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By *issvv OP   Couple
over a year ago

pontyclun

Anyone know why we keep getting reported saying hubby is single male? I know there are fakes on here but they won’t have any veris of the woman at all. Anyone who goes to Newport Social knows we are a couple.

I have taken a break from playing but doesn’t mean I’m no longer here or not a part of anything. And all this has done has made it take longer for me to get back into it.

Miss x

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking

Several of us have met you both at social events. Your hubby also has his own single account. Some people just like to cause trouble. Take as much time as you need my lovely... x

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By *issvv OP   Couple
over a year ago

pontyclun


"Several of us have met you both at social events. Your hubby also has his own single account. Some people just like to cause trouble. Take as much time as you need my lovely... x"

Thanks luv. Try explaining this to the admin. They just replied and said that unless we meet as a couple then we can’t have a couples account. We never met as a couple anyways. Arranging a babysitter for a social is bad enough and we are happy that way so it’s not going to change.

I been trying to get back into it but now I can’t even message single males as it looks like a man is trying to message them. It’s hard for me to find what I need on here as it is without adding that into it

Miss xx

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By *rgasmicFunCouple
over a year ago

Gwent

I hate to say this but your account can look confusing to some of the not so clever ppl that dont read profiles, by putting some thing in the female section but no info, to keep your account running as a couple, so to give u time to be ready for when YOU want start meeting.

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By *issvv OP   Couple
over a year ago

pontyclun


"I hate to say this but your account can look confusing to some of the not so clever ppl that dont read profiles, by putting some thing in the female section but no info, to keep your account running as a couple, so to give u time to be ready for when YOU want start meeting."

But I am trying to meet again. I have messaged a few men. Just not ready for sex. If there is no info on me at all why would they be interested in meeting me? It’s there to be clear i don’t want sex but like to meet for socials to slowly get back into it. We are clear in our profile if people won’t read it then that’s not our problem. If people don’t read and message I still always explain. I’m not here to mislead anyone or waste anyone’s time

Miss x

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By *rgasmicFunCouple
over a year ago

Gwent

I get that and your right if u only want to meet till u r ready fine thats up to u, bit its probaly some sad person reporting it, but its more admin i think they have rules which they follow , its wrong that admin and some ppl think every one fits into perfect boxes, dont let them get u down, do as u want to do, Mr.

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By *issvv OP   Couple
over a year ago

pontyclun


"I hate to say this but your account can look confusing to some of the not so clever ppl that dont read profiles, by putting some thing in the female section but no info, to keep your account running as a couple, so to give u time to be ready for when YOU want start meeting."

Sorry didn’t read it clear first time. My fault I’m in a bad mood because of it all.

We had full info on myself (miss) it’s admin who deleted it all. And changed to single male account. And when doing so just deleted all of hubbys details so now all of it is wrong. He isn’t 33 I am. He isn’t bi. But I am. I didn’t read anymore but probably says he is only 5ft2 ?? he is actually 6ft or there abouts I should know this been with him 9 years. But all I know is with heels I still need to look up lol. It’s all admins mess up from someone in here trying to make trouble for us. Why I don’t know.

Miss x

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By *logger and Rainbow-AliceCouple
over a year ago

Bridgend

I cant get my head arround why admin havent checked your verifications. Ive met you BOTH and your definitely a couple us you explained clearly on your profile that you was taking a break. Im baffled and so sorry your going through this.

I cant believe someone out there is mean enough to report your account as being a single one. My fingers are crossed you get it all sorted. Shame admin cant message people who left you varies and ask us to confirm you are a couple and go to socials together too.

You only meet and play when your ready lovely, take care xx feisty x

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By *issvv OP   Couple
over a year ago

pontyclun


"I cant get my head arround why admin havent checked your verifications. Ive met you BOTH and your definitely a couple us you explained clearly on your profile that you was taking a break. Im baffled and so sorry your going through this.

