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By *ub slave9 OP   Couple
over a year ago

maesteg

Hi all just wondering if there's anyone as body conscious as us outhere? I mean we all are in a way but as in meeting sexier people/couples than yourself are you as intimidated as we are talking to very hot people ..... Feeling of not being as hot in real life etc. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely, as I have a condition ( which would identify me) I can't post body pictures and don't know how people would take me if/when they see me

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By *ar-Some CoupleCouple
over a year ago

from somewhere glittery & sparkly


"Hi all just wondering if there's anyone as body conscious as us outhere? I mean we all are in a way but as in meeting sexier people/couples than yourself are you as intimidated as we are talking to very hot people ..... Feeling of not being as hot in real life etc. Xx"

Not at all. The mrs thinks I'm sexy as fuck, and I think she is sexy as fuck. Anyone else's opinions doesn't matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You guys have nothing to worry about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think most people are a little body conscious especially the older we get and bits start to get a little saggy and parts aren't as firm as they once was.

If we're looking we tend to have a look at the other persons veris to see if we're the type they are meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both peach and I have body worries

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By *unshine500Man
over a year ago

west wales

As a male i can saybi have body worries, with the health issue i have im covered in scars and things, but when i do say or explain my condition alot just ask questions but the ones that just block or has a nasty comment to say, well them words sting.

No need to worry tho evreything still in working condition

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all just wondering if there's anyone as body conscious as us outhere? I mean we all are in a way but as in meeting sexier people/couples than yourself are you as intimidated as we are talking to very hot people ..... Feeling of not being as hot in real life etc. Xx"

Ur body is gorgeous, don’t worry about anything x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm old n fat, he's young n furry but we fancy the fuck out of each other, so what others think is of little concern. Although we do tend to move away from those profiles that state they are 'hot' etc & looking for 'hot' people, we don't know what this relates to tbh X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I am very conscious of my body and looks I am a bbw but that is down to medication nothing I can do,hubby is very attractive and good looking in my eyes lol alot of it is down to personal attraction if they don't like what they see they move on, personal preference and attraction

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By *ilthyfucks69Couple
over a year ago

Neverland

When we initially joined fab we most definitely lacked in confidence but swinging has definitely give us alot more confidence and we are more resilient now. We are who we are and we are happy with that

Haters will always hate

Mrs

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By *rShinyKnickersMan
over a year ago

BARRY

See..I get this..but the thing is, I KNOW I'm not sexy. I honest to god find it REALLY difficult to accept it when anyone compliments me, or says I am.

I 100% think people are just saying it, not quite sure if I'll ever get over it and accept compliments for what they are.

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By *-CrassClownMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I'm pretty lucky in that, the sexy aren't generally interested in me, so I don't need to worry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm pretty lucky in that, the sexy aren't generally interested in me, so I don't need to worry. "

Harsh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I (miss) definitely can sympathise with how u feel. Its horrible and sometimes I really let it get to me. We are all human so it's normal to feel this way I guess. Still a horrible feeling. I envy people who ooze confidence. I want to know where I can get some lol xxmiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I (miss) definitely can sympathise with how u feel. Its horrible and sometimes I really let it get to me. We are all human so it's normal to feel this way I guess. Still a horrible feeling. I envy people who ooze confidence. I want to know where I can get some lol xxmiss "
if your man loves you for who you are don’t worry about what other ppl think it’s just play with others x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meeeeee I suffer with roscea and very conscious about my condition you could never tell I suffer with it due to the amount of make up i wear .. but I panic during a meet cause for obvious reasons make up will come off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meeeeee I suffer with roscea and very conscious about my condition you could never tell I suffer with it due to the amount of make up i wear .. but I panic during a meet cause for obvious reasons make up will come off "
hun fixing spray! don’t mean this in any disrespect it’s awesome ur make up don’t move until u wash just a thought xx

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

i think we all feel like this at some point in our lives but as long as my partner like what he sees inside and out not bothered about ant one else's opinions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meeeeee I suffer with roscea and very conscious about my condition you could never tell I suffer with it due to the amount of make up i wear .. but I panic during a meet cause for obvious reasons make up will come off hun fixing spray! don’t mean this in any disrespect it’s awesome ur make up don’t move until u wash just a thought xx"
really?? I need to get this haha thank you

