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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why would a person do this....

Meet in a hotel, have the most amazing sex go to shop for my supplies... come back enjoy more time. Say your going outside for a fag... and not come back!! Not even a text ! Not even a thanks ! Not even a buy.

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By *ancardiff7Man
over a year ago

Near Cowbridge

People are arseholes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People are arseholes. "

You can say that again........ lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ops spell check lol my= more

And buy= bye

Haha angry ?? typing ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Name an shame thats simply fucking ignorant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well it was just sex not a date

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Name an shame thats simply fucking ignorant "

Honestly I have thought about it. But I’m a better person . His just been blocked.. (cheeky fucker asked me to leave him a good verification!)

....four hours we spent together banter/sex/talking/laughing.... and off he fucked!! leaving me in the hotel. Having to hand the keys in, Alone when we arrived together .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well it was just sex not a date "
im well aware of what it was!

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By *ussD1Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

Rudeness knows no bounds.

Is the age of the gentleman dead?

;-(

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well it was just sex not a date "

Juat becoz it was a sex meet doesnt mean u need to treat people like that..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well it was just sex not a date

Juat becoz it was a sex meet doesnt mean u need to treat people like that.."

Indeed.... I would never be so rude.

Not like I was no one asking for another meet... he was. Also just for the record I’m not on a swinging site for dates!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well it was just sex not a date "

It isn't nice though.

It costs nothing to have manners and be a decent man.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well it was just sex not a date

It isn't nice though.

It costs nothing to have manners and be a decent man. "

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say it's defo not nice but have u actually asked him to explain???? maybe he went for a fag and accidently "sharted" and legged it home??? lol but that's Just one of many reasons if he actually has one.

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By *unshine500Man
over a year ago

west wales

Maybe his wife or gf rang? And asked him where he was? And he ran home like a naughty child?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not nice, I have had that done to me make you feel like shit.

Even if it was only a sex meet no one should be treated like that it is just wrong.

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s rude. I remember end of 2017 a one off guy who I’d just fucked but he wasn’t keen to sleep over, said he was getting some rennie from his car and then fucked off! Funnier thing is that every couple of months since he’ll ask to meet again, it’s like yeah right!

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales


"Well it was just sex not a date "

So you're saying that it's fine to be rude to people?! Lol sure you wouldn't be impressed being treated like that

No accounting for bad manners!

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By *ancardiff7Man
over a year ago

Near Cowbridge

You probably shouldn't have sent him to do your weekly shop though, unless he was particularly submissive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well it was just sex not a date "

Still bloody good manners and common courtesy to say goodbye at least.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just to ask cause no-one has yet but have u asked him why???? or just block straight away??? if he has no excuse I completely agree with the rest on here but know one has asked that question has of yet lol

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By *andman85Man
over a year ago

Swansea


"Why would a person do this....

Meet in a hotel, have the most amazing sex go to shop for my supplies... come back enjoy more time. Say your going outside for a fag... and not come back!! Not even a text ! Not even a thanks ! Not even a buy."

Sounds like he was hiding something, asshole

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Because he got what he wanted. A quick fuck and go.

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales


"You probably shouldn't have sent him to do your weekly shop though, unless he was particularly submissive "

This did make me chuckle

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You probably shouldn't have sent him to do your weekly shop though, unless he was particularly submissive "

It wasn’t my shopping he went for.... he went for himself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because he got what he wanted. A quick fuck and go. "

Wasn’t quick 4hours

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"just to ask cause no-one has yet but have u asked him why???? or just block straight away??? if he has no excuse I completely agree with the rest on here but know one has asked that question has of yet lol"

After about 15 minutes I text him, (have you got lost)no reply

Then I rang phone off

I what’s ap (which has been read)

Saying bang out of order and a outrageous thing to do...RUDE

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd say it's defo not nice but have u actually asked him to explain???? maybe he went for a fag and accidently "sharted" and legged it home??? lol but that's Just one of many reasons if he actually has one."

Maybe that’s the way he gets his kicks

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By *nique_GymMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

The difficulty you have is applying what are deemed normal and polite social protocols to an environment where to many these are not important. The chap was undoubtedly driven by desire and lust to meet you, his normal social filters clouded by ravishing you. However post tryst he may be filled with guilt because he has lied to someone where he is, not told a significant other. Maybe outside he saw someone who could compromise him at work if he was pulling a sickie? I wouldn’t over analyse it, it’s clearly upset you but just perhaps accept ‘he might be a bit odd’ lol and you are well shot of him!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Disgraceful...

No need to be so cold and rude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just to ask cause no-one has yet but have u asked him why???? or just block straight away??? if he has no excuse I completely agree with the rest on here but know one has asked that question has of yet lol

After about 15 minutes I text him, (have you got lost)no reply

Then I rang phone off

I what’s ap (which has been read)

Saying bang out of order and a outrageous thing to do...RUDE"

ah well defo bang out of order. if he wasn't interested anymore then a simple sorry would have been something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Name an shame thats simply fucking ignorant

Honestly I have thought about it. But I’m a better person . His just been blocked.. (cheeky fucker asked me to leave him a good verification!)