I cant believe someone out there is mean enough to report your account as being a single one. My fingers are crossed you get it all sorted. Shame admin cant message people who left you varies and ask us to confirm you are a couple and go to socials together too.

You only meet and play when your ready lovely, take care xx feisty x"

I told admin to look at our Veris. But they replied saying we need to be meeting together as a couple and our profile needs to say that. But it does say that it said I’m not having sex two different things. But if it’s not sorted out by tonight I will just delete the profile. Hubby got his own anyways. Just means I won’t be able to meet on here.

Thanks luv. Problem was I was trying to meet socially again anyways just admin has put a stop on it now

Miss x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mean this a nasty way but you maybe a couple but you don't play as a couple & you're not involved in anyway, other than attending the odd social event. I can see admins point of view your other half only meets as a single but via your profile he can get through lots of filters, I don't really see how your different to lots of other single men on here. I've got my hard hat on ready because my comments never go well here X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mean this a nasty way but you maybe a couple but you don't play as a couple & you're not involved in anyway, other than attending the odd social event. I can see admins point of view your other half only meets as a single but via your profile he can get through lots of filters, I don't really see how your different to lots of other single men on here. I've got my hard hat on ready because my comments never go well here X"

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By *issvv OP   Couple
over a year ago

pontyclun


"I don't mean this a nasty way but you maybe a couple but you don't play as a couple & you're not involved in anyway, other than attending the odd social event. I can see admins point of view your other half only meets as a single but via your profile he can get through lots of filters, I don't really see how your different to lots of other single men on here. I've got my hard hat on ready because my comments never go well here X"

I understand where you're coming from although prior to miss going on a break we were looking for women to join us and separate room swap. Because we were quite picky with what we wanted involving that we didn't display it as we were getting loads of messages from profiles that didn't interest us and due to not having much free time, we took it upon ourselves to search instead. We know plenty of other people who take this approach who haven't been reported so why are we targeted?

The reason she wanted to get back into it, which is what she is currently trying to do, is so that we can go back searching for this but to gain her own confidence back, she's taking small steps starting with socials on her own.

Regarding your post, in what way is she not involved?

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By *issvv OP   Couple
over a year ago

pontyclun

Also I have a single profile, the people I meet have the choice to leave a verification on either that or the couple's profile after informing them about both.

Personally, I don't message from the couple's profile as miss is the one who has most to do with it. I meet people through socials.

To make a point, miss stated she was on a break, not stopped playing. Whoever reported us along with admin should have had the decency to contact us first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't know either of you but the photos look like typical single male photos. I know there is one including a part of the female but that's it. Maybe this is misleading??

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By *issvv OP   Couple
over a year ago

pontyclun


"Don't know either of you but the photos look like typical single male photos. I know there is one including a part of the female but that's it. Maybe this is misleading?? "

There were photos of miss up on here but if we click on our photos it says theyve been rejected as they're not me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are various profiles on here, especially those on the forums, where they don't meet at all. Does that mean that those profiles should be removed also? I was unaware that in order to have a profile on here, you had to be actively meeting for sex together. To be fair, you do meet as a couple. You just don't play as one. You go to some of the socials together. This to me, is very silly. It was clear that Miss was taking a break. The verifications proved that a couple were equally running the profile. I didn't realise the prequisite to having a couples profile meant you had to shag together with others. If that's the case, then there are many couples profiles that need a good spring clean. Hopefully you can get this sorted out OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't know either of you but the photos look like typical single male photos. I know there is one including a part of the female but that's it. Maybe this is misleading??

There were photos of miss up on here but if we click on our photos it says theyve been rejected as they're not me "

Ah ok my apologies,I hadn't looked at your profile before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are various profiles on here, especially those on the forums, where they don't meet at all. Does that mean that those profiles should be removed also? I was unaware that in order to have a profile on here, you had to be actively meeting for sex together. To be fair, you do meet as a couple. You just don't play as one. You go to some of the socials together. This to me, is very silly. It was clear that Miss was taking a break. The verifications proved that a couple were equally running the profile. I didn't realise the prequisite to having a couples profile meant you had to shag together with others. If that's the case, then there are many couples profiles that need a good spring clean. Hopefully you can get this sorted out OP. "

I agree

Since when did Fab introduce such strict sexual requirements on couples??

