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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why is it that the man expects the woman to dress up stockings and suspender & look there best! when the men don't put any effort in like invest in decent underwear like it works both ways pull your socks up men!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody I ever met expected me to dress like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to look nice and dress sexy. I do like the man to also make the effort. I once had a meet and he opened the front door in his pj bottoms and scruffy saggy T shirt, I didnt stick around lol

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales


"I love to look nice and dress sexy. I do like the man to also make the effort. I once had a meet and he opened the front door in his pj bottoms and scruffy saggy T shirt, I didnt stick around lol"

I had one that when I said about taking a shower cause he'd just finished work asked me if I was joking?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been to a meet in my pyjamas and a hoodie

We were both hungover

I even went through Burger King drive thru to get us breakfast en route

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By *ve 63Woman
over a year ago

Newbridge


"Why is it that the man expects the woman to dress up stockings and suspender & look there best! when the men don't put any effort in like invest in decent underwear like it works both ways pull your socks up men! "

They expect us to have a cupboard full of every colour Basque , suspenders etc.. can't all afford them specially if unemployed but if any one wants to buy I won't say no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's wrong with rocking up in a pair of star wars pyjamas lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been to a meet in my pyjamas and a hoodie

We were both hungover

I even went through Burger King drive thru to get us breakfast en route "

Marry me! Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love to look nice and dress sexy. I do like the man to also make the effort. I once had a meet and he opened the front door in his pj bottoms and scruffy saggy T shirt, I didnt stick around lol"
thas just slobbish I wouldn't of stuck around either x mind I did hav a meet with a couple she opened the door in her dressing gown & old clothes on & when she did undress she had her everyday knickers on & a grey suppose to be white bra haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love to look nice and dress sexy. I do like the man to also make the effort. I once had a meet and he opened the front door in his pj bottoms and scruffy saggy T shirt, I didnt stick around lol"

Surely the clothes come off? Lol.

But get what you mean, look good, smell good, dress well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mammy always told me to wear clean pants every day....when I asked why she said in case I had an accident!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My mammy always told me to wear clean pants every day....when I asked why she said in case I had an accident! "

And the paramedics had to cut them off you?? Paramedics don't like skid marks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My mammy always told me to wear clean pants every day....when I asked why she said in case I had an accident!

And the paramedics had to cut them off you?? Paramedics don't like skid marks "

And I'll be yelling...no no not the Kalvin Kleins please god no!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's wrong with rocking up in a pair of star wars pyjamas lol"

Absolutely nothing !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that the man expects the woman to dress up stockings and suspender & look there best! when the men don't put any effort in like invest in decent underwear like it works both ways pull your socks up men! "

Yes Ma'am message received.. any preferences?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok then we are slobs. If we are home and looking to play hopefully we will play naked so no way would we doll up. We would however dress up a bit for a night out.

We would rather Basques and shocking were not worn.

Most are not only worn to look sexy but to hide a not perfect body but we ain't that shallow we like people who are confident in their skin and good company as well as fun in bed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok then we are slobs. If we are home and looking to play hopefully we will play naked so no way would we doll up. We would however dress up a bit for a night out.

We would rather Basques and shocking were not worn.

Most are not only worn to look sexy but to hide a not perfect body but we ain't that shallow we like people who are confident in their skin and good company as well as fun in bed."

Yay. Love you guys!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's wrong with rocking up in a pair of star wars pyjamas lol

Absolutely nothing !

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Full Darth Vader costume too much though? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As much as I love my lingerie I'd never meet someone who 'expected' me to wear it & have never had someone expect it. As for what a man wears it's of little relevance to me because I ask all men who enter my bedroom for fun to be naked, so long as they're clean in all areas I'm happy X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As much as I love my lingerie I'd never meet someone who 'expected' me to wear it & have never had someone expect it. As for what a man wears it's of little relevance to me because I ask all men who enter my bedroom for fun to be naked, so long as they're clean in all areas I'm happy X"
it must be the company I keep then x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's wrong with rocking up in a pair of star wars pyjamas lol

Absolutely nothing !

Full Darth Vader costume too much though? Lol"

A tad, maybe..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's wrong with rocking up in a pair of star wars pyjamas lol

Absolutely nothing !

Full Darth Vader costume too much though? Lol"

Does anyone remember the famous scene from the film Skin Deep?....no coincidence in case you were wondering.

