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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I try to get in touch with couples all the time with no luck. Are that bad looking then? Swingers suppose to be about ( mostly) couples am i right. What the heck is wrong? Advice needed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a huge number of solo men looking to meet couples,so they're somewhat spoilt for choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I try to get in touch with couples all the time with no luck. Are that bad looking then? Swingers suppose to be about ( mostly) couples am i right. What the heck is wrong? Advice needed"

You have to think about both of the couple being attracted to both of you. That's sometimes a hard thing to achieve if you haven't met at a social event, party or a club.

Persiberianve is key ! You will eventually find the couple you click with and build on that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plus the ability to spell lol still keep trying lol ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh come on don’t tell me u wouldn’t fuck someone because they can’t spell right?! This is my second language man....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the rest of the advice

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By *ar-Some CoupleCouple
over a year ago

from somewhere glittery & sparkly


"Oh come on don’t tell me u wouldn’t fuck someone because they can’t spell right?! This is my second language man.... "

There will always be one that takes the piss out of someones spelling on here....

But for us as a couple its alot harder to please both.

And finding two people we are both attracted to can be bloody nightmare.

So dont take it personal.

Good luck with your search

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Aww thanks u cheered me up

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By *ar-Some CoupleCouple
over a year ago

from somewhere glittery & sparkly


"Aww thanks u cheered me up "

Your very welcome.

Take no notice of the grammar police

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By *teve-sueCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

We think most people experience this, as oar some people said with a couple it’s alot harder to please both.... what the male likes the female may not etc

Try being a cpl looking for single fem .... even harder lol.....

Don’t give up, go with the flow and enjoy it, don’t let it get you down...

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By *ar-Some CoupleCouple
over a year ago

from somewhere glittery & sparkly


"We think most people experience this, as oar some people said with a couple it’s alot harder to please both.... what the male likes the female may not etc

Try being a cpl looking for single fem .... even harder lol.....

Don’t give up, go with the flow and enjoy it, don’t let it get you down... "

It is alot harder....

It took us nearly 2 years of being together to find our 1st couple as we couldn't agree.

You will get there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That is a long wait maybe im just impatient then

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By *ar-Some CoupleCouple
over a year ago

from somewhere glittery & sparkly


"That is a long wait maybe im just impatient then"

It's getting the right balance between you both...

And yes it was a long wait but we are now happy in what we do & feel comfortable and both know are likes & dislikes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh come on don’t tell me u wouldn’t fuck someone because they can’t spell right?! This is my second language man.... "

I dont think the guy meant you. He was pulling CJ up on his spelling of perseverance. I googled to make sure I spelt it correctly lol xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

LOL i googled what preseverance is ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damm phone

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By *rMrsMorningstarCouple
over a year ago

near bridgend

We've been here about 2yrs aswell and only now are we talking to a real decent couple.

It's mainly chatting and getting a feel for one another but the amount of let downs is truly overwhelming, to the point of giving up with couples.

But as mentioned above, its down to patients as both parties need a level of attraction for it to work..

It is hard but take it with a pinch of salt though you'll get here, hopefully

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That all make sence. My initial thought were about to starting off swinging were some good fun with couples sharing this awesome experince with my husband. How wrong i was, hardest thing ever. I have more fun as a single women which is a shame...... i love to play with my hubby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are a couple seeking a female.. and haveing no luck at all !

We just looked at your profile we can't see anything wrong I'm sure you both will have some luck soon

When you get some luck send us some x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Aw thanks for the cheer up let me know if u need a single women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh come on don’t tell me u wouldn’t fuck someone because they can’t spell right?! This is my second language man....

There will always be one that takes the piss out of someones spelling on here....

But for us as a couple its alot harder to please both.

And finding two people we are both attracted to can be bloody nightmare.

So dont take it personal.

Good luck with your search "

Agree with this.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

The socials are a great way to make friends.

It can be difficult to find a four way attraction just from profiles, we find chatting at socials etc is a better as it gives you time to get to know them in person.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well we will practice this on the camp party i suppose

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By *teve-sueCouple
over a year ago

cardiff


"We are a couple seeking a female.. and haveing no luck at all !

We just looked at your profile we can't see anything wrong I'm sure you both will have some luck soon

When you get some luck send us some x

"

We are exactly the same ..... a rarity . Good luck everyone

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