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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If someone cheats on you do they deserve another chance or is the trust gone forever,will I always be worried about what they are doing ?

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By *uck427Man
over a year ago

wales

It be on the back of your mind would they do it again but if you are open enough you maybe able to work it out and move on its hard to forget about what happened just be open as possible I'm trying to myself with my ex so far it's working but there's always the doubt for a minute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely no second chance. If they do it once they can do it again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely no second chance. If they do it once they can do it again "

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's one strike and your out!!

I have more respect for my partner than to do that and I would expect the same in return.

I cant stand a cheat! But mostly I cant tolerate a lier .

As hard as it would be it would be over.

Not everyone feels this way but its who I am as a person xxmiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Define cheating?

Was it an exclusive relationship, swinging, equal etc X

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

Sadly a cheat is always a cheat, and a liar will always be a liar. I’ve learnt that lesson and don’t give second chances.

And if someone will cheat on their partner to play with you, they will cheat on you to play with someone else.

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales


"Sadly a cheat is always a cheat, and a liar will always be a liar. I’ve learnt that lesson and don’t give second chances.

And if someone will cheat on their partner to play with you, they will cheat on you to play with someone else. "

Exactly this!

Does make me laugh about the guys on here that say about cheating when they're doing exactly or would like to do exactly the same themselves. Glass houses and all that!

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By *ite -meWoman
over a year ago

my house


"Sadly a cheat is always a cheat, and a liar will always be a liar. I’ve learnt that lesson and don’t give second chances.

And if someone will cheat on their partner to play with you, they will cheat on you to play with someone else.

Exactly this!

Does make me laugh about the guys on here that say about cheating when they're doing exactly or would like to do exactly the same themselves. Glass houses and all that!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if you forgive them it shows a great amount of unconditional love but also how little self respect you have for yourself. I get why people would forgive, but personally I would be too hurt to forgive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personally i would give them another chance. but i would hope they couod then talk to me in tje future if they ever wanted to go with someone again and i'd be fiblne with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. One chance only in an exclusive relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bin her off! Told you this your better than that! If she cant see what she got and how great you are then shes not worthy of ur time effort love or affection!! Know you self worth beaut love prinny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a strange topic considering its a 'swingers ' site.

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales


"This is a strange topic considering its a 'swingers ' site."

Why is it strange. There are plenty of people on here cheating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a strange topic considering its a 'swingers ' site.

Why is it strange. There are plenty of people on here cheating"

Exactly! Be honest up front

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strange that so many bed hoppers appear to be concerned about cheaters....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Strange that so many bed hoppers appear to be concerned about cheaters...."

Why is it strange?? Should single people who enjoy casual sex automatically approve of those who are married etc and playing away?? I don't see the link.

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold


"Strange that so many bed hoppers appear to be concerned about cheaters...."

Swinging is about trust and respect, especially between partners.

There's a lot of debate about whether swingles are really swingers ... but that's another thread!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Strange that so many bed hoppers appear to be concerned about cheaters....

Why is it strange?? Should single people who enjoy casual sex automatically approve of those who are married etc and playing away?? I don't see the link."

Single people are also uncomfortable / insecure with their single sexual partners 'cheating on them '.

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold


"Strange that so many bed hoppers appear to be concerned about cheaters....

Why is it strange?? Should single people who enjoy casual sex automatically approve of those who are married etc and playing away?? I don't see the link.

Single people are also uncomfortable / insecure with their single sexual partners 'cheating on them '."

If you're 'single' and have a'single' partner then surely you're in a relationship and not single ?

Does this mean you have an exclusivity agreement with that other person?

Again that boils down to trust, honesty and openness

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales


"Strange that so many bed hoppers appear to be concerned about cheaters....

Why is it strange?? Should single people who enjoy casual sex automatically approve of those who are married etc and playing away?? I don't see the link.

Single people are also uncomfortable / insecure with their single sexual partners 'cheating on them '."

Where does it say the op is actually single? You're a assuming he's single too talking about a FB or fwb. He could be talking about his partner and is cheating himself by being on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having a mutual agreement with your partner and being respectful of the rules is one thing. Me going away with the girls for example and playing away is different. Its cheating! Xxmiss

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