I have a single profile but no longer meet at all....maybe I should go UNLOS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are various profiles on here, especially those on the forums, where they don't meet at all. Does that mean that those profiles should be removed also? I was unaware that in order to have a profile on here, you had to be actively meeting for sex together. To be fair, you do meet as a couple. You just don't play as one. You go to some of the socials together. This to me, is very silly. It was clear that Miss was taking a break. The verifications proved that a couple were equally running the profile. I didn't realise the prequisite to having a couples profile meant you had to shag together with others. If that's the case, then there are many couples profiles that need a good spring clean. Hopefully you can get this sorted out OP.

I agree

Since when did Fab introduce such strict sexual requirements on couples??

I have a single profile but no longer meet at all....maybe I should go UNLOS "

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By *logger and Rainbow-AliceCouple
over a year ago

Bridgend

Got tbh i didnt know you had to both be having sex together with others to use a couples profile. Hubby and I hadnt played together on here in a few yrs, we used ours the same as OP for going to socials together. We always played seperate mainly focusing on our single profiles. Only recently we started playing together as a couple again with others.

Im abit unsure what the rules are then tbh.

I also think if someone wishes to take time out for various reasons they should be allowed without their profile being reported or changedby others x

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking


"There are various profiles on here, especially those on the forums, where they don't meet at all. Does that mean that those profiles should be removed also? I was unaware that in order to have a profile on here, you had to be actively meeting for sex together. To be fair, you do meet as a couple. You just don't play as one. You go to some of the socials together. This to me, is very silly. It was clear that Miss was taking a break. The verifications proved that a couple were equally running the profile. I didn't realise the prequisite to having a couples profile meant you had to shag together with others. If that's the case, then there are many couples profiles that need a good spring clean. Hopefully you can get this sorted out OP. "

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By *issvv OP   Couple
over a year ago

pontyclun

I wonder now then can we get reported for saying he is a single male when his misses is using the profile?

Miss x

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By *issvv OP   Couple
over a year ago

pontyclun

Also thanks for the support all, I'm glad we're not the only ones who see it that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All this thread has made me feel is damned paranoid that I don't meet the necessary standards for being a single male! I don't meet anyone, so can't play as a single male. Does this mean I will be reported for being a fake? .

OP, it seems like you have had the short end of a long stick. I hope it gets sorted out for you. Personally I would consider re-writing your couple profile to suit your current situation as I gather you don't meet much as a 'couple' but you do both meet as 'single' people according to what you want at that time with others. So maybe have two single accounts (if you don't already) and use those to point towards your couples account as well as having the couple account point towards the singles accounts, so there is no room for misunderstanding by anyone.

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By *issvv OP   Couple
over a year ago

pontyclun


"All this thread has made me feel is damned paranoid that I don't meet the necessary standards for being a single male! I don't meet anyone, so can't play as a single male. Does this mean I will be reported for being a fake? .

OP, it seems like you have had the short end of a long stick. I hope it gets sorted out for you. Personally I would consider re-writing your couple profile to suit your current situation as I gather you don't meet much as a 'couple' but you do both meet as 'single' people according to what you want at that time with others. So maybe have two single accounts (if you don't already) and use those to point towards your couples account as well as having the couple account point towards the singles accounts, so there is no room for misunderstanding by anyone. "

Something we already do. It made no difference. Also with hubby having a single account there are people who wouldn’t want to know him as they see it as cheating because he has a wife either way we can’t win

Miss x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Something we already do. It made no difference. Also with hubby having a single account there are people who wouldn’t want to know him as they see it as cheating because he has a wife either way we can’t win

Miss x "

Hmmmm. Well, maybe the truth will win out and Admins will see (through scrutiny of your messages in and out of all profiles concerned of yours, as well as the forum posts and interactions those profiles)......