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool


"Meeeeee I suffer with roscea and very conscious about my condition you could never tell I suffer with it due to the amount of make up i wear .. but I panic during a meet cause for obvious reasons make up will come off hun fixing spray! don’t mean this in any disrespect it’s awesome ur make up don’t move until u wash just a thought xx really?? I need to get this haha thank you "
my mam has this and she uses revolution cbd serum and reduced the redness dramaticly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meeeeee I suffer with roscea and very conscious about my condition you could never tell I suffer with it due to the amount of make up i wear .. but I panic during a meet cause for obvious reasons make up will come off hun fixing spray! don’t mean this in any disrespect it’s awesome ur make up don’t move until u wash just a thought xx really?? I need to get this haha thank you my mam has this and she uses revolution cbd serum and reduced the redness dramaticly "
where can I get this from .. and thanks for mentioning it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meeeeee I suffer with roscea and very conscious about my condition you could never tell I suffer with it due to the amount of make up i wear .. but I panic during a meet cause for obvious reasons make up will come off hun fixing spray! don’t mean this in any disrespect it’s awesome ur make up don’t move until u wash just a thought xx really?? I need to get this haha thank you my mam has this and she uses revolution cbd serum and reduced the redness dramaticly where can I get this from .. and thanks for mentioning it "
I get mine from boots but you can pick it up anywhere I love my makeup can’t live without it ha & it really works xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meeeeee I suffer with roscea and very conscious about my condition you could never tell I suffer with it due to the amount of make up i wear .. but I panic during a meet cause for obvious reasons make up will come off hun fixing spray! don’t mean this in any disrespect it’s awesome ur make up don’t move until u wash just a thought xx really?? I need to get this haha thank you my mam has this and she uses revolution cbd serum and reduced the redness dramaticly where can I get this from .. and thanks for mentioning it "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think we all feel like this at some point in our lives but as long as my partner like what he sees inside and out not bothered about ant one else's opinions"
so true x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meeeeee I suffer with roscea and very conscious about my condition you could never tell I suffer with it due to the amount of make up i wear .. but I panic during a meet cause for obvious reasons make up will come off hun fixing spray! don’t mean this in any disrespect it’s awesome ur make up don’t move until u wash just a thought xx really?? I need to get this haha thank you my mam has this and she uses revolution cbd serum and reduced the redness dramaticly where can I get this from .. and thanks for mentioning it I get mine from boots but you can pick it up anywhere I love my makeup can’t live without it ha & it really works xx"
a trip to boots tomorrow then lol thanks so much for the tip really appreciate it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meeeeee I suffer with roscea and very conscious about my condition you could never tell I suffer with it due to the amount of make up i wear .. but I panic during a meet cause for obvious reasons make up will come off hun fixing spray! don’t mean this in any disrespect it’s awesome ur make up don’t move until u wash just a thought xx really?? I need to get this haha thank you my mam has this and she uses revolution cbd serum and reduced the redness dramaticly where can I get this from .. and thanks for mentioning it I get mine from boots but you can pick it up anywhere I love my makeup can’t live without it ha & it really works xx a trip to boots tomorrow then lol thanks so much for the tip really appreciate it xx "
np hun x

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By *weet Treat 69Couple
over a year ago

North Wales area

I'm extremely body conscious. Especially after having kids which has left me with stretch marks. I'm conscious that once I've taken my clothes off, I'd be more of a turn off than a turn on.

Self tan does wonders

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I (miss) definitely can sympathise with how u feel. Its horrible and sometimes I really let it get to me. We are all human so it's normal to feel this way I guess. Still a horrible feeling. I envy people who ooze confidence. I want to know where I can get some lol xxmiss if your man loves you for who you are don’t worry about what other ppl think it’s just play with others x"

I know and you are right . Although it's more what I think of me than what he does . Inner demons and all that xxmiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm extremely body conscious. Especially after having kids which has left me with stretch marks. I'm conscious that once I've taken my clothes off, I'd be more of a turn off than a turn on.

Self tan does wonders"

I feel the exact same about my mum tum and a spray tan does make me feel so much better too lol. I think we pay far more attention to our nasty bits than guys do. They are far to focused on the juicy stuff

Also we carried their beautiful babies so we are pretty awesome xxmiss

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool


"Meeeeee I suffer with roscea and very conscious about my condition you could never tell I suffer with it due to the amount of make up i wear .. but I panic during a meet cause for obvious reasons make up will come off hun fixing spray! don’t mean this in any disrespect it’s awesome ur make up don’t move until u wash just a thought xx really?? I need to get this haha thank you my mam has this and she uses revolution cbd serum and reduced the redness dramaticly where can I get this from .. and thanks for mentioning it "
revolution have a website and superdrug sell it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm extremely body conscious. Especially after having kids which has left me with stretch marks. I'm conscious that once I've taken my clothes off, I'd be more of a turn off than a turn on.

Self tan does wonders

I feel the exact same about my mum tum and a spray tan does make me feel so much better too lol. I think we pay far more attention to our nasty bits than guys do. They are far to focused on the juicy stuff

Also we carried their beautiful babies so we are pretty awesome xxmiss "

Yes you are all awesome women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See now us blokes, when we are looking at another couple. One of the first thing we check. Has he got a cock bigger than me? As a more average size bloke i really thought I was average size and then we came on here and loads of blokes have cocks like a baby's arm. So that puts us more average size blokes on a back foot.

Mind you, that's where other skills like bedroom confidence, tongue and hand skills, experience and a good knowledge of how a woman thinks and her wants comes in. It's not just looks that can effect us meeting others.

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By *achelross1978Couple
over a year ago

Blackwood

Absolutely, but we all just need to remember how happy we are with our partners and just keep having our fun x

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By *elsh_72Man
over a year ago

Bridgend

When I was younger I was very body conscious and also struggled when people gave me any type of compliment. Now though as I get older I think bollox to it. I am who I am, confident in myself and don't really care what anyone else thinks. Like someone else said, if people's profile say they are looking for "hot" then I just skip on by.

Just my opinion though.

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