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By *ewCouple3867 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Newport

We have been bombarded with messages off single men since joining (which is great), but where are all the women?? The ones that are on here seem to read our messages and never reply to us. I am always very polite with my messages too, i either state i have pictures and can share if interested or i send them with the message. It's J's birthday coming up and his fantasy is to see me with another women, but we must look like bog trolls because no one wants us we do love this site and have plans to meet some handsome Men but we really are struggling to find a single lady to join us. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What you're seeking is a lot of couples fantasy & you won't find many women who 1 - want to make a male strangers fantasies real, 2 - be a performing seal, 3 - enter a meet without knowing there's pleasure in it for them; finally, that they're a present for an unknown male whom they don't know is worthy of such a gift. Your plea is male focussed & reeks of entitlement, shock that women haven't responded to such a plea, maybe write about more about what YOU & SHE might get from this experience & consider clubs, you'll get a lot more of these opportunities there. If watching you with a women is really the goal you'll have no problem at a club. Good luck both X

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking


"We have been bombarded with messages off single men since joining (which is great), but where are all the women?? The ones that are on here seem to read our messages and never reply to us. I am always very polite with my messages too, i either state i have pictures and can share if interested or i send them with the message. It's J's birthday coming up and his fantasy is to see me with another women, but we must look like bog trolls because no one wants us we do love this site and have plans to meet some handsome Men but we really are struggling to find a single lady to join us. Xx "

As a single female I wouldn't consider your offer. If I play with couples it's always a 3 way thing. I would only meet and play with a couple at a club too. It gives me a chance to suss both of you out and I would also feel a lot safer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with what has been said. I dont think many women will rock up on an evening having never met u to give your hubby a good show. Someone who is bisexual wants to know the woman is into her for all the right reasons and not to please her hubby. I would love to meet a woman on my own to form a friendship with and have naughty fun. My hubby would not be there to begin with as I would want the woman to know my reasons for exploring my bi side are sincere. Maybe after we've met lots of times and she was comfortable then I would introduce my fella.

Finding this person is proving extremely difficult xxmiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What the others have said. I’m bi but have to be attracted to both male and female of a couple for there to be a FFM. I’ve no interest in being a birthday ‘treat’.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U messaging the wrong people ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said ladies

A Very intresting read and good advice I’d say

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By *ewCouple3867 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Newport

Hi all. Thankyou for your advice. It's just just for my partner, maybe I should state that in our profile. I want to please a women myself, I also want all of us to play together. It being my bfs fantasy is just a bonus. I don't think I've worded it right, it's also my fantasy to be with a women. I'm super turned on by the thought of playing with another women on my own without my partner even being there BUT this times it's just a bout having a good time around his birthday as it's the only time we can get a baby sitter without having to make up some fib about where we are going. (It saves the fibs to my parents) :D I'm just finding that I have probably messaged 40 women and no ones replied it's deflating when we get so many messages off men but none off women. I'm going to re write our profile now and hopefully then we might get a reply. Xx

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By *ewCouple3867 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Newport

*It's NOT just for my partner* (bloody phone)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all. Thankyou for your advice. It's just just for my partner, maybe I should state that in our profile. I want to please a women myself, I also want all of us to play together. It being my bfs fantasy is just a bonus. I don't think I've worded it right, it's also my fantasy to be with a women. I'm super turned on by the thought of playing with another women on my own without my partner even being there BUT this times it's just a bout having a good time around his birthday as it's the only time we can get a baby sitter without having to make up some fib about where we are going. (It saves the fibs to my parents) :D I'm just finding that I have probably messaged 40 women and no ones replied it's deflating when we get so many messages off men but none off women. I'm going to re write our profile now and hopefully then we might get a reply. Xx "

Good luck OP, and welcome to the inaugural 'Psuedo-Single Male Club'.....

Obviously that's tongue in cheek. This website sells so many ideas and fantasies, so many situations and fun scenarios..... But the cold reality bites hard. I wish you both all the best, sincerely, along your cobbled road to happiness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all. Thankyou for your advice. It's just just for my partner, maybe I should state that in our profile. I want to please a women myself, I also want all of us to play together. It being my bfs fantasy is just a bonus. I don't think I've worded it right, it's also my fantasy to be with a women. I'm super turned on by the thought of playing with another women on my own without my partner even being there BUT this times it's just a bout having a good time around his birthday as it's the only time we can get a baby sitter without having to make up some fib about where we are going. (It saves the fibs to my parents) :D I'm just finding that I have probably messaged 40 women and no ones replied it's deflating when we get so many messages off men but none off women. I'm going to re write our profile now and hopefully then we might get a reply. Xx "

Get yourselves to a good club on a bi night, lots of opportunities then. Swinging is what you make of it & we have no problem finding what we want

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By *iyuWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Yeah as a bi woman I actually tend to go more for the women rather then the men. I would also need to think that you're both hot, bonus if we meet for a social and click as well.

I'm not going to be anyone's birthday treat though as I am likely to get zero out of that interaction. I'm there because you both want me and vice versa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love this post and all the replys... we will take all the hints and tips on board and maybe one day get what we want and Give what She wants xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah i agree its hard to find any women on here i find. I think its because im still starting off an im un verified maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah i agree its hard to find any women on here i find. I think its because im still starting off an im un verified maybe"

Get yourelf out to a social and meet people. It's a good start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have been bombarded with messages off single men since joining (which is great), but where are all the women?? The ones that are on here seem to read our messages and never reply to us. I am always very polite with my messages too, i either state i have pictures and can share if interested or i send them with the message. It's J's birthday coming up and his fantasy is to see me with another women, but we must look like bog trolls because no one wants us we do love this site and have plans to meet some handsome Men but we really are struggling to find a single lady to join us. Xx

As a single female I wouldn't consider your offer. If I play with couples it's always a 3 way thing. I would only meet and play with a couple at a club too. It gives me a chance to suss both of you out and I would also feel a lot safer "

exactly this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree with what has been said. I dont think many women will rock up on an evening having never met u to give your hubby a good show. Someone who is bisexual wants to know the woman is into her for all the right reasons and not to please her hubby. I would love to meet a woman on my own to form a friendship with and have naughty fun. My hubby would not be there to begin with as I would want the woman to know my reasons for exploring my bi side are sincere. Maybe after we've met lots of times and she was comfortable then I would introduce my fella.

Finding this person is proving extremely difficult xxmiss "

Agree totally with this. As a bi-curious fem, most couples approach me purely because the male wants a 3sum more than the female, and they are doing mostly for them.

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