I am obviously happy to prove that I am actually a single male and help you both with your defence should you ever wish lol. Be a lot of coffee to drink (3 meets) but you never know, might be useful .

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By *issvv OP   Couple
over a year ago

pontyclun


"Something we already do. It made no difference. Also with hubby having a single account there are people who wouldn’t want to know him as they see it as cheating because he has a wife either way we can’t win

Miss x

Hmmmm. Well, maybe the truth will win out and Admins will see (through scrutiny of your messages in and out of all profiles concerned of yours, as well as the forum posts and interactions those profiles)......

I am obviously happy to prove that I am actually a single male and help you both with your defence should you ever wish lol. Be a lot of coffee to drink (3 meets) but you never know, might be useful . "

Now if u had said tea u would of won me over instantly but hubby is a coffee drinker

Miss x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Now if u had said tea u would of won me over instantly but hubby is a coffee drinker

Miss x "

Well.... As it happens.... I have 3 types of tea here as well as four or five types of coffee.... So you can call me indecisive or you can call me accommodating lol, but there is something here for everyone.

Besides. If we met out and about someplace, I would assume that you would pick a place you know that both of you can be served with each of your preferences.....

(mental note :- lead with tea next time. Doh! )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mean this a nasty way but you maybe a couple but you don't play as a couple & you're not involved in anyway, other than attending the odd social event. I can see admins point of view your other half only meets as a single but via your profile he can get through lots of filters, I don't really see how your different to lots of other single men on here. I've got my hard hat on ready because my comments never go well here X"
administration are right.so op does your hubby message couples on your couples profile? If so then it's a way of getting around the rules. If not then you must see that couples who have been messed about will not like it.

When you fancy playing again then use the couples profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmmm & here we go...

At no point did I say you BOTH had to have sex via a profile, I said I understood what admin were saying & why some couples would be annoyed. There's no point getting arsey with comments, I've been where you are & for 6 months Ch3wy didn't meet, people commented that I was a single female on a couple profile. I could see their point but didn't bite, I'm entitled to express a view even if no one agrees. Thank you for being consistent reassures me X

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I think the easier solution, in the shorter-term, is to have 2 single profiles, so that you can run them as if single, though can state that you're part of a couple. You could then individually publish - or not - photos, as you wish. Either of you could meet, or just be taking your time to determine when you're ready again, whether for socials or otherwise. Perhaps you could rest what has been your couple's profile, until such time as your needs vary? It's hassle but you'll never know what information Admin have to hand and trying to get them to revisit and try to over-turn their decision now is likely much harder right now and may still result in the same decision from them. They perhaps have a limit on the amount of time that they will spend per investigation, based upon the huge workload. And the site doesn't offer vast amounts of support, whether a site supporter or not. It's sad to see good users leave, when you're established and known.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or maybe if only one of a couple plays then do the right thing and use a single profile.

It's a swinging site not a social site. But as always I,ll get we can do what we like bull. Administration said both have to play.what is wrong with that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or maybe if only one of a couple plays then do the right thing and use a single profile.

It's a swinging site not a social site. But as always I,ll get we can do what we like bull. Administration said both have to play.what is wrong with that?"

The female of the profile was actually getting back out there. Meeting one to one on a social level first, to gage the chemistry. What most do on this site to be fair.

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By *ite -meWoman
over a year ago

my house

It's a pity admin couldn't sort out all the fake profiles, fake pics and all the idiots on here instead of making a woman feel like shit.....shame on admin !!!. Waits for the forum ban.....

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

We'd rather they sorted out all the single female profiles who state in their profiles "I only meet with partner/FB"

We've little doubt had this been the guy taking a break with the lady continuing to play no one would have reported anything.

Hope you get it sorted but maybe as said a female profile, none sexual pics & a bit about social meets only for now & hide the couples profile until you are ready?

S&H

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