort you will be fine.

And remember, you won't please everybody, but if you make the effort you'll find that others do to!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Swinging is the same as anything else, the more effort you put in the more you will get out of it!

And remember, you won't please everybody, but if you make the effort you'll find that others do to!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Swinging is the same as anything else, the more effort you put in the more you will get out of it!

And remember, you won't please everybody, but if you make the effort you'll find that others do to!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

well thank u all in help me out u not all that bad after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We were nervous about socials but found it absolutely nothing like the slightly negative post ! The organizers welcomed us and another couple who had been members on here for along time took time to intoduce us to other members and now after attending 6 socials we can walk in with no nerves and feel very welcome and confident !

Definitely good advice in our opinion attending socials

well we cudn,t leave you on ur own cud we ,we are nice like that lol even though most wud disagree and

slag us off behind our backs

socials can be a great way of meeting people alltough we have never played with anyone we have met from them we do all our meeting off here and clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this below is one of two messages we receved over the last couple of hrs.Not to tarnish every single man with the same brush but it kind of makes you think what kind of filth is on this site the mesage we rec've is as ........Your a small prick invite me round x im going to tell all my friends about you shit kicker What a prick you are and at the social to dont be a small prick x the black boys going to fuuck your mrs is that ok answer cuck joined the right site many niggers are ready and waiting for a flash welcome to the big black cock briggade what a super slut you got farmer boy lol nob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

did u meet him lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BE NICE !!!

I'm sure if your a tidy guy, you wont need to message peeps for meets. I think the others are right about the socials, and that it is a good way to get yourself noticed.

Don't get great expectations of this being the shagathon of all time, as you will fall flat on your face.

Make sure if pics are requested you send a FACE pic not one of your cock

be nice to others here and you will reap the rewards.

Also, if you go in wales chat and have a natter you will find many friends. If it is not for you then there is a wealth of advice from other users on the forums...ooooh

you realise you just got noticed by posting...so there you go mate ! your on your way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"BE NICE !!!

I'm sure if your a tidy guy, you wont need to message peeps for meets. I think the others are right about the socials, and that it is a good way to get yourself noticed.

Don't get great expectations of this being the shagathon of all time, as you will fall flat on your face.

Make sure if pics are requested you send a FACE pic not one of your cock

be nice to others here and you will reap the rewards.

Also, if you go in wales chat and have a natter you will find many friends. If it is not for you then there is a wealth of advice from other users on the forums...ooooh

you realise you just got noticed by posting...so there you go mate ! your on your way

This is such sound advice fair play. People will actually help you and give advice if you ask.

Always to leave the sleaze speak in your mind unless a cpl or fem asks for it. You seem to be onto a winner with your thread in here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely good advice in our opinion attending socials

well we cudn,t leave you on ur own cud we ,we are nice like that lol even though most wud disagree and

slag us off behind our backs

socials can be a great way of meeting people alltough we have never played with anyone we have met from them we do all our meeting off here and clubs"

We luvs ya ...... And ty for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

aw we luvs ya too and we need to have a catch up its been too bloody long

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By *ust JoanWoman
over a year ago

caerphilly

"i dont get that far lol i think i well try and go to a event c if i have any luck there and thank u

It's okay..sorry if I rambled, on first time posting on a forum rather nervous lol x"

No the advise you gave was absolutely spot on, people think that by just sitting down and sending the odd email they are going to get meets just like that, but the truth is, there are so many people on here that others choose to play with people they have already met. If they click in a social environment then they are going to click in the bedroom!

You wouldn't view the inside of a pub through a CCTV camera and say right that's the one I am going to text, you would view the pub from the inside and see/speak to the person you find sexually attractive, then if all goes well you get to play. These sites are no different, you meet socially, get on, them have fun simple!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think Rich and Joan have given great advice and if you get negative feed back mate chin up il talk to you and buy you a drink at the next social hang in there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am finding it very difficult to get meets, so this advice is very welcome and I will follow it all. So thanks to all that have given it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

get yaself a woman lol.......become a couple !! ull be ok then! lol

ooops sorry to belittle ! but thought it funny how serious all the comments were...like u are trying out for a major job interview !!

its a sex site !! but good luck!

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