....four hours we spent together banter/sex/talking/laughing.... and off he fucked!! leaving me in the hotel. Having to hand the keys in, Alone when we arrived together ."

It’s no wonder there’s so much negativity towards us males on the site- sheer arrogant ignorance. Deserves to be named.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would a person do this....

Meet in a hotel, have the most amazing sex go to shop for my supplies... come back enjoy more time. Say your going outside for a fag... and not come back!! Not even a text ! Not even a thanks ! Not even a buy."

Complete cockwomble. It may be a about fun and having NSA sex, but that is disrespectful and twatty behaviour. I'm glad you blocked him OP. Just a pity you found out after the sex and not before. Sounds like someone who got his rocks off, then buggered off once he got what he wanted. There's no excuse for behaving in a disrespectful manner. People who think that is an acceptable way to behave, because it's fab, is not someone i want any association with. I personally would not name and shame, but i would PM my female friends to give them a heads up of the type of man he is, just in case he got in touch with them.

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By *efByOrgasmsMan
over a year ago

Heads of the Valleys

That's just pathetic and I feel sorry for you.

I'm flabbergasted by what I read.

Not every guy is a arsehole

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why would a person do this....

Meet in a hotel, have the most amazing sex go to shop for my supplies... come back enjoy more time. Say your going outside for a fag... and not come back!! Not even a text ! Not even a thanks ! Not even a buy.

Complete cockwomble. It may be a about fun and having NSA sex, but that is disrespectful and twatty behaviour. I'm glad you blocked him OP. Just a pity you found out after the sex and not before. Sounds like someone who got his rocks off, then buggered off once he got what he wanted. There's no excuse for behaving in a disrespectful manner. People who think that is an acceptable way to behave, because it's fab, is not someone i want any association with. I personally would not name and shame, but i would PM my female friends to give them a heads up of the type of man he is, just in case he got in touch with them.

"
I’m happy to share with inbox but I’m not putting it out for all to see. We shared some personal talks over the time we were texting and talking... and I would never discuss any of it.. I was shocked by his behaviour.. and angry at the time I’m over it now.

Was a little hurt as we had chatted for some time before hand.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The difficulty you have is applying what are deemed normal and polite social protocols to an environment where to many these are not important. The chap was undoubtedly driven by desire and lust to meet you, his normal social filters clouded by ravishing you. However post tryst he may be filled with guilt because he has lied to someone where he is, not told a significant other. Maybe outside he saw someone who could compromise him at work if he was pulling a sickie? I wouldn’t over analyse it, it’s clearly upset you but just perhaps accept ‘he might be a bit odd’ lol and you are well shot of him! "

Yes anything is possible but he had my number and a simple text would of been ok..

Or at least a reply to mine!

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By *ancardiff7Man
over a year ago

Near Cowbridge


"You probably shouldn't have sent him to do your weekly shop though, unless he was particularly submissive

It wasn’t my shopping he went for.... he went for himself "

Ahhh you did say it was your shopping which I did wonder about.

Anyway, no point wasting another joule of energy over the matter.

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By *ragon007Man
over a year ago

london

So night gone well and then my partner is told by the couple who hosted us that we are not for them lol

So why we have had sex for 5 hours

Not sure what people are thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You probably shouldn't have sent him to do your weekly shop though, unless he was particularly submissive

It wasn’t my shopping he went for.... he went for himself

Ahhh you did say it was your shopping which I did wonder about.

Anyway, no point wasting another joule of energy over the matter. "

The OP had already corrected herself further down the thread

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

He got what he wanted, empty balls.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could never do that to someone that is way out of order and totally disrespectful. People like that dont deserve the time of day.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

As long as he paid his share of the room before he left.

Some people get a guilt trip I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He got what he wanted, empty balls. "

Very much this. A lot of women seem to think men on Fab are after more than what they really are. He got what he wanted, he left.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha that's brutal by him, never trust a man

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By *ancubsaMan
over a year ago

Newport


"Why would a person do this....

Meet in a hotel, have the most amazing sex go to shop for my supplies... come back enjoy more time. Say your going outside for a fag... and not come back!! Not even a text ! Not even a thanks ! Not even a buy."

WOW Max... I'm speechless! Respect costs absolutely nothing to give.

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By *ogerBottomsMan
over a year ago

Aberdare

Christ, that's awful. What a coward.

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By *ORDERMANMan
over a year ago

wrexham

Manners maketh the man....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"He got what he wanted, empty balls.

Very much this. A lot of women seem to think men on Fab are after more than what they really are. He got what he wanted, he left. "

Oh believe me love .... I’m not after anything other then what I’m here for....

(but respect.cost nothing) The cheeky sod has since text after another meet!

But I have better things to do... washing my hair!

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By *ackInBlackMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

The guy was married or had a girlfriend or partner and had to get back to them, or else he'd be caught out for cheating

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Did you do a social before this meet OP? I always do a social in a public place first, next meet may well be a play meet. It gets rid of a lot of dump cum and runs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Basic politeness costs nothing.

At least he could have answered the text.

Exceptionally rude ! No excuse for such behaviour x

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