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By *kblueeyesCouple
over a year ago

kilkenny


"Why is it that the man expects the woman to dress up stockings and suspender & look there best! when the men don't put any effort in like invest in decent underwear like it works both ways pull your socks up men! "

Gotta agree it's nice to put in the effort, smell good look good and you get the thumbs up, if you don't bother I surely won't it woulb be, so long fair well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As much as I love my lingerie I'd never meet someone who 'expected' me to wear it & have never had someone expect it. As for what a man wears it's of little relevance to me because I ask all men who enter my bedroom for fun to be naked, so long as they're clean in all areas I'm happy X it must be the company I keep then x"

I don't think it's the company as such, think it's more about being clear about you & respect. Anyone who 'expects' isn't being respectful. Preferences can be expressed in a more positive way X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As much as I love my lingerie I'd never meet someone who 'expected' me to wear it & have never had someone expect it. As for what a man wears it's of little relevance to me because I ask all men who enter my bedroom for fun to be naked, so long as they're clean in all areas I'm happy X it must be the company I keep then x

I don't think it's the company as such, think it's more about being clear about you & respect. Anyone who 'expects' isn't being respectful. Preferences can be expressed in a more positive way X"
x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As much as I love my lingerie I'd never meet someone who 'expected' me to wear it & have never had someone expect it. As for what a man wears it's of little relevance to me because I ask all men who enter my bedroom for fun to be naked, so long as they're clean in all areas I'm happy X it must be the company I keep then x

I don't think it's the company as such, think it's more about being clear about you & respect. Anyone who 'expects' isn't being respectful. Preferences can be expressed in a more positive way X"

100% with you Peach

When I was meeting, it was of no interest to me to meet mens' expectations. I never dressed or acted in a particular way to please anyone and never felt any pressure to do so either. I may sound selfish but I was meeting guys to satisfy my own wants, not theirs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP I agree with you.

However I drew the line at the meet that stained my hands with his fake tan.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I certainly don't expect stockings and suspenders. Much rather a big thigh length woolly jumper and nothing else. Grrrrr lol

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By *igNick1381Man
over a year ago

BRIDGEND


"Why is it that the man expects the woman to dress up stockings and suspender & look there best! when the men don't put any effort in like invest in decent underwear like it works both ways pull your socks up men! "

I'm confident but I don't know that I can pull off stockings and suspenders

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP I agree with you.

However I drew the line at the meet that stained my hands with his fake tan. "
ha x

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By *taffswenchCouple
over a year ago

South Wales/South West England

I always put my uniform on when the wench asks. It's only fair and I totally agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From now on all my meets are to turn up commando. Plus sexy faded Jeans hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always put my uniform on when the wench asks. It's only fair and I totally agree. "

That's a perfectly reasonable & acceptable ask not an expectation, be rude not met her desires if you both enjoy & gain from it X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that the man expects the woman to dress up stockings and suspender & look there best! when the men don't put any effort in like invest in decent underwear like it works both ways pull your socks up men! "

A woman can wear what she feels comfortable in and a guy should always wash and wear fresh clothes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If any lady is happy to answer the door dressed as Velma from scooby doo, that would tick one off the bucket list! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If any lady is happy to answer the door dressed as Velma from scooby doo, that would tick one off the bucket list! Lol"

I Mrs was out at a fancy dress party one night when I arranged a meet only I forgot to tell the guy I was dressed as Linda lahughes off gimme gimme gimme now that was a fun night after wee stopped laughing lol I'm still good friends with the guy to this day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If any lady is happy to answer the door dressed as Velma from scooby doo, that would tick one off the bucket list! Lol

I Mrs was out at a fancy dress party one night when I arranged a meet only I forgot to tell the guy I was dressed as Linda lahughes off gimme gimme gimme now that was a fun night after wee stopped laughing lol I'm still good friends with the guy to this day "

Savage lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From now on all my meets are to turn up commando. Plus sexy faded Jeans hehe "

You'll be asking for no socks next !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From now on all my meets are to turn up commando. Plus sexy faded Jeans hehe

You'll be asking for no socks next ! "

They got to wear socks, im not a bare foot lover

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only time I’ve worn underwear in the last 10 years is to go through airport security and the doctors .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fur coat and no knickers.

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